. 🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 6 🦕

@27DONFIN
Get on to your gp for a referral for tests 💚
@sweetbabydust1989
How r you holding up xx

Hey ladies how are you all doing xx

@Babyghirl my coil was removed mid June 2019 fell pregnant that month loss in august. A month or two afterwards we didn’t try then since we have been

@27DONFIN
How long have you been trying including your loss x

@ELM7
I have had 1 or 2 short cycles like that to after my first loss just brings u quicker to trying again lol 💚
@27DONFIN
It does bring u down I knw we have each other as partners but that want never goes away does it but it will happen for you and all of us I know it will 💚

Thanks everyone been a shit fews days. Even my partner tho is always very positive on the whole subject was very down yesterday about it. I’m an only child snd he is to his mum ( his dad remarried and had two boys who are a lot younger) I’m hoping tomorrow the go puts my forward for more testing.it was even harder listening to my partner being upset snd down yesterday especially as he’s always said it doesn’t matter as long as we have each other.

Morning Ladies

Well this last cycle has been the strangest I’ve had. So looks like I did ovulate super early when I had pains on CD7 cos AF has arrived today. So that was a 19 day cycle instead of the usual 27?! Oh well so the next cycle begins.

@slcxxx
That's the only side effects I had off the two jabs I had to tbf but my oh was bad with his first one don't knw if that cause it hit him harder or because he a man tbh but I would go with the second option 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Ladies, I have now had 3 days of peak!! I used 3 different machines and easy@home strips too and I definitely have very clear dark positives 3 days in a row, wtf. My poor hubby just wants to sleep and I’ve basically been walking around with a plunger inside for the past few days 🤣

@kiwi17 I’m sorry AF came, hopefully she will be your last one 🤞🏻I’ve now had both Covid jabs and like @Babyghirl I also had a sore arm that would wake me up at night, that was about all the symptoms I had tbf.

@danisaui31 thanks. Definitely a good idea to reduce social media, it does feel like everywhere you look someone is announcing! But then again I literally help bring babies into the world for a living so for me there is bumps and babies everywhere 🤦🏼‍♀️

@justwant2beamum soo glad you made it there, good luck and have fun 😉😉

@Sweetbabydust1989 thinking of you, hope your okay 💕

@Annny27
Rock that tiredness and sore boobs and anything the little bean throws at u all will be fine 💚
@kiwi17
How's the 💪💪 😂😂😂😂😂

@Annny27

And as others have said totally normal to not feel the same as when you get that first positive and you naively think this is a baby in 8 months...
Me and DH have felt the same. Second time was about an hour of "woww it's positive we are so excited and all"... to "ok let's chill. We don't know what is going to happen let's not get too excited for now"
And so we literally almost pretended it wasn't there just being anxious like crazy inside. Only after 12w scan and then 20w scan did we properly relax and thought ok this is our rainbow we are having a baby.
But unfortunately the anxiety stays until baby is out and healthy and then a different type of worrying kicks in... maybe until they are 18?!🥲

Pregnancy after loss is a long exhausting journey with constant mixed feelings but now i can say worth every second and i really have everything crossed that this is your turn to experience it and finally have your baby. 💗 🤞

Omgggggg how have i missed this!!! @Annny27

This is the best news to find out checking on you ladies 😍😍😍😍
Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!! 🤗🤗🤗🤗
Have you tested again? How are you feeling?
Hope this is your rainbow lovely 🌈

Sorry haven't catched up properly for a while. The newborn bubble is lovely but soooo busy !

But honestly seeing your line made my day 😄

Oh no @Babyghirl! So far so good no pain yet 😆

@kiwi17
Mine was so tender the nxt day woke myself op rolling on it 😂😂😂😂😂😂 even lifting it was a deas weight lol 💚

Just did @Babyghirl! Just in case my arm goes dead and I can't drive home 😂

Ah sorry @kiwi17. Kfc and Poundland sounds good though! Also raining and miserable here!

@kiwi17
If ur right handed get it in ur left lol 💚

@Babyghirl definitely sounds ideal to me! I've had a call this morning saying I can have my first covid vaccine so I'm going over now - at least one exciting thing came out of today! 😂

@kiwi17
As chilled as it will get for me I'm norm on the go from I get up to I go to bed lol but I have nt moved out of bed today well just to make tea 😂😂😂😂😂 just a day I need to myself and chill nt offen I take days like this so enjoying it glad you cheered urself up and feeling better 💚

That sounds good @Babyghirl - she's definitely started this morning for me so what a waste of a test! Perked up a bit now we've had a kfc and a mooch around Poundland 🤣 just needed a low level day to suit my mood to be honest. Oh well.. here we go again! Hope your day is chilled!

Oh my goodness @Annny27 I’ve just seen! Congratulations lovely, so so happy for you! I also check in on here every week or so to see how you all are. You’ve waited so long for this, will keep everything crossed for a beautifully sticky bean xxx

@kiwi17
I'm with ya on the with arriving I'm cramping cd26 for me so I knw she on her way sorry your feeling so down raining here in Belfast aswell but oh working so I have day to myself so nt moved out of bed yet and I plan on having a relaxed lazy day drinking tea and watching TV lol onwards and upwards for us for nxt cycle we got this 💚
@fizzl
Omg just a few weeks left how is that possible it has flew in I have my app on the 19th of May with the rmc got a load of bloods taken 2 weeks ago so hoping I get some answers as to why I have lost 4 and hopefully get help with nxt pregnancy 💚