Post Pill Party - The Line Dance

@Robyn101 OMG!! I totally see it!!

@MissC07 Yes, both! And if in doubt... jump that man!

@Juno231 @ChinChilly I honestly haven't even ovulated since you said we have three cycles to have a 2021 baby I agree... i'd be happy to just get pregnant by Christmas... or even just to ovulate at this point!

I just watched the first episode of a BBC documentary about surrogates ... left me very worried that I left TTC until too late in my life... hopefully not!

@Robyn101 I think I remember you having a long cycle? You must be and congrats again!

If you don’t mind and when you get a chance, please give us a summary of your journey. When you came off the pill etc xx

Thankyou @MissC07 @ChinChilly @Tillybabs I’m just in complete and utter shock, I’ve been more preoccupied with my messed up cycles that I just assumed my symptoms were PMS related. Only tested because it was the day to test according to FF

@Robyn101 congratulations I definitely see it 😃

@Robyn101 I definitely see that 👀 congratulations 🎉

@Tillybabs sorry AF is on the way 😞

@MissC07 I’d mark both days as + of FF

@Juno231 interesting about IVF being cheaper in Copenhagen! We definitely get stung for the price of private medical in the UK

I’ve been staring at this all morning.
You guys see it right? I’m not just seeing what I want to see?

@MissC07 I'd put both days and def jump OH tonight as well.

Just chatted to a lady I used to speak to on MN a year ago and she's just had an IVF transfer done in Copenhagen cause it's much cheaper. Will def be browsing that today!

@ChinChilly this year is indeed going so fast! And AF is on the way which makes it more depressing 😭

@Tillybabs @Kay00 thanks both 💐

@Juno231 I hate that monday feeling and why does the dread always start on Sunday. I can’t believe this is the last cycle for a 2021 baby, it feels like only yesterday you said we’ve only got 3 cycles to get a 2021 baby now its the last one 😭 tbh I’d settle for just being pregnant by christmas!

@ChinChilly haha I feel you on the Monday mornings. I've had terrible sleep all weekend cause of worrying about work so I'm not feeling peachy either. Totally understandable about your uncle - I'd feel the same.

@MissC07 reckon today is ovulation day or that it happened yday already?

@kay00 now that mother's day has passed I keep thinking that if I dont catch this cycle (unlikely!) then that will be yet another Christmas without a baby...

and omg ladies we're about to lose out on a 2021 baby! Sorry for being a debbie downer this morning lol

@chinchilly

@ChinChilly no that’s not bad given your recent circumstances. It’s just human.

@Juno231 nooo, I didn’t mean trolling, now I’ve re-read it, it makes no sense LOL! Jeez my brain does not function on a Monday morning 🙄

@Kay00 @Tillybabs @Juno241 glad I’m not the only one who found mother’s day abit difficult this year, thought I was just being sensitive, also my uncles son from a previous relationship announced they had, had another baby, didn’t even know his girlfriend was pregnant 🙄 I found it quite difficult to even say congratulations,that’s really bad isn’t it?

Morning ladies, I have also been quite quiet. Mother's day was quite difficult as my sister, sister's in laws and all my cousins celebrated being mothers, and all wished me 'happy dogs mum day'... which I know came from a nice place, but just upset me. I don't want to be the mum of dogs, I want to be the mum of an actual human being

@Flowers222 Happy 30th birthday!! A big milestone, but your ovaries are still nice and young I'm sure it won't be long for you now xx

I haven't been referred yet... but my doctor said she would refer me if I called back this week (I wonder why she didn't refer me there and then??). I'll call back this week and see what she says.

I'm on CD8 and still on my period!!! haha!! What the flippin' hell body?!?

@ChinChilly is it trolling? I thought it's meant to plummet in the FP?

@Emmgrem crikey I have no clue what's going on with your charts! Maybe it was anovulatory in the end? I really hope your next one is more normal.

@flowers222 happy birthday! Did you celebrate at the weekend or do you have plans for tonight?

@Kay00 brilliant news about getting that referral in already, I'm so pleased for you!

Sorry I've been quiet. CD3 here so been grumpy about AF, cycle 16 and mother's day all in one. Apologies if I missed anything :/

@Flowers222 happy birthday!

@MissC07 that’s a really good positive opk you got there!

I was meant to message on here yesterday. I know it can be a hard day for some of us so sending lots of love and virtual hugs xx

Oh and my RHR is trolling me again 😂

@Cams50 @Gracie2021 doggo is fine, he seems to have limber tail though from falling into the freezing cold canal! He’s had it before and it’s common in retriever breeds? Who knew!

@Robyn101 Yeah I’m guessing it could be a iff month for me! Great you’ve got O confirmed, keeping everything crossed for you!

@Gracie2021 I haven’t had any more EWCM so I’m guessing it was just a blip! I totally get the whole hoping for atleast a CP, there’s like a wierd positive of knowing that you can get pregnant. My OH was just delighted that his swimmers are working 🙄

I need to order some OPKs today I’m not sure whether to stick to the easy@home ones or try the femometer ones...ultimately it doesn’t really matter I guess as they all do the sam F’ing thing 😂

Hi guys, took the rest of the day to lick my wounds so just catching up now and and pinning my hopes for a BFP on those of you in the TWW now. Sending all the positive sticky bean vibes out there for ye all.

@Cams50 fingers crossed this is the month for you. Here's to a good week ahead and you not reaching the year.

@Kay00 so glad that you're being referred. Delighted you can have some support alongside.

@ChinChilly funny enough I soMetimes get one day of fertile CM straight after AF from cycle to cycle. Any sign today or are you back on track for usual ovulation? Hope you, OH and dog are recovered after aquatic adventures!

@abi555 what a lovely rise. Fingers crossed.

@Flowers222 happy birthday! Hope you had a lovely day. I hear you about the imagined milestones. I'm 33 soon and had always thought I'd either have my first or be pregnant by 30 🤷‍♀️ life has its own timeline doesn't it 🙈think we all have these arbitrary timelines in ours though don't we. Birthday hugs to you x

@Emmgrem sorry you're having such a weird time of things. I wonder was the 25 and the 18 just one long cycle as your body adjusted after the CP?

@MissC07 if Carlsberg did Peaks.....

@TheDaydreamBelievers maybe just a really light AF?

@Robyn101 looking like a good literal phase and great to get O confirmed too. Fingers crossed for you x

Things better here today. Won't lie yesterday involved a lot of tears on the couch before having a big chat about it all with the OH/aka therapist for the day which really helped. Think because I'd never even seen a hint of a line before I was hoping for even a CP to at least assure me that our bodies are doing something 🤷‍♀️ CD1 here this morning bang on schedule. No mad plans or ambitions, no woo woo and very little effort planned outside of BD. Here we go again 👍

Chart just because 🤷🏻‍♀️