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Praying AF doesn't turn up

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My2boysaremyworld · 21/05/2021 20:22

Hi everyone Smile so Iv been feeling sick since last Saturday. Appetite is up and down but craving greasy food. AF is due on Sunday but been cramping on and off since yesterday Confused I did 2 tests this morning, one normal and one that can test up to 5 days early. Both were negative. I just feel so different, the nausea is my biggest sign for me I'm hoping. Anybody else waiting? Smile

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ChikiTIKI · 25/05/2021 21:21

Sorry to hear your update @my2boysaremyworld

ChikiTIKI · 25/05/2021 21:20

A celebratory pud sounds lovely.
I'm not sure if I will test on Friday or not tbh. We are having family come to stay who we haven't seem in a really long time the next day. I don't know...

First time I had a bfp I tested alone while husband was out. I made him a card and put the test in it. He was shell shocked!!

Second time I did it super early and brought the test to bed. Had a miscarriage that time about 9 weeks.

Third time I took an asda test in Morrisons (won't bore you with the story), I wanted to look at it together but it showed up positive so fast I already knew. By the time I got to the car, it was very dark and obvious.

Maybe this time I will give him a pot of wee and let him do it!! So he can tell me!

TheWeeDonkeys · 25/05/2021 21:19

@My2boysaremyworld yeah Grin been meaning to change it for a while, I think people I know in RL would know me by my other name. They would probably put 2 + 2 together.

Thanks @feliznavidad2. Im rubbish with coming up with new names.

feliznavidad2 · 25/05/2021 21:14

Love the name @TheWeeDonkeys

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My2boysaremyworld · 25/05/2021 21:14

@Bundaberg84

disclaimer, I might have said oh fck not oh shit.
🤣🤣
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My2boysaremyworld · 25/05/2021 21:13

@TheWeeDonkeys

Sorry, I’m actually Mrschicken I’ve named changed Grin
Line of duty fan?? Xx
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My2boysaremyworld · 25/05/2021 21:13

[quote TheWeeDonkeys]@My2boysaremyworld Your not out till AF shows up, Fingers crossed for you.

I’ve been testing every morning and will carry on till AF shows haha.

I don’t know how some of you are holding out for so long![/quote]
Thank you, cramping again and had a little show just so not looking good 😩xx

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Bundaberg84 · 25/05/2021 20:57

disclaimer, I might have said oh fck not oh shit.

TheWeeDonkeys · 25/05/2021 20:57

Sorry, I’m actually Mrschicken I’ve named changed Grin

TheWeeDonkeys · 25/05/2021 20:56

@My2boysaremyworld Your not out till AF shows up, Fingers crossed for you.

I’ve been testing every morning and will carry on till AF shows haha.

I don’t know how some of you are holding out for so long!

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My2boysaremyworld · 25/05/2021 20:43

@feliznavidad2

When I found out last time, I told OH I thought I was preggo and he was like 'uhh you said that last month' Hmmso he went off on his work trip abroad and I thought I'd test sneakily in his absence, and he'd be none the wiser and then it showed a bloody BFP. So I then felt really surprised, rang him and it went to voicemail so said 'need to speak to you, ring me when you get this' etc and he rang back when his flight landed and said 'are you pregnant?' 😆

I celebrated with a fancy little pudding pot from M&S. I bought it incase it was negative and I was sad. But it was in fact a celebratory pud!

Lovely xx
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My2boysaremyworld · 25/05/2021 20:43

[quote Bundaberg84]@My2boysaremyworld when I was pregnant shortly in February I just went to him and said oh shit look at that! 😂[/quote]
🤣🤣xx

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feliznavidad2 · 25/05/2021 20:31

When I found out last time, I told OH I thought I was preggo and he was like 'uhh you said that last month' Hmmso he went off on his work trip abroad and I thought I'd test sneakily in his absence, and he'd be none the wiser and then it showed a bloody BFP. So I then felt really surprised, rang him and it went to voicemail so said 'need to speak to you, ring me when you get this' etc and he rang back when his flight landed and said 'are you pregnant?' 😆

I celebrated with a fancy little pudding pot from M&S. I bought it incase it was negative and I was sad. But it was in fact a celebratory pud!

Bundaberg84 · 25/05/2021 20:10

@My2boysaremyworld when I was pregnant shortly in February I just went to him and said oh shit look at that! 😂

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My2boysaremyworld · 25/05/2021 20:04

@ChikiTIKI

Yes *@My2boysaremyworld* sorry! Thought it would be easier to type.

Sorry @mummylucy11 that sounds confusing. I would wonder chemical too. Or dodgy test. Did you do all the subsequent tests in the morning?

I don't know if I can wait until Friday. I'm thinking of doing one in the morning using first urine sample. I really want to find out if I'm positive when my sons are at their dads house. That way I can tell Martin my partner the good news and not let my boys find out too soon. Stupid I know. Does anyone else plan how they will tell their OH the good news? My boys are back at mine on Friday xx
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ChikiTIKI · 25/05/2021 19:52

Yes @My2boysaremyworld sorry! Thought it would be easier to type.

Sorry @mummylucy11 that sounds confusing. I would wonder chemical too. Or dodgy test. Did you do all the subsequent tests in the morning?

Mummylucy11 · 25/05/2021 19:46

I'm only 8 dpo x

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My2boysaremyworld · 25/05/2021 19:45

[quote Bundaberg84]@My2boysaremyworld that is sooo weird![/quote]
Still nothing when I checked just! I'm so emotional xx

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Bundaberg84 · 25/05/2021 19:43

@My2boysaremyworld that is sooo weird!

Bundaberg84 · 25/05/2021 19:43

@Mummylucy11 7 days before AF is very early. How mane dpo are you?

Mummylucy11 · 25/05/2021 19:37

Yes every single one has been negative! The positive one came up straight away. I'm guessing chemical? It's just bizarre i didn't even get a faint 2nd one. I'm gutted

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My2boysaremyworld · 25/05/2021 19:29

@Mummylucy11

I'm going insane and got some serious line eyes! Why can't it just be simple!?
So you've done more tests since that positive one and they've been negative? Xx
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Mummylucy11 · 25/05/2021 19:24

I'm going insane and got some serious line eyes! Why can't it just be simple!?

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My2boysaremyworld · 25/05/2021 19:22

[quote ChikiTIKI]@OP maybe!! Ooh I hope you get your bfp this month. Maybe you should hold off on testing for a few days... Fancy joining in on Friday?[/quote]
Was this msg meant for me? Xx

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My2boysaremyworld · 25/05/2021 19:18

@Mummylucy11

I've 7 days until AF feel sick cramps back ache. Tested Sunday and got this!! But since I've had all negatives Sad
That's mad it definitely looks positive to me xx
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