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Recent MC - New cycles & trying again

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Mellous · 06/03/2021 15:09

Hi all,

A thread for the ladies from the recent MC/MMC group and for anybody else who wants to join us as we discuss getting our cycles back on track after MC and starting to TTC again x

@ams19
@abimix
@plantmummy87
@thehotelcalifornia
@pettylamby
@laurat94
@neady1980

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AMS19 · 07/03/2021 06:30

Arrrgghhh @LauraT94 AMAZING!!! Oh well this really is a lucky thread!! Oh I'm so super happy for you. Beautiful chart too so only right to end in a lovely BFP! Yay!

@dippyegg32 yeah im usually awake 5.30am most morning. Its when I take my temp so my body annoyingly wakes me up that time now everyday.

I'm incredibly hungover today 🤢

LauraT94 · 07/03/2021 06:23

@dippyegg32 I'm up too! But I would be equally appalled if OH tried it on at this time 😂

What do we reckon of these tests then? 😜 They're extremely faint but they would be at 9dpo! I can definitely see lines on both. And here's proof that the Wondfo '20mIU' track lines at the same rate/sensitivity as the FRERs! Temp also went up this morning 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

Recent MC - New cycles & trying again
Recent MC - New cycles & trying again
dippyegg32 · 07/03/2021 05:51

Morning lovelies anyone else an early bird? I've been waking anytime from 4am recently Hmm DH thought it would be a good time to try it on - no love, shop's firmly shut!

Seasalt1984 · 06/03/2021 23:28

@summersun001 amazing news!! Totally understand its a scary time too, but keeping fingers and toes firmly crossed for you. Sending love and congrats x

Seasalt1984 · 06/03/2021 23:20

Hey, just caught up on other thread after a few days away. I'd like to join too, thanks for setting up @mellous x

angc30 · 06/03/2021 22:14

@Summersun001 congratulations!! Everything crossed for you!!

@dippyegg32 dying at the usual sex like comment we've been doing the SMEP for what feels like forever and just so flipping tiring 😂 between dtd, pineapple cores and Brazil nuts it's a chore sometimes

@AMS19 I'm having my first drink in 2021 and lord help my husband bc I missed wine. I'm not even a big drinker. Since my mc I've had so many coffees and sushi and keep telling him I gotta live it up for the next couple weeks bc we're going get good news

@AMS19 @Mellous @PlantMummy87 thank you! I'm hoping for my cycle to come back quickly and levels to go down

Sorry for such a long post all. Really appreciate everyones advice about cycles and getting back on the horse 😂x

AMS19 · 06/03/2021 21:43

@Summersun001 honestly I totally understand. If I'm lucky enough to ever get another BFP I'll feel nothing but fear. I have absolutely everything crossed for you xx

Summersun001 · 06/03/2021 21:32

@Mellous hi lovely. I had headaches and fatigue. No cramps or implantation bleeding - though I didn’t have these on my first pregnancy either.
The FRER tests have been the clearest tests also.

Thank you ladies. I am so grateful for your well wishes. Very much taking it hour by hour at the moment!! I’m not feeling too positive sadly. But hopefully I’ll be proved wrong! Xx

DMT1982 · 06/03/2021 21:18

@Summersun001 I agree with what @AMS19 said about every other pregnancy announcement outside of this group will hurt but knowing what we’ve all been through we are genuinely overjoyed for you xxx

MSK1 · 06/03/2021 21:17

Hello,

I hope that I’m ok to join your thread. I’ve been following the previous thread and it made me feel better to know that I wasn’t alone, if you get what I mean?

I’m 5 weeks post MC with my first pregnancy (we were 8 weeks when we found out) and my first period started this morning, thank goodness. Sort of just want to try to get on with things now really.

Found out yesterday that one of my colleagues is pregnant and due around the same time we would’ve been which threw me a bit. I’m pleased for her but it made me think ‘what if?’ Came home and had a good old cry, not sure if I’ll ever be ok when reacting to pregnancy announcements but hoping it’ll get easier with a bit more time.

Anyway, we’re hoping to try again this month so thought I’d join you and say hello.

Hope you’re all enjoying your weekend.

dippyegg32 · 06/03/2021 20:40

@Summersun001 oh darling how wonderful!! Here's hoping we all follow you soon xx

LauraT94 · 06/03/2021 20:39

@Summersun001 wow! Amazing news ❤️ congratulations! I can 100% understand your feelings of anxiety! I think a BFP after a loss is always going to be a mixture of many different feelings! You've got this thread off to such a lovely and positive start, so thank you for sharing! ❤️

Mellous · 06/03/2021 20:38

@Summersun001 did you have any early symptoms? xx

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AMS19 · 06/03/2021 20:28

Omg @Summersun001 our first BFP!!! Oh darling girl I'm absolutely over the moon!! Honestly every other pregnancy announcement hurts but yours brings such joy and hope. I'm so so so happy xx

SuzieDeLaTour · 06/03/2021 20:28

@LauraT94 good luck with the testing tomorrow - everything crossed for you! Let us know what the good ol’ FRER has to say 🤞🤞 x

Summersun001 · 06/03/2021 20:28

Thanks ladies. I’m trying my best to go about my daily routine without thinking about it!

Genuinely got my fingers and toes crossed this works out. And that this becomes a lucky thread!!!! Xx

SuzieDeLaTour · 06/03/2021 20:27

@Summersun001 oh amazing news!! I’m so happy for you. I know it’s an anxious time but the past doesn’t dictate the future - this is a new chapter x
I know what you all mean with your stash of tests - I’m exactly the same!! Got millions of bloody boxes stashed in my wardrobe 🤣 I’ve no idea what’s going on this cycle, OPKs still coming up negative on CD15 (or 13 if I count from first day of proper bleeding). Just hoping that lovely dark pink line appears over the next week and I’m in with a chance this month🤞
@AMS19 acupuncture sounds great, let us know how you get on. I might be tempted to do the same! X

Neady1980 · 06/03/2021 20:19

@Summersun001 congratulations I'm so happy for you, it's great news 🌈🌈

DMT1982 · 06/03/2021 20:17

@AMS19 I can’t seem to drink more than a couple of glasses of wine anymore however I would trade wine and being drunk for being pregnant any day of the week. Xx

PlantMummy87 · 06/03/2021 20:16

@Summersun001absolutely wonderful news 💕 I can completely understand feeling anxious, take each day as it comes. Sending you lots of love.

@AMS19 I completely feel you about getting drunk. I had my first alcoholic drink last night since November, I'm such a lightweight so don't drink much but it was wonderful to just relax in the bath with. In regards to acupuncture it is so expensive isn't it. Hoping like you to go a few times and hopefully things will be a more on track. 🤞

DMT1982 · 06/03/2021 20:15

@Summersun001 wow that’s absolutely amazing so so happy for you.

Stay positive, you’re going to anxious that’s a given but you are pregnant and your body is a wonderful thing and has got back on track following your loss so believe in it xxx

Pettylamby · 06/03/2021 20:13

Yay @summersun001!! Congratulations!! 🌈

Mellous · 06/03/2021 20:08

@Summersun001 wow our first bfp, amazing news... over the moon for you.

I hope it’s the first of many here!!

xx

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Summersun001 · 06/03/2021 20:02

Hi ladies ❤️ Hoping you don’t mind if I join. @Mellous thank you for setting up this thread.

I am 11 DPO, and had a BFP yesterday following my 2nd period after mc. I just wanted to share this news as my temps and OPKs were all over the shop this month; what I will say is I peaked twice (same as last month) but my temps were accurate - I wouldn’t want any of you ladies to lose hope.

I’m a little anxious at the moment and just keep thinking it’s going to be a chemical, or early mc. It’s a really strange feeling.

Sending love to you all. I’m really sorry if this has upset anyone. Hope you’re all okay xx

AMS19 · 06/03/2021 19:53

Anyone else get drunk hoping this is the last time for 10 months, or just me?!