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4dpo any one want to join??

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Jely123 · 05/05/2021 13:32

Hey everyone so this is my third cycle ttc again, I'm so impatient and these cycles can be so lonely sometimes so wondered if any one wanted some company this TWW.

Just abit of back story. Im 22 from Kent. I have a 2yo girl and have had a few chemicals and miscarriages since having my little girl.
I'm also a poas addict so faint lines more then welcome here tooo!! X

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hopingtostartfamily · 12/05/2021 19:46

So lovely to see some BFP on this thread!

I m currently torturing myself. I’m not 100% sure when AF is due but my Flow app is telling me I’m a day late. The tests I’ve ordered from Amazon haven’t arrived (though it says they might be delivered tonight) and I am about to burst even though I know it’ll probably be a BFN.

I have been using the clear bkue fertility monitor and have some testing sticks but the damn thing won’t accept it outwith my “testing hours” which are 9am - 3pm.

Rugratree · 12/05/2021 19:14

Hi to the new ladies..keep us posted on when you cave and test!

My symptoms include lower back pain too..like a throbbing tinge that stays for awhile then comes back. Also had killer sore throat last night..swallowing glass type one..not sure if that’s related or I’m simply overestimating our May weather and failing to layer up

@Kinickynicky could the bloody mucus be implantation related..is it new for you?..i see this line too..surely it can’t be another evap. Realistically I think your too early to know..I didn’t get a positive until 13 dpo. Saying that though I don’t think an evap can appear in 3 minutes..in my experience of playing my evap game it never has anyway!

@PairOfPears aw a good few days too early then really..sore boobies still a good sign. I will be crossing everything for you and thinking of you..of all you ladies

Kinickynicky · 12/05/2021 18:37

Sorry not the best photos there was the faintest shadow of a line again within 3 Minutes but it wasn’t pink.I hate the tww

4dpo any one want to join??
4dpo any one want to join??
ChillyBon95 · 12/05/2021 18:02

Hi! Hope it’s okay if I join, I’m 10dpo TTC #2 this is my first cycle of “trying”. Never normally get involved with forums but I’m driving myself insane. Also a POAS addict I must take 3 a day..Blush have been having so many symptoms but I’m not sure if I usually get those. Due AF on Sunday still bfn on test I did today.

PP202 · 12/05/2021 17:07

@GlowUp I’m aiming to wait until the weekend for doing a digital. That way I’ll be able to convince DH.

Although he says if I start 🤮 he’ll believe it. Had bad HG previous times (missed mmc) but think it’ll be a week or so before that kicks in. So enjoying this whilst I can 🤣🤣

@Kinickynicky 🤞

I’ve been convinced since 4/5 dpo that I was so surprised I’ve managed to last until today to test.

Kinickynicky · 12/05/2021 17:05

I think it’s safest to say bfn although I could swear I could see something but torturing myself. Suffice to say there was a big blob of bloody mucus too, it’s to early to be a period I’m not due till middle of next week but my cervix feels like it’s dropped so think I’m out x

GlowUp · 12/05/2021 16:30

Good luck for tonight @Kinickynicky - let us know how you get on!

@PairOfPears hopefully the sore boobs is a good sign for you! I keep poking mine to make sure they're still sore (they are!).

I should really wait until the weekend to test again but being realistic I know I won't!

Kinickynicky · 12/05/2021 15:58

I probably won’t last that long - it’s a 2 pack and only cost £3 so will probably do one when the delivery man comes 😂 watch this space ...

PairOfPears · 12/05/2021 14:55

@Rugratree still sore 🤣 tested this morning and nothing but I’m only 7dpo (optimistically) so didn’t really expect anything

@GlowUp I have the sore boobs too, which I don’t usually get so feeling hopeful. I also can’t stop peeing!

PairOfPears · 12/05/2021 14:54

@Rugratree still sore 🤣 tested this morning and nothing but I’m only 7dpo (optimistically) so didn’t really expect anything

@GlowUp I have the sore boobs too, which I don’t usually get so feeling hopeful. I also can’t stop peeing!

Kinickynicky · 12/05/2021 14:30

I’ve got some cheap test strips on order from Amazon so tonight probably 😝 I know there’s no point But according to my app I’m due on my period in 6 days so might have
My dpo wrong xx hi to the two news ladies I’m sorry I don’t know how to tag you x

GlowUp · 12/05/2021 13:59

Hi, hope it's ok to join. I'm 7DPO today and my new batch of cheap tests arrived this morning so I caved and tested but it was negative. I knew it would be though - I didn't get even faint lines until around 10DPO with my other DC so I'm not sure what I was thinking really!

Lovely to see some bfps already, fingers crossed for more soon!

Does anyone have any symptoms? I've convinced myself I have mild period like pain and lower back ache - my period isn't due until Wednesday next week so I hope it's not coming early. I have sore boobs too but always do prior to my period arriving anyway so it probably doesn't mean anything for me but we'll see I guess!

SaraSS · 12/05/2021 13:11

Hey! Just jumping on board if that's ok. So nice to see some BFP on here!! Congrats to you guys!
My cycle is messy but managed to work out I ovulated at the weekend using POK and BBT tracking (accompanied by a big migraine on Monday!)

So I'm going with that I'm 3DPO today fingers crossed
Oh and total POS addict here!! The IC are a life saver lol

Rugratree · 12/05/2021 12:42

@Kinickynicky I did read here once that it’s impossible to get a positive as early as 6dpo. When are you testing again? I actually thought the control line did look abit pink but hard to tell from pic obv.

Wow..defo strong positive..congrats!!!

@PairOfPears how are the nipples?lol When are you testing

Kinickynicky · 12/05/2021 12:08

That looks very positive!! Congratulations xx

PairOfPears · 12/05/2021 11:24

Looks pretty positive to me @PP202! I never use digitals but I know they can be a bit less sensitive than other types so maybe wait until your period is due?

PP202 · 12/05/2021 11:06

Potentially 11dpo. Had 21day bloods on Friday, but haven’t had results yet, as have a known prolactinoma.
Husband doesn’t believe this is a positive.... think I’ll have to get a digital to confirm it for him. How long should I wait until doing a digital?

4dpo any one want to join??
Kinickynicky · 12/05/2021 09:04

Hi here is my dodgy line - it was 6/7dpo and it’s hardly visible and doesn’t look pink so think it’s an evap if I’m honest xx congratulations to everyone who has their bfp 💕😘

4dpo any one want to join??
4dpo any one want to join??
PairOfPears · 11/05/2021 14:22

@Rugratree ah that’s fab, congratulations!

Thank you, I feel really bloated and my nipples are sore just like with my first pregnancy so I’m feeling quite hopeful ☺️

Rugratree · 11/05/2021 12:53

@pairofpears no I haven’t tested since Sunday as I’ve ran out..will defo get to shops at some stage soon tho. At the minute I’m assuming I’m pregnant and just hoping that all goes ok. Hoping for a positive for you too

PairOfPears · 11/05/2021 12:46

@Rugratree that’s exciting - have you tested since Sunday and is the line improving?

I hate not knowing things so the idea that something so huge could be happening in my body that I don’t know about is so annoying 🤣 I’m a control freak!

Rugratree · 11/05/2021 12:39

I have however managed to bookmark comments whatever that means

Rugratree · 11/05/2021 12:36

Trying to post a pic of my positives but not sure how

Rugratree · 11/05/2021 12:12

Just to confirm that I did not play my dangerous little evap game with my positives on Sunday..and that I’m definetly pregnant..I did think my line would be darker though. I haven’t tested since as I’ve ran out! I’m just content praying and hoping that my little bean is a sticky one after recent miscarriage at 10 weeks. @Kinickynicky a line is a line is a line is a line so congrats to you too!!!

My symptoms include..serious skin breakout, tingly nipples,and felt proper sick last night with period like cramps.

Fingers crossed for more positives on this thread and we are all in same boat for January 2022 babies

Rugratree · 11/05/2021 12:06

Aww I’m a first class Mumsnet stalker but decided to get involved this time!

Before I continue ‘rugratree’ was the only username not taken 😂

Congrats @Jely123! Agreed this is a strong line for 10dpo..twins?! 🤣🤔 I got my positive at 13dpo..which was on Sunday past..it looks like yours..possibly even fainter..so I’m cautiously excited also.

Empathising with all you other ladies obsessed with POS. I buy a shitload of cheapies and I just let myself be crazy..DH just shakes his head at me now. It comforts me if that makes sense. Sometimes I’m so desperate to see a line that I purposely try to get an evap..just to pretend for a second..(whilst obviously keeping a grip of reality in my head)