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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Newbie looking for some support

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Peachycream · 27/05/2021 20:44

Hi ladies,

I’ve been lurking for a few days, just seeing what the deal is, trying to work out some of the terminology used, mostly going to post but then getting scared and carry on lurking haha.

I don’t really have anyone I can talk about the TTC journey with in my real life as we aren’t telling anyone as it stands so I’m hoping maybe I can make a few friends here that I can obsess and stress out with 🤣

I’m currently CD 7 in my first cycle so tracking with OPKs every day right now so that I can get a clearer picture of my cycle each month.

I’m 30 and this will be our 1st,

If anyone has any advice/is in a similar position to me or just wants a natter I’d love to hear from you 😊

Xx

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glasspaw · 16/06/2021 08:11

@HRP1990 It still feels like the test is telling me something that my brain can’t really process if I’m honest haha. Very sleepy the last few days but then not able to actually sleep through the night. I think that’s the heat though! It is sweltering already this morning!

KayL1988 · 16/06/2021 07:55

So glad it's getting darker @glasspaw !! 🥰🥰

HRP1990 · 16/06/2021 07:52

Lots of catch up on this morning!

@SkeletonSkins that diagram is so useful, thanks for that! I’m going to reference it when my thermometer arrives! Is it best to start when AF finishes?

@Dannii892 I’m so excited for you!! Fingers crossed for the weekend, do you think you can wait that long to test 😂

@glasspaw glad to hear the good news - darker is a good sign! How have you found the past couple of days, has it sunk in yet?

glasspaw · 16/06/2021 07:39

@Dannii892 ooh fingers crossed for you!

For everyone thinking about stocking up on FRERs, I got mine here homehealth-uk.com/product-category/pregnancy-ovulation-tests/first-response-tests/

Free shipping and a bit cheaper than on the high street. I also bought a tonne of the one step cheapies from there too which I now have stashed in a box (though I’ll admit, I did another this morning to check a) I didn’t imagine Sunday and b) that the line was getting darker…it is 😅

Dannii892 · 15/06/2021 22:31

@justwant2beamum yes you're right.. im just going to wait until the weekend and test.. just so bizarre as I've never spotted before and always on time with AF BUT time will tell and for the moment I will put it in the back of my coconut ❤

justwant2beamum · 15/06/2021 22:23

@Dannii892 could be implantation bleeding, 🤞🏻 for you. But I don't think anyone could tell you any more from what it looks like tbh. Spotting is spotting and at 10dpo could be implantation or could be period coming early. It's one of those horrible things I know you want an answer but the only thing you can do is wait and see ❤️

SkeletonSkins · 15/06/2021 22:16

Thanks @Babyghirl ive for FF, that’s where I got those graphs from I posted before, I’d never be able to work out out myself 😂😂

Babyghirl · 15/06/2021 21:57

@SkeletonSkins
Down load fertility friend and put ur temp in they do the rest of the work for you 💚

SkeletonSkins · 15/06/2021 21:53

@Babyghirl right brill thank you, I’m just going to stop overthinking it and start tomorrow with them!

@Peachycream yeah kind of, I did this gorgeous diagram lol to try and explain it. You need 3 temps above your average normal temp to confirm ovulation. The main thing is you need to try and temp at the same time each day (roughly) and before you get up for a wee etc. I sleep quite badly but ive mostly managed okay. TMI but ive switched to vaginal temping this month as it’s meant to be a bit more steady if you wake up frequently but oral works fine.

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Dannii892 · 15/06/2021 21:50

@SkeletonSkins I've never spotted in my life.. would posted a pic actually be TMI??? I need opinions.. im 10dpo and had a bfn this morning x

SkeletonSkins · 15/06/2021 21:46

@Dannii892 could totally be implantation spotting, could be a good thing! Spotting can be totally normal.

Dannii892 · 15/06/2021 21:33

GUYS! IM FREAKING OUT!! I just went to the loo and tmi coming up had spotting on my tissue! I really want to send a picture to see what you think.. im 9 days away from 🧙‍♀️.. please please please help.. im freaking out!

Babyghirl · 15/06/2021 20:45

@peachycream
3 years of tracking was getting to much and I got to know my body I mostly get the ovulation pain aswell so that indicates it for me to yea just the same as in ur mouth if you wake up an hour or 2 before your norm time take it then as you have to have 3 hours or more uninterrupted sleep for it to be accurate so if u wake at 5 and ur alarm goes of at say 6.30 7 take it at 5 for a better reading xx

Peachycream · 15/06/2021 20:28

@Babyghirl oh that’s good, not long to wait for you then, hopefully this cycle will be a lucky one for you lovely ☺️

Yeah the same time every day is fine for me because I’m up at the same time anyway, my only issue with it would be I have disturbed sleep so I’m not sure how useful I will find it but I figure it’s not going to hurt anything just to check it out, even if I only do it for 1 cycle if I’m not finding it’s working for me. I’m guessing vaginally you do it the same way? Just in there rather than in your mouth?
Do you use any tracking methods now or did you stop because it was a bit much? Xx

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Babyghirl · 15/06/2021 20:22

@SkeletonSkins
I use to use the lh strips they say from 2 to 8 is best time to test with them and try nt to drink for a few hours before hand as they say your hormone for them rises during the day so won't be in ur system early morning 💚

Babyghirl · 15/06/2021 20:19

@peachycream
Im cd9 today norm ovulate between cd11/13 so not long to go I use to do temp but it was stressing me out. Some ladies will c a drop in temp the day ovulation occurs then rise the nxt day if you do temp download fertility friend and that will give you a crosshair for ovulation once it detacts 3 days of raised temp It gets easier after a while of doing it but remember you need to do it same time every morning before moving out of bed don't even drink anything before taking it and can I say better taking in vaginally as you get a better reading as doing it by mouth can be off if u sleep with ur mouth open 💚

Peachycream · 15/06/2021 20:18

@SkeletonSkins so basically you’re looking for a dip for ovulation and then a dip for AF? Big dips I’m guessing? Small ones are just normal fluctuation?

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SkeletonSkins · 15/06/2021 20:10

Brill thanks I’m going to do it tomorrow AM!

SkeletonSkins · 15/06/2021 20:09

It’s pretty straight forward once you’re used to it I promise, basically after you ovulate your temp goes up and stays up till your period, which you can see in my first graph at the end, if the temps stay up you’re probably pregnant…

Peachycream · 15/06/2021 19:49

@SkeletonSkins it depends on what ones you’re using, The CB digi ones ask for FMU but the strip ones I use on second, I’ve read that LH starts secreting after 4am so I would say as long as it’s at least an hour after that maybe it doesn’t really matter? But don’t take my word on that because it’s only 1 thing I’ve read on it

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Peachycream · 15/06/2021 19:46

Gosh that looks confusing?! I think someone is gunna need to talk us temping newbies through all of this? Me for certain.

So here’s a question I never thought I’d ask out loud (or typed online for the rest of time) has anyone had a little……..root about to check cervix positions?

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SkeletonSkins · 15/06/2021 19:40

Those that opk in the morning do you just do it for your second wee if the day?

SkeletonSkins · 15/06/2021 19:39

This was my BBT for the last (really long) cycle that I ovulated, it’s really clear the increase in temp post ovulation, in comparison to the second graph which was last cycle, when I didn’t ovulate but my body made a couple of failed attempts with EWCM etc. I think I might have pvualtednif I hadn’t started taking the conceive plus, as that seemed to do a recent and I started spotting almost straight away. Final graph is this month so far 😂 so it’s handy because without temping I might have though I ovulated last cycle cause I got EWCM and a period, I’ll be interested to see if I get positive OPKs too when my body tries but fails (although best scenario is that stops happening!!)

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Peachycream · 15/06/2021 19:37

@Babyghirl where are you in your current cycle? I’m sorry it’s been so long for you, sorry I’ve only just caught that message 🙈

@KayL1988 I’ve seen those (I spent a good 3 hours trying to find out what they were when my premom app told me to do one 😂) you can get urine strips to do it which are masses cheaper BUT! From what I’ve found you can only get them in America and they don’t ship over here! The only ones I’ve found here you have to order, gob in a pot, post it back and wait a week for an email, by that point you may as well just wait the extra few days for either 🧙 or a BFP haha!

Bless ya with work though, are you back in the office now then? I’m assuming it’s an office, it could be a boat for all I know 😂

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KayL1988 · 15/06/2021 19:31

Yeah they say you can temp test everyday because it tracks the pattern!

Our bodies are amazing and yes it says you don't ovulate a couple of months a year... so I'm obviously over any test that can help. Apparently cervical mucus and temp was how they used to do it back it the day!!!

Heyyy @Peachycream nothing exciting just been working.. nearly home now .. such a long day!! Ready for a nap!! Also there is a test for ovulation confirmation!!! It's called a PdG tests... but super expensive!

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