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Gearing up for baby number 2... TTC thread!

38 replies

HereWeGoAgain24 · 07/06/2021 10:29

Decided it's time to try for DC2 soon in a couple of months, anyone in the same boat?

I'm off to the shops today to pick up some folic acid and may buy a pineapple so I can eat the core... it seemed to help last time with conception 🤷🏼‍♀️😂

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abbs1 · 08/06/2021 18:56

@pajamalife i really hope you get your bfp soon. I had the astrazenica jab before all the blood clotting stuff was made known as im a carer and my cycles are now all over the place. My last one was 5 days late and 4 days of cramping before any af.
Ive got some cheap ovulation sticks so i can start seeing whats going on and i seem to be ovulating a lot earlier than i thought. Could you maybe get some?

But im trying my best not to stress and just see what happens.

HereWeGoAgain24 · 08/06/2021 16:16

@PajamaLife oh no that sounds so frustrating!! I have heard a lot of those things can affect your cycles too, especially the vaccine! I didn't experience any chance to mine personally but a lot of women i know have so you're probably in the majority.

Hopefully it returns (not often we say that is it 😂) and then you get another chance of conceiving!

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PajamaLife · 08/06/2021 15:54

I'm hoping to conceive baby #2 too! I have a DS who will be three in July. We were really lucky that he was conceived in the first month of trying. I found his birth quite traumatic, so I'm apprehensive of doing it all again, but also so excited to add another darling to our family!

Last month was our first month TTC #2. Frustratingly, my period is now a week late and no positive pregnancy test! Not even a hint of a line on any of them! So I'm assuming that even though my cycle is usually a regular 30-31 day cycle, I might have ovulated late or not at all last month. Trying not to worry about it too much as there are a few possible reasons - at the start of May I had the Pfizer vaccine and I've heard a few women say that has thrown their cycle off, I have been under a lot of stress at work, and also I've been taking Pregnacare vitamins - there is a statement on the box that says some women have reported changes to their menstrual cycles after taking them.
I'm just really hoping that my period will come along soon so that we can try again. Fingers crossed!
Good luck, ladies!

abbs1 · 08/06/2021 10:16

Oh thats a good idea! 😂

HereWeGoAgain24 · 08/06/2021 08:47

@abbs1

Oh my gosh! Sounds so similar to my birth. I had a failed epidural after being basically forced into having one and they never turned my drip off! Im just thankful the midwife told my husband to pull the emergency buzzer and thr consultant ran in and got baby out quick. Thank goodness you and baby were all ok. And in lockdown i cant even imagine. I was lucky enough to still have my husband with me.

Yes i really hope we get our BFPs soon and much better births.

So pleased you managed to get baby out and everything was ok Thanks!

Another option I used to do with the pills to remember nearing the end of my pregnancy was get a little pill pot with the days on... felt like an OAP but it was easy to follow 😂

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abbs1 · 07/06/2021 19:19

Oh my gosh! Sounds so similar to my birth. I had a failed epidural after being basically forced into having one and they never turned my drip off! Im just thankful the midwife told my husband to pull the emergency buzzer and thr consultant ran in and got baby out quick.
Thank goodness you and baby were all ok. And in lockdown i cant even imagine. I was lucky enough to still have my husband with me.

Yes i really hope we get our BFPs soon and much better births.

HereWeGoAgain24 · 07/06/2021 18:57

[quote abbs1]@herewegoagain24
Oh thats good to know. I will see if I can get some!

Oh gosh I hope you have a much better birth next time. No they induced me and I had a very intense quick 7 hour labour with back to back contractions no breaks from 15mins after inductionwas given. Nearly lost him at one point so they had to do an episiotomy and quick pull him out! All 3 days before lockdown so very stressful. I only found out after i should have had a c section. [/quote]
Oh my gosh! That does sound traumatic!
I was similar with back to back contractions and induction (had to turn drip off numerous times) and we almost lost him too! 1 failed epidural whilst projectile vomiting (🤦🏼‍♀️) and 1 successful one, by time that kicked in it was decided a c-section was safest 😰
And it was 4 weeks into lockdown so was by myself for the start of the induction.

Let's hope our experience next time goes better! 😂

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abbs1 · 07/06/2021 16:37

@herewegoagain24
Oh thats good to know. I will see if I can get some!

Oh gosh I hope you have a much better birth next time. No they induced me and I had a very intense quick 7 hour labour with back to back contractions no breaks from 15mins after inductionwas given. Nearly lost him at one point so they had to do an episiotomy and quick pull him out! All 3 days before lockdown so very stressful. I only found out after i should have had a c section.

HereWeGoAgain24 · 07/06/2021 16:28

@firsttimemummy321

I’m sorry to hear about your losses, I hope you get your rainbow soon! DC1 is 13 months old

@abbs1

I know what you mean, I never remember to take my multivitamins so let’s see how I go with this 😂 I used the seven seas ‘trying for a baby’ last time and it had days on like the pill does so that was easier.

I’m with you on the horrendous birth, I ended up with an emergency C-section last time, did you have Caesarean given the pre-eclampsia?
Sorry to hear about your miscarriage, hopefully you will have an easier ride this time 🤞🏼

@EnjoyingTheSunshine
I’m sorry to hear about your miscarriage, I was very lucky like you and conceived DS in our first cycle too. I hope it happens this cycle for you 🤞🏼

The pineapple core thing - I don’t even know where I read/heard about it but apparently it helps with fertility... could’ve been coincidental conceiving first time 🤷🏼‍♀️ I did a few other things too life no alcohol, caffeine etc. But I think I wanna take a more relaxed approach this time!

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EnjoyingTheSunshine · 07/06/2021 13:09

@HereWeGoAgain24

Hey, we're also trying to conceive our 2nd at the moment.

I have an almost 10 month old baby boy, who we conceived in the first cycle of trying.

Due to my age ( 34) we started ttc our 2nd at the beginning of this year.

We got lucky after two cycles, but unfortunately I had a very early miscarriage in February.

Since then I haven't had success,had three unsuccessful cycles after miscarriage and I'm just in my fourth cycle, waiting to ovulate.

I'm trying everything this month, grapefruit juice, evening primrose oil, you name it 😂 Also started to take Ubiquinol after my miscarriage and lots of vitamin supplements.

Out of interest, how did pineapple core help you last time? Never heard of it.

Wishing you lots of baby dust x

abbs1 · 07/06/2021 13:06

Yes we are planning in the next few months but if it happens sooner thats ok too. Im so bad at remembering to take folic acid though.
My previous pregnancy and birth was horrendous with hyperemesis and then pre eclampsia. We also lost our first baby through miscarriage so im hoping for an easier ride this time 🤞

firsttimemummy321 · 07/06/2021 12:21

🙋‍♀️

Already been casually trying (not trying to put too much pressure on but never happens 😂)
Had multiple early losses so been referred to the recurrent miscarriage clinic.
How old is your first?

HereWeGoAgain24 · 07/06/2021 12:15

Bump

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