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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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The Pact Cont - April 2021

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SS123456 · 27/04/2021 14:17

Just starting up a new thread 😁. Hopefully I haven't forgotten anyone!

@kirinm @whambam89 @Rotagilla @MrsB2019x @LeopardLover @Sansa87

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kirinm · 13/05/2021 13:13

[quote whambam89]@kirinm thank you 😘 it's always something I worried about when trying again but never thought would actually happen again if that makes sense.

Today was also the day I had a consultation with the gp about why we weren't getting pregnant. They're doing bloods, swabs and have referred me to the fertility clinic for scans etc so that's good news x[/quote]
After my ectopic I had what was eventually considered a miscarriage but they couldn't rule out an ectopic - another pregnancy of unknown location. Thankfully my levels dropped off so didn't need intervention - fingers crossed that is the same for you.

A big cry is totally okay. It is an utterly shit position to be in once let alone twice.

Great news on the fertility tests xx

whambam89 · 13/05/2021 13:07

@kirinm thank you 😘 it's always something I worried about when trying again but never thought would actually happen again if that makes sense.

Today was also the day I had a consultation with the gp about why we weren't getting pregnant. They're doing bloods, swabs and have referred me to the fertility clinic for scans etc so that's good news x

whambam89 · 13/05/2021 13:06

@Sansa87 thank you. I just knew it wasn't going to be good news but doesn't make it any less shit! Had a big cry and am just hoping that because my numbers are so low that it'll resolve by itself. How are you feeling today? X

kirinm · 13/05/2021 13:06

[quote whambam89]@kirinm not good news as I thought, right sided ectopic but HCG is only 61 which I'm really hoping means I can avoid methotrexate. Bloods again Saturday x[/quote]
Oh I'm so sorry. It is so unfair that it has happened again. I hope for your sake that your levels drop by Saturday and you can avoid any treatment. xx

Sansa87 · 13/05/2021 13:01

Oh fuck @whambam89 big hugs ❤️

whambam89 · 13/05/2021 12:53

@kirinm not good news as I thought, right sided ectopic but HCG is only 61 which I'm really hoping means I can avoid methotrexate. Bloods again Saturday x

kirinm · 13/05/2021 12:50

Hope you're okay @whambam89

kirinm · 13/05/2021 09:30

Sorry my message was very brief - my DD was messing around.

Really hope it is positive news for you @whambam89 but if not, you are at least in the right hands. Will keep everything crossed for you x

MrsB2019x · 13/05/2021 08:13

Good luck for today @whambam89, will be thinking of you 💜

kirinm · 13/05/2021 07:52

@whambam89

Thanks ladies ❤️ feeling pretty anxious this morning.

Hope things start off for you soon @Sansa87!

Good luck today @whambam89
whambam89 · 13/05/2021 07:40

Thanks ladies ❤️ feeling pretty anxious this morning.

Hope things start off for you soon @Sansa87!

krj2688 · 13/05/2021 06:51

Thinking of you @whambam89

Hope things kick off soon for you @Sansa87 x

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SS123456 · 13/05/2021 06:39

I'll be thinking of you @whambam89 ❤️.

Oh @Sansa87 it's just horrible isn't it. I went overdue with my DS and had something called PUPPPS (a full body intense rash) so was super miserable too. Have you been offered a sweep to kick things off?

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Sansa87 · 12/05/2021 22:23

6 days over due tomorrow and I’m miserable, uncomfortable, & the period pain is doing my head in.

My feet and legs are beyond swollen with liquid too, tbohhh luckily bp is holding steady on these tablets.

Good luck tomorrow @whambam89 tests are the worst in the world aren’t they. I couldn’t bring myself to test too much for this baby, but it does sound like it’s almost giving you a calmness and some control.

whambam89 · 12/05/2021 16:40

@SS123456 not sure why that posted twice! I'm thinking it's more likely an ectopic as the same thing happened with my last one 😭. Hope you're doing ok xx

whambam89 · 12/05/2021 16:39

@SS123456 not sure why that posted twice! I'm thinking it's more likely an ectopic as the same thing happened with my last one 😭. Hope you're doing ok xx

whambam89 · 12/05/2021 16:33

@SS123456 not sure why the same thing posted twice then 🙈
I'm thinking it's more likely to be ectopic because it's the same thing that happened last time with my ectopic 😭 hope you're getting on ok xx

whambam89 · 12/05/2021 15:46

@SS123456 thank you :) I'm almost certain it's not going to be good news but will update the thread when I know x

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SS123456 · 12/05/2021 15:23

@whambam89 never say never, weirder things have happened 🤞🏻. When I miscarried at 5 weeks previously my frer positives were almost completely gone before the bleeding/miscarriage even started so the fact you still have clear positives is hopefully a really good sign

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whambam89 · 12/05/2021 14:48

@SS123456 thank you :) I'm almost certain it's not going to be good news but will update the thread when I know x

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SS123456 · 12/05/2021 14:17

@whambam89 I have everything crossed for tomorrow for you 🤞🏻

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whambam89 · 12/05/2021 13:49

@kirinm they're still very clearly positive, no doubting them. I think they're pretty much staying the same to be honest, some days lighter than others though x

kirinm · 12/05/2021 11:17

[quote whambam89]@kirinm I'm ok, have run out of tests so not tested today but will grab some on my way home from work. My appointment is early tomorrow so should have an idea of what's going on by this time tomorrow x[/quote]
Are the tests still showing clear positives? You've said they are getting lighter but do you mean faint or just not getting darker?

whambam89 · 12/05/2021 10:49

@kirinm I'm ok, have run out of tests so not tested today but will grab some on my way home from work. My appointment is early tomorrow so should have an idea of what's going on by this time tomorrow x

kirinm · 12/05/2021 07:38

How are you doing today? @whambam89 ?