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3dpo, 1st cycle. TWW with me?

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extrababydust123 · 20/04/2021 14:08

Anyone else 3dpo? When do you suggest the best time to test is? I have some frer’s and some ic’s and I honestly think I won’t be able to get through the weekend without testing 😫🤣

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lena21 · 07/05/2021 08:53

@FinnsMammy - thanks lovely ❤️. I am 4 days late think this CP will mess up my cycle, have weird cramps now and then but nothing so far ..here's hoping I get it soon, will def celebrate when it does arrive 😂

FinnsMammy · 07/05/2021 08:45

Thanks @lena21 I have high hopes for you this month as you are super fertile after an mc no mater how early. When was your AF due? Mine was just 5 days late last month with my chemical xx

lena21 · 07/05/2021 08:41

@FinnsMammy - that's such a relief so happy for you. Wishing you a healthy 9 months ahead ❤️🌈

Still no sign of AF for me😢

FinnsMammy · 07/05/2021 07:09

Morning girls I just thought I’d update you all I’m 15DPO today and woke up to no blood this am and 2 blazing positives 🥰. I am absolutely delighted. Yesterday I was sure this was going the same way as last month. I was googling like mad last night as we do and I read that if you ovulate late in your cycle like I did at cd 22 rather than my usual cd14 you can get a thing called a decidual bleed which is basically lighter than your period but more than spotting so this is often confused for a period. This is the only thing I can think of ! I will know more next week I guess when I get my bloods done and my docs app but for now I seem to be back on the right path😍 good luck you all you girls and I really hope you get your bfps this month, for those of you that got chemicals @lena21 @Bexboo1 please see my experience and hopefully this month is your month! If your not using opks please be aware that I am usually am textbook day 14 to ovulate but my chemical pushed me out to cd22 and I still got pregnant! If I wasn’t using opks abd I must admit i almost gave up I wouldn’t have caught it! Thanks so much for everyone’s advice you are all so lovely as helpful. Happy Friday all xx 😍

3dpo, 1st cycle. TWW with me?
FinnsMammy · 06/05/2021 15:55

@Katiekattty thank you! 😊 xx

Katiekattty · 06/05/2021 15:35

@FinnsMammy I’ve seen on the pregnancy page someone mention implantation causing irritation and bleeding after a positive test. I forget the name used. But if you look on the pregnancy threads there’s a few people who have had bleeding since.

FinnsMammy · 06/05/2021 15:25

Girls I just don’t know what to think. I just went to boots and bought some cheap tests coz the first response are too expensive for what I need lol anyway I haven’t had anymore blood since earlier and it’s definitely a positive ! See attached. I’m just so confused. With my last chemical I tested the same day as my bleed and I couldn’t believe how negative it was so I really am confused now. I bought 10 cheap tests so I’ll test over the next few days and see. This whole pregnancy journey is so nerve racking. Xx

3dpo, 1st cycle. TWW with me?
Bexboo1 · 06/05/2021 15:08

@FinnsMammy thinking of you, hope it's not another chemical 💕💕 xx

FinnsMammy · 06/05/2021 13:23

So I called the early pregnancy unit they gave me the option to call into emergency and get a blood test or wait it out and see if the bleeding gets heavier and take a test in a few days. I decided to wait it out and test again in a few days .... I’ve also booked in a blood test for next Friday earliest I could get with my gp to check my progesterone levels as I’m not sure why I would have 2 chemicals back to back. Thanks ladies for the support I will keep you all posted.xx

lena21 · 06/05/2021 11:53

@FinnsMammy - Early Pregnancy Unit, they provide services for ladies with all sorts of pregnancy related issues with bleeding, pain or any other pregnancy related issues, they are quite helpful. I hope u will find the answers soon. sending lots of hugs your way 🤗

FinnsMammy · 06/05/2021 11:33

Thanks girls. @lena21what’s an epu? I’m so confused as I thought 2 chemicals in a row was basically unheard of. I just went to the toilet again and it’s getting progressively heavier. According to my period I’m 5 weeks 2 days but because I know I ovulated late I’m only 4 weeks 2 days. I feel like this is definitely happening all over again 😢 glad I’m not the only one going through this.

lena21 · 06/05/2021 11:19

Thanks everyone, will take each day as it comes as I was really getting too obsessed over everything, still no bleeding... just want this to be over with already!!😅

@FinnsMammy - this happened to me in early Feb.. however my tests were getting lighter each day, it was around the 5 week mark, did a scan and everything but they couldn't see anything as it was too early.. if ur tests are getting darker that sounds positive ,as @Bexboo1 suggested might be worth speaking to EPU for bloods or a scan. Will keep everything crossed for u lovely ❤️

Bexboo1 · 06/05/2021 10:46

@FinnsMammy can you speak to the epu? They offered to scan me at 6 weeks for reassurance x

FinnsMammy · 06/05/2021 10:34

Hi girls I had some more brown blood last night most I had to date and woke up to more brown blood this morning sorry for the tmi. That was about 4 hours ago and I’ve been to the toilet since and nothing I’m 14dpo today so this is the third and probably heaviest day of this! I’m freaking out. I dunno if it’s implantation bleeding this late on. I took a cheap easy at home test yesterday morning and again this morning and the line has gotten a little darker I just don’t know why I have bleeding🙈 I’m going to book a doctors app today but has anyone else experienced this ? X

FinnsMammy · 05/05/2021 18:54

@Katiekattty and @extrababydust123 thank you I have a better feeling about this one now that the spotting has stopped xx @Cosyclothes fingers and toes crossed for you. Xx

FinnsMammy · 05/05/2021 18:51

@Bexboo1 and @lena21 I’m so so sorry to hear about your losses. I was in this situation just over a month ago and I’m pregnant now so please don’t lose hope! Thinking of you both! Thus next cycle is definitely your cycles please keep us updated ! Xx baby dust to you both xx

Katiekattty · 05/05/2021 15:44

@lena21 @Bexboo1 I’m so sorry!! Wishing you all the luck for next month.

@FinnsMammy keeping my fingers crossed it was only just spotting for you.

Cosyclothes · 05/05/2021 15:25

@FinnsMammy @Katiekattty thank you ladies for your advice yesterday, af is due tomorrow and I def feel like she’s on the way, if nothing tomorrow a.m I’ll take that last test! Xx

Cosyclothes · 05/05/2021 15:24

@FinnsMammy wishing you the best of luck! ❤️❤️

@lena21 @Bexboo1 I am so so sorry 😢😢 look after yourselves ladies. I think I agree with you both about waiting on testing, it’s def what I will be doing in future. It’s too stressful. 💔💔

Bexboo1 · 05/05/2021 15:08

@lena21 me too, I don't think I could face testing early again I found it extremely upsetting 😔 I'm sure we will get them soon 💕

extrababydust123 · 05/05/2021 15:00

@FinnsMammy keep us updated lovely, fingers crossed it was just implantation bleeding and all is well 🤞🏽🥰 x

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extrababydust123 · 05/05/2021 15:00

@lena21 @Bexboo1 I am so sorry to hear about your CP’s ladies, life can be so cruel sometimes 😢 sending all my love ❤️

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lena21 · 05/05/2021 13:41

@Bexboo1 - sorry to hear about ur CP..sending lots of hugs ur way... lesson for me not to test until AF due... saves money and disappointment 🥺

Hopefully not too long in our distant future we get our rainbow babies 🌈🤞

Bexboo1 · 05/05/2021 13:30

@lena21 the same happened to me yesterday, I was exactly the same cried all day 😢 hope you are ok sending you lots of love xx

lena21 · 05/05/2021 12:27

Hi ladies, just did a test there and the lines have gradually disappeared 😭, another chemical this year... it's very cruel had a good cry there yesterday 😭😭... just waiting to bleed 😓

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