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1DPO - Anyone want to join for the 2WW?

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IzzT · 20/04/2021 20:20

Hello! First month TTC. Currently 1DPO, no symptoms as of yet, but already feeling stressed at the thought of not knowing if we were successful for two more weeks! Worried we didn't BD enough, we did every other day during the fertile window including day before O. Anyone got any advice or just want to join in the conversation to get us through the wait?

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JuniperAndTonic · 26/05/2021 17:38

Afternoon!

So I caved this morning and tested at 10DPO again! It was negative but it’s still early so trying to keep the hope alive! I’ll see what the next few days bring anyway, AF is due on Sunday.

Sorry I can’t really help with the Covid jab question @K8Tee as I had my first dose back in December and my second in February (I’m a nurse) so it was before I started TTC! I was concerned about it as I was thinking about TTC and the Pfizer had only just been approved and at the time the advice was to wait a few months before getting pregnant but in the end I felt the benefits of the vaccine out weighed the risks as I knew I could become seriously ill if I did catch Covid - I also have a medical condition which puts me in the vulnerable group and was shielding for a while due to some medication I was on. But I think it’s such a personal decision! I know the advice has changed now and they are saying even pregnant women can get it as the benefits outweigh the risks. I know I felt much happier and more comfortable once I was fully vaccinated and I’m glad I got it before pregnancy as I think that would have been a hard decision!

dogmom0930 · 26/05/2021 16:01

I like your plan @taytay2020!

@K8Tee I plan to start testing Sunday unless things change either way. I'm curious how antsy I'll be by then haha!

taytay2020 · 26/05/2021 15:01

@K8Tee I have just booked my vaccine, deliberately aiming for what I think will be a few days into my next period. This is just for my own peace of mind though - I'd rather just be hoping for successful fertilisation & implantation over the next couple of weeks without the extra worry of vaccine side-effects. Then whether I get a bfp or not, I think I'll keep the appointment. I definitely don't want to get covid and I don't want the extra worry of not being vaccinated when I have to go to busy places for work.

K8Tee · 26/05/2021 13:45

Thanks @Bundaberg84, will definitely mention it when there as well.

@dogmom0930 you pretty much summed up my feeling about it right there. And also if we got it and got very poorly with it, would that be more of a risk. Neither are perfect scenarios but as long as we know what we're doing its all we can do. Ps really sorry sorry about your chemical I didnt even know they were a thing until joining mumsnet, crazy hoe common it is and how little it is spoken about X

Thanks for your advice girls x

Ps when will you be testing? Clearblue says I can test from Friday but I going to wait until Saturday fmu I think to make sure I have the best chance of seeing it if we have been successful.

dogmom0930 · 26/05/2021 13:39

Forgot to tag you @K8Tee 😊

dogmom0930 · 26/05/2021 13:38

I had the Johnson and Johnson before my previous cycle. Since it was after my chemical, I thought it was a good time for it because my cycle would be messed up anyway. I ended up ovulating a few days later and then proceeded as normal. I blame that change on the CP though. I also had a friend get 1 dose, then she found out she was pregnant and got the second dose and is progressing normally. She had been TTC for 18 months when this happened too.

I weighed the difference between possible fertility issues vs peace of mind. I chose peace of mind thinking that the stress of not being vaccinated could also stress me to the point of having trouble TTC.

Bundaberg84 · 26/05/2021 13:37

@K8Tee the only negative thing I heard in terms of TTC is that it might affect your cycle, as in your ovulation will be later than normal. But since you're already past ovulation I think you should be fine. But I'm no doctor, I would issue your concerns at the appointment.

K8Tee · 26/05/2021 13:32

That's a good sign for you fingers crossed!

Haha I feel like I have symptoms every month yet 5 months later here I am 🤣 I feel a bit crampy and under the weather but I've got a sore throat so probably just that playing tricks on me 🙈

dogmom0930 · 26/05/2021 13:26

Feeling the same @K8Tee at 7 DPO! Haha! Any "symptoms"? I've been having super light cramping the last few days. I'm not sure what to pin that too.

K8Tee · 26/05/2021 13:26

Hey ladies, me again. Just wondering what people who are planning to have the covid vaccine under normal circumstances are thinking about having it in our current ttc boat? I had my text and am booked in for Saturday for dose 1 by which time I'll be 11 dpo I think so a test could or couldn't show at that stage. . . I know it was advised not to have it before but now it says you can have it so just wondered what people's thoughts were around it?

K8Tee · 26/05/2021 10:35

Suddenly starting to get itchy feet to test now. 9/10 dpo. Must stop myself 🤣🙈

80sPadme · 25/05/2021 16:55

Glad all is going welly @IzzT

80sPadme · 25/05/2021 15:27

That's great @IzzT
Glad all is well.
I'm so exited to hear how you are doing and hope I will be on the pregnancy bus with you soon

K8Tee · 25/05/2021 15:01

@IzzT that's fantastic so pleased all is going well for you xx

dogmom0930 · 25/05/2021 14:54

@IzzT Great news to hear! 😊

taytay2020 · 25/05/2021 14:43

@IzzT Fantastic! Glad it's all going well

IzzT · 25/05/2021 14:27

Hey everyone! 7w1d today and doing okay so far. Had an early private scan at the weekend and we saw a little blob with a heartbeat so all growing as it should thankfully!

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dogmom0930 · 25/05/2021 13:50

@K8Tee and @taytay2020 I have my fingers crossed for you for BFP so you don't have to delay!! But, I'm a firm believer that everything happens at the right time even if we can't see why it might be right in the moment 😊

6 DPO today. Feeling twinges that I don't think are symptoms but my brain REALLY wants them to be haha! I suppose time will tell 😉

taytay2020 · 25/05/2021 12:26

I'm hoping to join you all in the tww wait tomorrow! Got my peak on premom yesterday (3.27?!) so that was exciting - thanks again for your help @IzzT this has definitely been better for tracking than the one step or cb opks I used before.

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I'm in a similar boat to you @K8Tee - our wedding reception should've been last year but now it's next June. If we don't conceive within the next two cycles we'll have to call it quits until next January - I won't mind being pg at the party but I don't want to be in labour or be so huge I can't dance! Here's hoping you don't have to wait until October 22! 🤞

K8Tee · 25/05/2021 09:08

@80sPadme fingers crossed! 🤞 it's nice to have some people to go through the journey with x

Bundaberg84 · 25/05/2021 08:29

@80sPadme I think these 2 weeks ARE 2 years! I swear I got more white hair than before

80sPadme · 25/05/2021 07:56

@dogmom0930 and @K8Tee we are all around the same dpo, hoping for a result for all of us.
@JuniperAndTonic keep holding out till days 11/12, challenge yourself to beat last months 10 day fold.
Anyone else keep strong and positive. These two weeks feel like 10 years but we got this!!!!!

Tangfastic91 · 25/05/2021 06:34

Hey @JuniperAndTonic all good here thanks. 5 weeks today and have my midwife app for end of June. Panicking that it's all going to go wrong but I've been reassured this is normal 🙈. I think I need to stop reading the CP/MMC threads on here for my own sanity.

I'm sure you could totally make it work with a baby (or babies 🤭) in a flat. Best of luck for the TWW 🤞

Bundaberg84 · 24/05/2021 23:24

@K8Tee it certainly is, yes 😆

K8Tee · 24/05/2021 23:11

@Bundaberg84 oh no, 3 more days ish til i lose my chill then 🤣🙈 its hard not to get obsessed though isn't it x