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🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 7 🦕

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Annny27 · 29/06/2021 21:08

Hello ladies,

Time for a new thread for us dinosaurs and for any newbies that find themselves ttc after miscarriage ❤

Tagging those who I remember from top of my head and them will add the others in later 🥰

@Elm7
@babyghirl
@27donfin
@kiwi17
@sweetbabydust1989

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PeanuttyButter · 07/08/2021 17:51

@Spotsmama welcome to the group. Same as what @babyghirl said it could be a chemical pregnancy which is tough I know.

Babyghirl · 07/08/2021 17:50

@Annny27
Sorry the bitch turned up 😠😠😠😠 but glad it was only 3 days of spotting this month I'm getting my normal ovulation pain nw cd12 norm for me so I can get of the horse dtd this morning before I went to work so I'm out lol 💚

PeanuttyButter · 07/08/2021 17:50

Oh @H0peing I'm so so sorry. Lots of love from me. Take care of yourself xx

Babyghirl · 07/08/2021 17:48

@spotsmama
So sorry to hear about ur loss and u find your self with us but glad u found us for support, how far along where when you miscarriaged and was it the end of june did you get a nagitive test after the loss sorry for all the questions but can take a few weeks for a test to turn nagitive so just looking to c when the bleeding from your loss ended I was getting a faint positive after my miscarriage in Feb right up until I took my first period or it could be a chemical pregnancy 💚

Spotsmama · 07/08/2021 17:12

Hi all, after two losses we started again ttc in June. My period was due today, Saturday but I was to I. Patient to wait so did an early test. We got a faint positive, I took this as pregnant. My husband wanted more reassurance so I did another test this morning, first wee and got another positive, still faint but a positive. Just two hours later I started to bleed. Just like a period.im presuming this is a very early MC. Anyone had this, if I had never done the early test I would of assumed this was just a period. Is this a early MC? I'm devastated.
Don't know what I'm hoping to gain from this post. Just struggling.

Annny27 · 07/08/2021 16:58

@H0peing that's so sad to hear :( losing any baby to miscarriage is tough but twins is even harder ♥️ look after yourself for sure and try and enjoy your meal and holiday xx

I am cd1 today girls - only had 3 days of spotting so quite pleased with that!

On to the next month 🙄🙄

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kiwi17 · 07/08/2021 13:13

Oh @H0peing I'm so sorry 😢 what a sad situation for you - I hope that you have a nice evening and a good week away and that you heal properly.

Babyghirl · 07/08/2021 12:57

@HOpeing
Omg I am so sorry to hear this big hugs from me, please look after yourself and take it easy we will all get r rainbow babies soon xx

H0peing · 07/08/2021 12:33

Hello lovely ladies,

Unfortunately I had heavy bleeding and cramping yesterday so I was offered a scan and found out that I'd lost one twin and they weren't sure that the other one would make it because I was still bleeding. I continued to bleed with painful cramps last night and my previously bloated belly had gone down so I knew it wasn't looking good this morning. I did a Clearblue pregnancy test this morning and now I know that I've lost the other one as well as it clearly states 'Not pregnant' so I've gone down to less than 25 in hcg levels. Very upset but we're doing our best to stay positive.

We're going out for dinner this evening to celebrate our wedding anniversary so we're looking forward to that and hopefully we'll be successful the next time we try. We'll be on holiday (UK) for a week near the beach at the end of this month so that will be a welcome break in a beautiful cottage through Air B & B. Feel like I need a holiday!

Sending lots of love to you all and, especially after what we've all been through, I am really hoping for future success stories in this group! It would be so beautiful to see us all posting photo's of our babies in this group within the next year!!!xx

MrsF111 · 06/08/2021 22:42

@apwilso I can’t totally relate, I was convinced I was having implantation bleeding last month, a week after I thought I ovulated but it turned out to just be an early and very very light period. Our bodies can be so infuriating

apwilso · 06/08/2021 21:07

@PeanuttyButter @Babyghirl thanks. It's just not nice. I've had multiple hints towards being pregnant this month so to see this now is horrible. Really hope we all get our chance xx

Babyghirl · 06/08/2021 21:06

@apwilso
It's a tough journey to go through the longer it gets for me the harder it is but we can support each other through this so sorry the witch looks like it has arrived big hugs. 💚
@PeanuttyButter
Good look with the TV ultrasound and I hope your body just needs time to reset. 💚

PeanuttyButter · 06/08/2021 20:35

@apwilso you are so right. It's bumpy up and downs constantly.

I've still not had what I would consider a true period since my ERPC, had loads of brown stuff, bit of pink at times when I wipe and loads of pain around the time my period was due. I also feel really uncomfortable in the pelvic reason, crampy all the time. All pregnancy tests negative. It all came to a head last week when I couldn't stop crying for no reason. Felt like I was having the worst period of my life for days but nothing coming out. Rang the GP and I've got a TV ultrasound on Tuesday. GP is querying leftover products so we will see.

apwilso · 06/08/2021 20:09

Honestly this TTC journey is rocky.

After 12 days of being late and 2 days of extremely light spotting gone to the toilet tonight wiped and pink red blood. I'm heartbroken. I thought it was implantation bleeding but god knows. See how light this flow is if it stays like this I will test once it's finished if not I don't know. It's been been nearly 4 months since my miscarriage and it's getting harder and harder

Babyghirl · 06/08/2021 20:06

@mrsF111
Oh I knw esp cause they know what I'm going through safe to say I deleted myself from the group, all up when u have outsiders rubbing it in ur face but to have family doing it to is utter shit, times when I don't think I can go on and I would be better of out of here and he would be better off on his own without me I'm not use to him anyway 🙈🙈🙈🙈 xx

MrsF111 · 06/08/2021 19:53

@Babyghirl so shit for you that’s she’s pregnant again and so insensitive to announce it like that! Makes me so angry when people do things like that!

@H0peing I can’t believe the first doctor was so cruel to just say “look no pregnancy!” How do the not realise how much pain they cause when they say that!! Honestly al Doctors and the sonographers should go on a misscarraige course. They seem to have no clue how upsetting it all is. Sounds like positive news afterwards though which is fantastic!

Hi to all the new ladies who joined, so sorry you found yourselves on here but it’s the most amazing support

Sweetbabydust1989 · 06/08/2021 19:51

@Babyghirl I hate the waiting it's a nightmare makes me worry.. yeah I do hope so it's coming around so fast now October felt ages away but it's not xx

Babyghirl · 06/08/2021 19:49

@sweetbabydust1989
No not as of yet just 3 weeks ago nw from I had it so just waiting on my consultant to get back to me about it nw you will be fine for your op xx

Sweetbabydust1989 · 06/08/2021 19:46

@Babyghirl I have been doing ovulation tests for the last few days the app tells me when to do it I no it's coming I feel awful and bad pains on my left side. Dreading my op so badly scared it will be worse than I initially thought. Have you had anymore scans lovely?? Xx

kiwi17 · 06/08/2021 19:29

Erghhh can you get the beast period 5 months after a miscarriage?! Think I'm paying for the two light ones and months of 6 day pre af spotting! On the weird side it does feel like my body may be having a good clear out and maybe we'll be all reset ready for a rainbow! 😂🤞

Babyghirl · 06/08/2021 06:56

@sweetbabydust1989
Maybe you missed ur surge and its happening nw x

Babyghirl · 06/08/2021 06:56

@sweetbabydust1989
Picked up after being knocked sideways the other day, no more tests yet just my scan a few weeks ago so just waiting on a call with the results nw. I'm sure you r shitting urself cause I would be myself but just remember you will be out cold and awake with it all over u in no time xx

Sweetbabydust1989 · 06/08/2021 00:21

@Babyghirl hey hun I am all good surgery all booked in for beginning of October I am so bloody scared. They're doing so much stuff I can't get my head around it I no it's a lap and dye but not sure on the hysteroscopy and what it is kinda have an idea. How are you?? Have you had any more tests yet.. just done an ovulation test as I am doubled over in pain but it's negative atm I no it's coming xx

kiwi17 · 05/08/2021 20:05

Oooh fingers crossed for you! I presume you've taken a pg test? I guess you wait a couple of days and then take another one they say if it's ib? 🤞🤞

apwilso · 05/08/2021 17:42

@kiwi17 no no blood tests at all. I'm terrible at taking vitamins was on the usual folic acid and b6 last month but had a cycle since then and everything was normal. I've had some spotting that started last night and had nothing now since really just some light pink. Hoping it's implantation but a girl can dream