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Post Pill Party - Cocktail Club

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MissC07 · 14/05/2021 17:15

After a chilled garden soiree, it's time to shake things up and head to the cocktail club. Let's get into the spirit(s) - it's a whiskey business TTC so if you're feeling pretty fly grab a Mai Tai and have yourself some Sex on the Beach. Fingers crossed we get some BFP's and keep the Bloody Mary's away. Let the celebrations be-Gin!! Time flys when your having Rum!

Welcome to the 11th (!) post pill party thread for women who have recently come off the pill. Where we can all come and discuss the highs and lows of TTC.

Ladies already at the soiree:

@ChinChilly
@Juno231
@TheHotelCalifornia
@Moocher90
@Flowers222
@feliznavidad2
@MissM94
@Cams50
@HRHXO
@Kay00
@AllyCat31
@LauraT94
@Gracie2021
@FlyingGiraffe
@Emmgrem
@Tillybabs
@Kat668
@TheDaydreamBelievers
@mrsmacmc
@Ttcin2021
@pineapple2021
@MrsHInch
@Lovebug06
@JT90
@Sperr
@MancMama39
@Nellieee
@Robyn101
@LG93
@minipilling
@WhirlingD
@Springflower3
@crabette
@CaptainGT
@abi555
@ChillysT
@firsttimemummy321

Please tag anyone I’ve missed!

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MissM94 · 29/06/2021 22:02

@ChinChilly I'm so very sorry ♥️ you don't deserve any of this but hopefully you get some answers down the line x

ChinChilly · 29/06/2021 21:50

@Moocher90 thanks, i do feel like this is a safe place. You read these horror stories and don't expect it to ever happen to you 🙁

@FlyingGiraffe thank you ❤

FlyingGiraffe · 29/06/2021 21:19

I've been lurking for ages, but I just wanted to say how sorry I am @ChinChilly 😔❤ Sending you loads of love and strength. I can only imagine the overwhelming emotions you're going through right now but take it easy on yourself. Vent away anytime you need to xxxx

Moocher90 · 29/06/2021 21:13

@ChinChilly don’t be sorry! This is a safe space to vent xx I can’t imagine what you are going through :( xx

ChinChilly · 29/06/2021 21:08

@Juno231 @Moocher90 thank both, means alot.

I've got this overwhelming feeling of letting people down, both of our parents knew, I felt fairly safe after the first private scan and seeing the heartbeat so we told them and now I feel horrible for them. I know its silly 🙁 sorry for being a downer guys, kinda just needed somewhere to vent.

Moocher90 · 29/06/2021 20:35

@ChinChilly I’m so sorry for your loss :( so devastating big hugs to you xx we are all here for you if and when you want to talk about anything xx

Juno231 · 29/06/2021 19:52

@ChinChilly oh I have no words, that's heartbreaking 😔 promise we'll be here for you when you're ready ❤️

ChinChilly · 29/06/2021 18:41

@Kay00 @pineapple2021 @Kat668 thanks everyone, feels like I've been dealt a really bad hand over the last 6 months. I just want to get Monday out of the way and start moving on.

Kat668 · 29/06/2021 18:08

@ChinChilly I'm so sorry, sending all the love to you and your partner x

pineapple2021 · 29/06/2021 17:55

@ChinChilly oh god this made me feel sick.... you poor poor thing. Look after yourself and hope you can get some answers soon!

Kay00 · 29/06/2021 17:34

@chinchilly oh, I'm so so sorry my dear xxx sending my love to you and your OH xxx

ChinChilly · 29/06/2021 17:33

@TheDaydreamBelievers it really is like the ultimate cruel trick from mother nature.

TheDaydreamBelievers · 29/06/2021 17:30

@ChinChilly unfortunately it often happens (me too) that the symptoms before and after the little bean passes away dont change at all. Its heartbreaking, and im so sorry xxx

ChinChilly · 29/06/2021 17:29

@TheDaydreamBelievers yeah, other 2 were early losses but she said they still count them. Thank you, I really appreciate it. I wish I had been given a warning sign so I could of prepared myself, I've had a really rough time with sickness which everyone tells you is a good sign 😕

TheDaydreamBelievers · 29/06/2021 17:19

@ChinChilly is this your third loss now? Im so sorry. Happy to talk at any point if you would like to, I know how painful this is

ChinChilly · 29/06/2021 17:16

Hi guys, hope you're all okay!

Not a great update from me, I went for my 12 weeks scan today and baby stopped growing at 8 weeks and there was no heartbeat, they sent me up to the womens hospital where I have been all afternoon, they confirmed missed miscarriage and I go back on Monday for surgical management. I have hadno bleeding and no pain so it was a massive shock and I feel pretty numb at the moment.

They've reffered me to the recurrent miscarriage clinic so maybe I'll start getting some answers at some point.

Sorry for the debbie downer post!

Moocher90 · 29/06/2021 13:09

AF is in full flow so CD1 for me today :(

Amz24 · 29/06/2021 12:20

@Juno231 its the worst! I swear you could play dot to dot on meEnvy

Juno231 · 29/06/2021 12:01

@CharWils check this out: www.countdowntopregnancy.com/pregnancy-test/dpo-chart.php?dpo=11 it shows you the stats per dpo and also by pregnancy test: www.countdowntopregnancy.com/pregnancy-test/brand-chart.php?brandid=1

@Amz24 fingers crossed something is happening - it bodes well for AF being imminent though if you're suffering from pizza face Grin. I had post pill acne too so I feel for you!

TheDaydreamBelievers · 29/06/2021 11:47

@CharWils id strongly encourage at least 12dpo and a FRER test. When I did conceive i had a blank at 9dpo and was a bit down about it, when clearly it was just too early to test. Theres a chart somewhere of how likely you are to get a false negative at what dpo, but basically if you test too early you risk bumming yourself out with a false negative

CharWils · 29/06/2021 11:27

Thanks @Kay00 and @Juno231. Really appreciate your reassurances when I'm having a meltdown.

How many DPO does everyone tests and with what tests? Or just wait until period should show?

Amz24 · 29/06/2021 09:25

@Juno231 no full flow yet! Some bright red again this morning so im feeling alittle less worried that atleast theres something and hopefuly my body will adjust! Hopefuly sooner rather than later because post pill acne is high haha!

Juno231 · 29/06/2021 09:22

@TheDaydreamBelievers honestly if you can afford I'd go private as it sounds like you'd just need something like clomid to get pregnant - so not exactly IVF costs.

@CharWils you sound well covered! You've hit two super fertile days so that's all you need :)

@Amz24 welcome! did the bright red turn into full flow in the end?

Kay00 · 29/06/2021 08:20

Morning all!

@CharWils Sounds like you had decent coverage then Smile It only takes one little swimmer!

CharWils · 28/06/2021 21:53

Eugh second peak Saturday, not Sunday!

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