🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 7 🦕

@MrsF111 I really hope you get some good news soon. Xx

@Babyghirl I hope you enjoy your horse back riding lol🤣🤣xxxx

@PeanuttyButter
Men 😠😠😠😠😠 they just don't understand you have every right to be upset it hits me when I hear them to, I wish sometimes we could take the batteries out off r men and just put them bck in when we need them 😂😂😂😂😂, yep bck to horse riding again gs I should be a pro at it nw and only ever been on one in my life 😂😂😂😂😂😂 the best female jokie going lol. Xx

That's so annoying @MrsF111 hope you get an answer soon so you're not in limbo. Do you really not want to be pregnant at your wedding?

@miscarriage39 you would think that there should be some consistency when it's such a sensitive topic.

@babyghirl back to horse riding then haha

Found out my cousin is pregnant today. Due 17 days after I was due. So that's 3 close friends/family that have announced since I misscarried. Feeling like a punch bag to be honest. DH thinks my sadness about it all is unnecessary. Glad I have you guys who understands.

@MrsF111 that's all super frustrating for you- I have been spotting for about 6 days pre af each month since the mc and messed up cycles are so frustrating.

@Miscarriage39 I'm so sorry your surgery are so useless :( it's mega annoying that you've had to wait so long for your results and like you say to now be under a 3rd doctor who doesn't know you or your situation. Fertility clinic sounds positive- how are you feeling about going that route?

CD24 here and nothing to report!

Well cd3 for me and period tampering of so nearly time to get on with the dtd again lol.

Tested again this morning and it’s negative, just don’t know what’s going on, I used ovulation strips and got a positive 2 weeks ago, had what I though was spotting 7dpo to 10dpo and still a bfn. I just feel so exhausted and defeated by the whole thing. I’m running out of time to be pregnant and have the baby before my wedding next summer. Just feel so incredibly miserable

*consultation! I suspect the only think it’ll consolidate is my knowledge that our surgery is useless!

Congratulations ELM7. I have everything crossed for you that this is your sticky bean.

So good to hear that you are getting your early scan without a fight H0peing.

Sorry the witch got you PeanuttyButter, but we’ll done for putting an optimistic spin on it.

I have the phone consolidation with my GP tomorrow, where I’ll get the result from the blood tests that were requested 7 weeks ago and taken over three weeks ago. Given that we have lost another pregnancy in the meantime, it’s going to be a horrible call. No idea who it’s even with. Both locus I have been under since my initial miscarriage have left, so this will be another doctor I’ve never had contact with.

We also spoke to a fertility clinic yesterday. They have said I need to wait for a period and contact them, so they can do all the tests at the right stage of my cycle. Not 100% about going through with it, but we’ll see.

@H0peing I called the ward that I was on post ERPC and they wanted to see me if I hadn't had a bleed by next week. Woke up this morning to a full AF painful and lots of cramps but I'm not going to complain I'm sooo glad it's here because I feel like I can move on now. Phew.

Thank you all for all your support it's been a really difficult few months and I'm grateful for you all and this group x

Thank you ladies. Still not really letting myself believe it but did at least tell my Husband this morning.

@Annny27 nothing different this month to other months really. Didn’t go crazy with DTD lots in FW which actually the other 2 times we’ve got the BFP was after either only DTD once or twice so that seems to work better for us than every other day.

@PeanuttyButter which tests did you use and what time? Maybe they're false negatives? Maybe test again in a couple of days if there's still no AF in full flow? Do you think it's worth calling your doctor for advice? Sending love Xx

Guys my period still isn't here properly. Bit of light brown when I wipe that's all, awful cramps. Tests all BFN. To be honest this is what my period was like at the start of July just a bit of brown for 2 days and nothing else. This is even worse than AF in full flow because I feel like there's something wrong with me.

@MrsF111 I’m sure I can see a faint shadow line!

@ELM7 OMG congratulations 🎉 ❤️

@MrsF111 Thanks! Xx

@MrsF111 frer smu with a 4 hour hold worked for me first before Clearblue got it. X

@H0peing that’s great news! Not long to wait for you

Thanks ladies, I might order some FRER. I was so confident for this month praying it’s just a little early 🤞

I had a call this morning from the EPU and they have booked me in for a 6 week scan on 11th August at 3pm! I feel very grateful to have been offered such an early scan on the NHS but I've been told that they usually offer early scans to everyone 40+

@MrsF111 I would definitely recommend trying a frer using smu. When I tried fmu with frer it was negative and I only got a bright pink line when using smu. Now that it's slightly further along it is showing up on a clearblue digital with fmu but it wasn't at first. X

@ELM7 Congratulations!!! Xx

@Gummybear17 Glad your scan went well! X

Sorry that AF has arrived @babyghirl

Still got my fingers crossed for you @mrsf111

Congratulations on the BFP @elm7 ☺️