Hello my darlings and thank you so much for the invite to the Cocktail Club @missco7, love the new intro!! I’ve been here since the beginning haha and while personally some parties have been better than others 🙄 I absolutely love the little community we’ve built and it’s so nice to be able to talk to people going through the same thing.
@chinchilly congratulations on your BFP lovely!!! Sounds like it’s all going really well so stay positive!!
@kay00 I’m so sorry about the BFN, and OH being insensitive 😔 that would really upset me too and quite frankly I’d tell him!! good luck for your procedure is it today? xxx
@juno231 enjoy fertile week!! 🥳🍆 keeping everything crossed that this is the cycle xxx
@thedaydreambelievers good shout to push your GP, weekly bloods def sounds like something they should be doing. Hope you get an answer soon, and hope that this is indeed ovulation xxxx
Soooooo I’ve had a bit of a mental week...this is cycle 2/month 4 after my miscarriage (I have long cycles) and ERPC in January. I stopped tracking after O and had absolutely no symptoms. I tested on 8DPO just to confirm my suspicions because I was so certain I was out as had zero symptoms. BFN, so although I 100% expected it I still had a complete breakdown and spent the next two days researching puppies, fertility treatment and trips to theme parks to take my mind of it. I also drank a lot ha!! 10DPO I wanted to do a HIIT workout so thought I’d do a final test JUST TO MAKE SURE, and I cannot tell you the shock I felt when I saw the faintest line on an IC. I burst into tears, did a FRER and there was a clear line. I’m honestly so in shock as I was convinced I was out, to the point where we nearly booked Alton Towers for 2 weeks time.
I’ve just done another one this morning, 13DPO, and got a really strong line. I just can’t believe it. Me and DH are trying not to think about it really as we’re so scared. But I do feel quite calm at the moment. Obviously my heart is in my mouth every time I go to the loo but I’m not obsessing or Googling everything like last time. I’m just trying to stay positive while also not focusing on it at all. We’re too scared to have conversations about early scans or telling people so will give it a couple of weeks I think. I think pregnancy after miscarriage is honestly going to be the most anxiety inducing thing I’ll ever go through.
I did take soy iso this cycle guys to bring ovulation forward and it worked, I ovulated on CD21 which is the earliest ever. We also DTD 5 days in a row over O 😅 oh and I laid with my legs in the air after each time, so glam. And I’m taking 50mg B6, folic acid and B12 with added Vitamin D. But then I did all that the previous cycle and it didn’t work...
Anyway just wanted to let you all know and I hope this doesn’t trigger anyone as I know it’s so hard to see others BFPs when we’re all trying so so hard and want it so badly ❤️