June - 8DPO - Anyone with me?

Hi @Pasha82 ..I don't think this is my month. AF due tomorrow / Sunday, I've had nausea the past week but i get that every month with pms, my bbt has been a mess but its only my first month. Feeling dejected and down but it is what it is

Hi @LeeTTCRainbow got everything crossed for you

I've had faint opks so don't think I've ovulated yet! I'm CD 15 and I ovulate late every month which I think is the problem.

Either way I'm just having sex every other day and trying to chillout. I won't be able to test until late in the month so is still early days for me

Good luck everyone

Hi @LeeTTCRainbow that must be a hard for you and I sincerely hope you get your bfp this cycle as you deserve it. Hope the wedding prep is going well.

This cycle for me has been bad because my partner was unable to ejaculate at the right time ie day of ovulation. I'm not holding out any hope tbh. I've stopped using my Premom app and I've decided to just take a break from actively ttc and just having regular sex to take the pressure off. I don't have any symptoms other than the usual pms, which is how it was when I conceived my DD, so it's hard to tell what's different. I'm not going to test because I don't think we did it at the right time.

How are all the other ladies doing this cycle? @Joni82 @ViL89 @Skincareaddict @pinkypink24 @Waitingforyou1 @AureliaRose @Charliecircle11

Fingers crossed x

Congratulations to all the BFP's

Sorry been absent last few weeks, been so busy which has helped time pass, but its that time again ovulation due this weekend I really hope this is our month, realised we are 11 months in for ttc with 2 losses and still childless, also my due date for first loss is end of the month so getting that BFP will really help, i need this, its our time, come on swimmers.

Good luck anyone on the July bus with me.
@Pasha82 @pinkypink24 how are you?

Nothing apart from tingly boobs itchy nipples

@joni82 so sorry you had to go through that 😔 so heartbreaking I cannot even imagine, do you feel anything different this month or suspecting anything xx

Well done , I had a missed miscarriage in April at 11 weeks, took 7 weeks to start my period again, this is our first month trying abs I don’t know how u have all done it months on end, I feel like giving up now and due on in 5 days

Thankyou @pasha82 it really means so much to mean, I can't explain the feeling, I thought I could never have any xx

Congratulations @Behopefulbekind that's great news. Good luck in your pregnancy x

Thankyou so much @skincareaddict we are chuffed to bits!! Infact I think its been 5 months, it just shows don't give up xx

Congratulations @Behopefulbekind that is lovely news!!

Girls I honeslty cannot believe it.. the only month I really thought it wasn't going to happen, its happened!! I've got pcos and it's taken me i think 4 months I thought I would never get pregnant i feel so relieved im actually crying 😭😍

I no its so hard and I would say just have fun but I dont take my own advice! Remember using opka the positive could be that you have also already ovulated so they aren't great to use anyway, have fun excersize and eat healthy then see how you go if nothing see the gp xx

Thanks @Skincareaddict @Behopefulbekind I think it's the pressure of getting older and time not being on my side. It's taken the enjoyment out of sex. We used to have a really good sex life and now it's rubbish. I'll get over it and you are right, because a break may be what we need to reconnect. I think I'm going to ditch the opks too because I can't hide the sense of urgency and he just seems to know!

I wish you luck in your ttc journey😊

Theirs nothing worse then it feeling forced so don't tell your partner when you are ovulating and just come on to him lol if he knows he has to its off putting and that goes for anyone no matter what you look like, so please don't take it personal.
I've got period pains due on in 4 days so not hopeful this month at all AGAIN lol 🤦‍♀️🙄 xx

@Pasha82 I'm so sorry to hear that you feel this way. Ttc is so exhausting isn't it? Sometimes taking some time away is just what you need and you may just fall pregnant as soon as you feel you are 'done' with ttc. I would say don't give up completely but do not be harsh on yourself either- take the break if its good for you.

I've been feeling really down the past few days and disheartened too, I need to get out of my head because all I do is worry > then try and justify why I'm being silly > back to worry

How is everyone doing this cycle? I'm feeling a bit fed up of ttc tbh. My partner is feeling too much pressure and now cannot seem to orgasm on the day I ovulate which is making me feel like an even bigger failure! I'm seriously considering giving up and just trying to accept that it's not going to work for us. I might convince him to let me have a dog!

Has anyone else had similar issues?

I haven't had any symptoms, doubt I'm pregnant this will be the 4th or 5th month now 🙃 😳

I’m the same as you, not sure symptoms are due on or if I’ve managed to concieve

Thanks @Pasha82 fingers crossed for July

@LeeTTCRainbow so sorry to hear this I really feel your pain, I had so much drama and stress with my wedding postponements too and everything seeming to go wrong at the same time. I hope your mum recovers quickly, whatever happens it'll be a magical day your definitely due for some good luck soon so have everything crossed for you

Hi everyone, I'm also trying to concieve! Im due on in a week but getting period pains now so maybe its coming early. Has anyone got any useful tips that helped them fall quickly? Good luck to all trying this month 🤞 xx

@LeeTTCRainbow oh no, that's terrible, your poor mother and that's not what you need in the run up to your wedding. You've had your fair share of crap this year. Things have to start looking up for you. Stay positive even though it is hard. Can you book a night away in a hotel or book a massage just to relax. Sending hugs x

@Waitingforyou1 stay positive, it's early days and it will happen. It took me 12 months with my first. I did pretty much the same thing each month. It was only when I stopped trying so hard that it eventually happened.

@Pasha82 usually a 30 day cycle, been regular all year, really frustrating, but today I'm feeling that AF is on its way. Think it's coming soon tbh. Shame. Not sure if it will ever happen for me.

It doesnt rain it pours.
Honestly this last year and this year is cursed for me i swear.

. Engagement ring broke had to have remade in time for wedding
. Covid then cancelled hendo and wedding
. My dad had a scare with his heart thankfully ok.
. Found out pregnant in November then 3 months later missed miscarriage then lead to D&C
. Lack of period and going through all that stress.
. Found out pregnant again in march, then another miscarriage.

. Been trying since and no luck just had AF.
. And now my mums in hospital with a broken back with 9 weeks to go before wedding.

Long story short my mum had a accident last night fell off her horse, she's ok in herself luckily just in alot of pain, but turns out fractured her back in 2 places and broken her leg, wheelchair will be needed, and recovery is 5/6 months i just cant believe it, she's so upset about it all and more so about the wedding situation.

Just cant believe so much bad luck can happen to one person.
Happy Friday.

@ViL89 sorry to hear that. It messes with the mind as the symptoms for pregnancy are identical to AF. Fingers crossed for July.

@Waitingforyou1 what is the longest cycle you have ever had or are your cycles like clockwork? It must be frustrating for you but hang in there. There's still a chance if AF hasn't arrived.