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Anyone TTC May

238 replies

FayLiv · 27/04/2021 09:11

Hi Ladies,

I was hopeful this month but can feel signs of AF creeping up and due in a couple of days..

I'm not too distraught as we only managed it a couple of times in my fertile week so thought it may be the case this month was a no. Now I am so ready to get annoying AF out of the way and get on the May bus!

Is anyone else in the same boat and hoping next month is the one?

I am taking folic and vitamin D at the moment but I'm going to add DHA and co-q10 as well as I've heard v good things.

Good luck to those going for May... it's my birthday in May too and I've asked for a baby 😂

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Trinacham · 30/04/2021 18:06

CD1 one for me today, first cycle trying.

beckyCarlos · 30/04/2021 17:01

@Kipkay35

Hi everyone! We're on cycle 8, I got rid of the OPKs last month & tried to 'relax' a bit. I'm actually in the fertile week now and we DTD a bit more before ovulation (previously mostly during/ after). I'm getting quite impatient now. I feel like this month will be difficult for me if it's another month with no BFP! Good luck everyone x
@kipkay35 this is about where I am, POAS is 100% addictive! I'm on cycle 9/10 depending on how you count. Good luck! X
Sleepyquest · 30/04/2021 16:34

Me! TTC #2
Dd was conceived in cycle 1 so hoping for the same again but understand that's unlikely
Fingers crossed for everyone Smile

Hopefullandtrying · 30/04/2021 16:33

Hi everyone, I'm CD4, month 4 TCC #2 and now feeling super impatient!! I've not been tracking ovulation, just DTD every other day, but maybe need to up my game this month...

Kipkay35 · 30/04/2021 16:18

Hi everyone! We're on cycle 8, I got rid of the OPKs last month & tried to 'relax' a bit. I'm actually in the fertile week now and we DTD a bit more before ovulation (previously mostly during/ after). I'm getting quite impatient now. I feel like this month will be difficult for me if it's another month with no BFP!
Good luck everyone x

Hollzc · 30/04/2021 14:06

Hey Everyone! This is our first proper month TTC - quite scary but also also very exciting! Got some opks and hoping that will help me understand what's going on! any top tips for TTC? xx Smile

FayLiv · 30/04/2021 12:03

Well guess what .. she's back...back again!

Not too surprising. That's fine - we will go again next month. I'm ready! 💃 Just need to get this period out of the way first 😂

All the best for May girls x

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Losd · 30/04/2021 11:52

@FayLiv ooh that sounds promising!! Fingers crossed for you! My cycles have been weird since I stopped breastfeeding so I’m either due on Tuesday or Friday, judging by my absolutely rotten stinking mood today I’m guessing Tuesday.

angc30 · 30/04/2021 10:43

@FayLiv good luck!! 1 day late is promising! xx I'm so bad at waiting. I'm due on on Monday and I had a little spotting but I still tested. BFN but knew that was going to happen because of the spotting. I'm just ready for AF to arrive now

@Losd no harm in trying them all!!

FayLiv · 30/04/2021 10:16

A day late now if my glow app is correct.
Still feeling like period is coming. I won't test unless I am seriously late as I don't want the disappointment! I ordered a FRER last month and my period arrived just before it was delivered what a bummer 😂

Anyone else close to af?

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Losd · 29/04/2021 18:47

@angc30 I’ve heard of pineapple core too! It also helps induce labour apparently, I tried eating it from 39 weeks last time when I just plain fed up with my back-to-back pregnancy but I don’t think it helped. Will give it a go for conception of baby 2 though!

beckyCarlos · 29/04/2021 18:32

[quote angc30]@beckyCarlos pineapple core, Brazil nuts and pomegranate juice. I swear I may try standing on my head this cycle 🤣 I'm willing to try anything if anyone has anymore suggestions xx[/quote]
Pineapple core?! Just googling lol. Brazil nuts and pomegranate going on the tescos list right now. Ive done some leg elevation afterwards but shuffling round isnt the most graceful and can lead to...spillages 😂

angc30 · 29/04/2021 17:47

@beckyCarlos pineapple core, Brazil nuts and pomegranate juice. I swear I may try standing on my head this cycle 🤣 I'm willing to try anything if anyone has anymore suggestions xx

extrababydust123 · 29/04/2021 17:42

Am I okay to jump on ladies? It’ll be cycle 2 for me as I’m expecting af shortly after loads of bfn’s 😞 hopefully this is the lucky thread we all need and have lots of BFP’s next month! 🤞🏽💗

beckyCarlos · 29/04/2021 17:39

@angc30 what old wives tales are you going by? Ill try anything at this point 🤣x

angc30 · 29/04/2021 15:44

Hey all! Is alright if I pop on?

I had a miscarriage at 9ish weeks at the end of February and this was our first cycle ttc since. It's our 4th mc so a bit of a rollercoaster but fingers crossed for the next one!

I ovulated early this month so AF is due on Monday. Spotting today and BFN yesterday so pretty sure it's not going to turn into a BFP.

We've been doing SMEP plus preseed and all the old wives tales. All that has been helpful as I have gotten pregnant 4 times in 13 months just can't get a sticky one

Lol like @tothemoonandback21 said SMEP is a lot of energy though. WAY tmi but sometimes that preseed is a god send lol

@FrogsHiccups I'm in a similar boat! I'm on pregnacare conception plus vit d and extra folic acid. We're waiting for the NHS clinic but it's delayed bc of Covid

Good luck everyone xx

monkehsee · 29/04/2021 15:42

[quote polkadotpixie]@monkehsee NTNP = Not Trying, Not Preventing

@beckyCarlos SMEP = Sperm Meets Egg Plan

Still remember all the TTC lingo from last time 😂[/quote]
Of course Wink

beckyCarlos · 29/04/2021 12:57

@fayliv omg everything is crossed for you! Hopefully this is a good sign!

@rudyroo me too, we're waiting for an appointment with the fertility clinic to get checked but I could easily be psyching myself out because theres nothing else really to focus on! If I was going to the pictures or seeing friends for dinner, or even commuting, I'd have so many other distractions (or so I keep telling myself haha)

Rudyroo · 29/04/2021 11:49

@FayLiv 😂 baby names always a nice distraction.

Why is AF always so annoyingly late when TTC and over analysing every single thing?! Hope she doesn't show for you...you never know! 🤞🏼

Well I'm feeling quite glad that at least real life is starting to resume slightly now that I'll be able to have some distractions this month other than focussing every single thought in TTC. Catching up with friends and sitting outside for BBQ's with a nice cold beer or two. Might even go wild and go inside a shop! Hope you are all staying positive ladies 💪🏼

FayLiv · 29/04/2021 11:32

Af not arrived yet. No spotting either which I've had the last couple of months before af. I tested with a cheapie Monday but couldn't see a thing. I am probably going to come on this afternoon/ tomorrow but I'm just imagining it being late and what I might call my next child 😂

I'll be ordering more opks for May by tonight probably! X

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FrogsHiccups · 29/04/2021 09:52

Hi everyone. Long time lurker here! Hope you don’t mind me joining!
@Starfish789 I’m similar to you. 18months ttc #2. Two miscarriages. PCOS diagnosis due to irregular cycles, but none of the other standard symptoms. Waiting for Clomid treatment (delayed in our area because of Covid). Have been prescribed metformin by consultant. He also recommended vit d, vit b complex, inositol, folic acid and co q-10. So got all those on the go. And also doing soy isoflavones because at this stage I’ve nothing to lose!
🤞🏻 For lots of bfps and sticky beans for may!

beckyCarlos · 29/04/2021 08:49

@charlotte0808 🤞for you! Hopefully the prescription works!

@lovelylion3 i always find day 1 the worst, I try and keep positive but it always feels like such a letdown

@tothemoonandback21 thanks! Might give that a go, anything to feel like I have a bit of control over the situation haha x

tothemoonandback21 · 29/04/2021 07:30

@beckyCarlos think I really need to take the cold turkey POAS approach too, I was terrible this month!! Sperm Meets Egg Plan is basically a lot of BDing to try to make sure swimmers are fresh and lined up in the right place at the right time... I think it's every other day from cd8 (or a bit later if you ovulate later), then every day for three days after you get a peak on an OPK. Then skip a day then try one last time. I'm not sure about it but will try anything, I'm only cycle 2 but missing out this month made me realise how much I want it! X

Starfish789 · 29/04/2021 06:39

Yes, 18 months TTC#2. Trying Soya Isoflavones for the second month. Hoping for a BFP!

LovelyLion3 · 29/04/2021 06:32

AF just arrived. 🙄
CD1

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