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No AF....but no BFP either!

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xClaire · 23/02/2021 12:22

I took a test today (not first pee of the day as I didn't have any tests in!) and it was a bfn. I took a frer around 5 days before AF, also a bfn.

I've been ttc for 13 months now, my last pregnancy was August/September 2019 which ended in the loss of my right tube as it was an ectopic. Pregnancy before that in 2018 ended in a mc :(
I kind of feel like it won't happen for me after trying for so long and this month is the first that I 'felt' pregnant and hopeful. A few dull cramps not like af pains. Feeling waves of nausea and quite warm (I'm usually always freezing lol)

Has anyone else experienced having bfn with no sign of AF?

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xClaire · 01/03/2021 21:58

Evening all.

Thanks for everyone's responses. Unfortunately AF the day after this post. I hope everyone has a better outcome than myself.

I have two beautiful boys and I will be forever grateful for them. I've always said I won't try after a certain age and I'll be reaching that in April. My OH wants us to keep trying but I don't want to spend the rest of my young(ish) years in misery, loss and heartbreak.
Baby dust to all xx

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choccrumpet · 01/03/2021 21:43

I've been having some symptoms and it's been a few days since my period was due so I started allowing myself to feel hopeful.. and then tonight I tested negative so am really unsure now. It's heartbreaking. Hope you're doing okay too @A1b2c3d4e5f6g7

A1b2c3d4e5f6g7 · 01/03/2021 21:32

Ah I'm so sorry, I feel the same, defeated. And don't want to get hopes up. Hope you're both okay

choccrumpet · 01/03/2021 21:27

My period is a few days late too (it's normally on time). I've had a few faint line tests but also some negatives so am quite confused.

I've had 3 chemicals during the past 7 months, I'm sorry about your losses. I'm really struggling at the moment, I hope tomorrow mornings test gives me some clarity. It's devastating seeing negatives after a positive. If this one doesn't work out it'll be my fourth one.

Did you get any answers?

tuesday2am · 01/03/2021 21:26

I’m kind of in the same boat, CD39 today (usually I’m about 32-34). Have taken two FRERs in the last week and both were BFN. Have been trying for #2 for 11 months. Have had two early miscarriages since.

Feeling so defeated and just want AF to arrive so that we can start trying again.

So sorry to hear about your ectopic. Hope you get some good news soon.

A1b2c3d4e5f6g7 · 01/03/2021 21:15

Hi I'm so sorry to hear about your ectopic. That must have been awful. Was wondering how it went, did you get a BFP? I miscarried about the same time as you, and found this post as I'm also late, negative test, and wondering why

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