Anyone else currently on the two week wait ?

Thank you @Amyc94 and @FinnsMammy xx

@FinnsMammy ok very strange my ds was born the 17th September too

Good luck everyone for this month I'm going to try to not test untill Monday if af doesn't arrive on Sunday seeing as we aren't officially trying I Havnt got any tests in as I can't resist if they are in the house

@FinnsMammy @ottie27 I'm due on Sunday and 9dpo today too 🙈 how are you both feeling?

Exciting that you may see a little something on your test @ottie27

I'm so tempted to start testing even though I know it's early, and I will just wish I hadn't if I get BFNs 🙈

@TTC94 oh I'm sorry :( I have everything crossed for next month 🤍

@Soexciting eeek your name says it all 👏🏼 so happy for you! Amazing news

So sorry AF has arrived @TTC94. Hope you can regroup over the next couple of weeks and get ready for another cycle. It must be really tough. Xx

So sorry to hear this @TTC94. Really hope next month is your month x

@FinnsMammy I’m not sure exactly as couldn’t quite pinpoint ovulation and I have 3 apps all saying different things, but I’m guessing I’m about 9 dpo as well so realistically probably too early. I know that realistically I need to wait a few more days before I test again, but knowing it and doing it are two different things!

Morning all,

I am out for the month now. My period arrived overnight.

Onto month 13 of TTC#1 in April then...

Wishing you all luck for the remainder of your two week wait! It would be nice to see some hope for the rest of us!

Xx

How’s everyone doing this morning?

I caved and tested.... might might might have the very very faintest of squinters. DP says he sees nothing though. Spoil sport!

Sorry should add not using opks so that's an estimate

Can I tentatively join please we are not officially try however we are no longer preventing.

Ttc no2 ds is 18months, last time I fell after 3 cycles which ended in mc at 8 weeks and then took another 12months to fall with ds although really was actively trying for about 8 of those months due to not feeling ready. We put so much pressure on it last time that we are trying to take a more relaxed approach... how long that will last for I don't know

Currently cycle 3 of not preventing 8dpo af due Sunday

@Soexciting that is amazing, I can definitely see it! Keep us updated over the next few days 😍😍 so happy for you!

Sending love to everyone having a tough time with this. I was saying to my husband this evening that I never thought it’d be like this! We were due to get married last May but got postponed due to Covid & so we had to put off trying till January (we got married late December). I couldn’t wait to start trying and so happy we’re able to now after what felt like a long wait but it’s way more stressful than I anticipated.

Baby dust and positive vibes everyone. Night night ✨ 💖

@Soexciting huge congratulations I will keep everything crossed that it develops into a nice healthy strong positive for you. So lovely to have some positive news already on this thread.

@TTC94 I’m so sorry you’ve had such a hard time of it but try not to give up hope. There is still every chance that you will have a child even if it turns out to be a more difficult journey than you hoped for or anticipated. When you do finally get to hold your baby in your arms it will make all of this heartbreak worthwhile. A close friend of mine had a similar experience to you, she had a miscarriage about 9 months into ttc and then nothing for another year. She was on the verge of giving up when it happened! I know that that’s a cliche and it doesn’t happen for everyone but I just wanted to try and give you some hope. This is one of the hardest things we can do as women. We’re biologically programmed to want children but when it doesn’t happen, no one can truly understand the heartbreak and agony it causes. Take time for some self care. I’m not sure if it’s possible at the moment with lockdown but I highly recommend acupuncture as a relaxation method. It has also been suggested to aid conception but I think it’s benefits when ttc and dealing with the stress it causes, are amazing all on its own. Sending you love and hugs x

@Soexciting I see it too!! Congratulations!!

Feeling a few more symptoms / figments of my imagination today too, so I’m hoping you’re right about it being a lucky thread! I’m not sure I will hold out til Wednesday... may well end up testing tomorrow!

5dpo here 🤪 going crazyyyyy

@Soexciting congrats!!

I never understood how hard it was to take a picture of a faint line until today

@Soexciting I see it and I can honestly NEVER see squinters! Huge congrats!

I can tentatively say this is a lucky thread... I a squinter at 11dpo

@TTC94 i know!! Little does she know we've been trying since last June! Then if I do get lucky the 1st 3 months would consist of 'why don't you want a glass of wine?! Are you pregnant??' haha!!!

@Mrsmujic it’s so frustrating isn’t it?!

I get the same from practically everyone in my husband’s family.

I’m on the verge of telling losing my temper concerning it because it is increasingly pissing me off - so insensitive and unnecessary.

Sending you positivity and good luck xx

I got the old "when are you having a baby?!" From the MIL today.. 🤦 How don't women realise it's more difficult than flicking a switch that says 'pregnant' / 'not pregnant' arghhh! We are wanting to keep it just between the two of us until 12 weeks if we do get lucky, really dont want anyone to know we are trying and don't see why we should have to tell anyone either.. Still a week to go too 😐