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Recent MC - New cycles & trying again

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Mellous · 06/03/2021 15:09

Hi all,

A thread for the ladies from the recent MC/MMC group and for anybody else who wants to join us as we discuss getting our cycles back on track after MC and starting to TTC again x

@ams19
@abimix
@plantmummy87
@thehotelcalifornia
@pettylamby
@laurat94
@neady1980

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DMT1982 · 17/03/2021 18:40

@dippyegg32 bottom one definitely looks darker xxx

glowingtwig · 17/03/2021 18:26

@dippyegg32 same as other people the latest test is way way darker and looks like good progression! When is AF due? Lots of cm is a good sign!

dippyegg32 · 17/03/2021 18:24

I'm either 2 days late or due on tomorrow as cycles are 24-28 days

justwant2beamum · 17/03/2021 18:14

Sorry just caught up been having some time away from my phone. Welcome and sorry to those who've sadly had to join.

@dippyegg32 I think your most recent test looks way darker than previous and I think that's excellent progression - I'd be chuffed with that!! Your lines are just getting better and better every time you post! I've got everything crossed for you!

I've deactivated my Facebook and Instagram due to too many pregnancies/babies/announcements and adverts so I really hope you ladies will still post updates here too as I have found you all invaluable support! 🤍

I spoke to gp on Monday, was back to work snd struggling massively. Not helped by the fact I hate my job and so am signed off again this week (this will be week 2 - I worry I'm being unreasonable but I don't think I am?!) Sunday was tough with Mother's Day. This Friday 19th should have been our 12 week scan. DP off Friday too so planning a long early morning walk.

I had ERPC Friday 5th March. Bled from then until just about yesterday/today ish. It's now more pink cm when I wipe rather than actual blood. DTD for the first time this morning as we were feeling like it. Not doing anything to prevent even though won't have had a proper period. I'm still waiting for a negative test (and feeling a bit reckless by dtd with no protection in case I then wouldn't know if it's new positive) but I think I'm not going to prevent something I want so what will be will be! Bit of an odd request as I know we're always wanting the other way round, but would you say these tests are looking a good bit lighter, from Sunday to today? I just want the old hcg to bugger off now so i know my body is going back to normal.

Hoping to see some BFPs on this thread this month ☺️

Recent MC - New cycles & trying again
Recent MC - New cycles & trying again
Tealchoc · 17/03/2021 18:12

@dippyegg32 I’d be over the moon with that positive test!

Quinn26 · 17/03/2021 18:12

@dippyegg32 I agree the bottom one looks much stronger xx

Pettylamby · 17/03/2021 18:03

@dippyegg32 remind me how many dpo you are and when AF is due? Xx

Pettylamby · 17/03/2021 18:00

@dippyegg32 that's great progression for early on!! The bottom one is defo much stronger!! I know you will be so so anxious, and won't want to believe it until you've missed your period, but I'd say right now you are pregnant! 💕💕

TTC94 · 17/03/2021 17:51

@dippyegg32 I agree! Great progression from the top to the bottom test! I think that’s reassuring. Xx

Mellous · 17/03/2021 17:43

@dippyegg32 looks amazing to me lovely! xxx

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SuzieDeLaTour · 17/03/2021 17:35

@dippyegg32 there is SUCH a difference!! I would be delighted with that change in 48 hours. That’s a proper positive test right there!? I say wipe away those tears...your tests are doing everything they should!! Xx

dippyegg32 · 17/03/2021 17:28

@SuzieDeLaTour yeh about an hour ago, took the pic basically straight away. It's no different really is it? Sad

SuzieDeLaTour · 17/03/2021 17:24

@dippyegg32 sweetheart is the bottom one your latest one? X

dippyegg32 · 17/03/2021 16:45

I've cried basically all day. I'm not cut out for this. I'm not bleeding and the cramps have eased but got lots of cm. I've just done another frer after 48 hours and the difference is negligible. That coupled with the temperature drop it's just a waiting game now Sad

Recent MC - New cycles & trying again
PlantMummy87 · 17/03/2021 13:52

Happy St. Paddy's Day @Neady1980. Hope you are having a lovely day. So good to hear you are feeling calm and relaxed, hopefully it will continue throughout this cycle for you 😊

Meant to say @dippyegg32 I'm also up for and group.

Neady1980 · 17/03/2021 13:02

Happy Paddys day from Ireland, hope everyone is doing well and has a nice chilled out day. Fb group sounds great 🙂
I haven't been on much,I'm CD4 and honestly I feel great so calm and relaxed which makes a change.

Ralala · 17/03/2021 11:01

Yes to fb group also.

Im cd 22 and absolutely not got a clue if I have ovulated or not. Wild temps (although likely due to broken thermometer), loads of ewcm ever other day .... what’s going on body.

PlantMummy87 · 17/03/2021 10:32

@dippyegg32 sorry to hear of the temp drop today. I know it is way easier said than done, but try not to focus on it too much. As the others have said BBT can vary so much due to a range of reasons. As @SuzieDeLaTour said try to take each hour/day as it comes xx

yepstilltrying · 17/03/2021 10:02

@dippyegg32 I know RHR is diff to temp but I looked back in my fitbit data from when I was pregnant 2 years ago and my RHR went up and down loads, so I reckon temp can fluctuate a lot too.

SuzieDeLaTour · 17/03/2021 09:04

@dippyegg32 oh sweetheart try not to worry- easier said than done I know! Bodies are weird (and wonderful) things and just because your temp has dropped it doesn’t spell disaster. Just take each hour / day as it comes. Sending you huge virtual hugs xx

Quinn26 · 17/03/2021 07:47

@dippyegg32 I would be up for a Facebook group x

Mellous · 17/03/2021 06:59

Yes I’m up for that x

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glowingtwig · 17/03/2021 06:29

I'm so sorry you're suffering @dippyegg32
@Pettylamby said everything I was thinking. I don't know much about temps but what I do know is what my GP said yesterday and that is that you can sometimes have too much information that makes you worry when things will be just fine.

It's so hard though and I need to take my own advice to distract myself.

A big yes to the fb group x

TTC94 · 17/03/2021 06:26

I would be @dippyegg32 x

dippyegg32 · 17/03/2021 06:11

Would anyone be up for a fb group?

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