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Impatient TTC - Thread 3..or 4?

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sunflowersaremyfav93 · 11/02/2021 20:04

Hi ladies

I've tagged as many as I could find, some of us are trying, some have had BFPs... here's to a lucky thread. 🤞🏻

@cookiemonster3001
@mackjm20
@kayeyeem
@curiosity101
@wrensandrobins
@olderthanyouthink
@NewbieB
@TheNewMrsW
@princesscallie
@clouless
@mayday27
@Wowthisisreal
@TTCWC2
@gems05
@potterurrotter
@arrierttyclock
@bells3032
@hollymaeres
@pebbleinthesand
@surreychick

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Arrierttyclock · 16/02/2021 12:14

@sunflowersaremyfav93 I'm so glad to read that because i have a hot water bottle constantly. Because I have IBS it's the only thing that helps the pain and now I'm just addicted. They even come on holiday with me!

I'm worrying about my luteal phase atm. I got my peak on Sunday and I'm due in on Tuesday which is only a 9 day luteal phase 🤦🏽‍♀️

sunflowersaremyfav93 · 16/02/2021 12:03

@CookieMonster3001 forgot to say - I've just ordered myself some fluffy socks and I've already stocked up on pomegranate juice ready for next week lol!
I'll be keeping myself warm and using my hot water bottle but I did read that it's bad to overheat the uterus... am I ok putting a hot water bottle on my stomach do you think?

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sunflowersaremyfav93 · 16/02/2021 11:34

@CookieMonster3001 you're good for holding out and waiting to test! The symptoms are sounding good though, please let us know as soon as you test. I'm excited for you!
I've just booked myself a week off w/c 15 March, we can only book that early in advance so it ends up being the week after I'd have done a test so hopefully I spend my week happy and not sad that AF arrived.
I'm going to keep on with the OPKs because I have a feeling I'll be ovulating earlier than usual. We DTD last night so will plan to do it again tomorrow or day after depending on what the OPKs are saying.

@princesscallie I'm trying with the dressing up nicely as well it just feels so planned now, I guess that's part of it?!

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velam · 16/02/2021 09:57

@princesscallie thank you Smile

@Kayeyeem thank you Smile, it's so reassuring to hear that you had the same I got a bit worried. Hopefully this month you will get BFP.

CookieMonster3001 · 16/02/2021 09:54

@velam ahh congratulations that's a very clear positive!

@sunflowersaremyfav93 I am already getting itchy feet to test! Lol.. I have a pack of 20 cheapie tests and tempted to do one tomorrow morning! It sounds like you could if your experiencing the pains, I would keep OPK testing (Maybe twice a day to make sure you catch it?) and just keep BDing every other day so that your covered just incase!

@princesscallie thank you!! Concieve plus has been my saviour during TTC as sometimes you just need to get it done and the lube is sperm friendly so helps get things going! And I don't know if its a coincidence, but the first month that I used it, I fell pregnant

@Kayeyeem ooo another Chinese!! Sounds like yours was good but even better you get another soon! And well done on your 5lb loss that's incredible!!! Despite my long list of apparent symptoms I listed yesterday, this month I feel very little compared to normal TWWs! at 6DPO you wont have even implanted yet so no HCG to give you symptoms anyway! (I can talk..Im just as bad haha)

Same blood taste in my mouth this morning, went away after a cup of coffee. Did check my gums and defo no bleeding so god knows what that is!

Last day at work then I am off for 5 days!! Yipee!! I got my next assignment due in on Thursday so need to get cracking with that. Defo helping me take my mind off things! Then both me and OH have Friday off so planning on having a nice relaxing day (that will be decided based on the test in the morning lol)

princesscallie · 15/02/2021 21:20

@sunflowersaremyfav93

Haha I don't know about keeping it fun. I have to say I am finding it a bit of a chore this time round. We'd usually DTD 2 to 3 times a week depending on the mood but since we decided to go again it has been more of an effort! More of a means to an end...Smile and this is only officially month one!!! I might give it a go tonight and leave it then for this this month as I'm now on cycle day 18 so if I did ovulate I'm sure it's happened by now...no more peeing on ovulation sticks either this month!!! Enough is enough...but how I kept it fun the last time was dressing up, doing it at random times of the day, waiting for him in bed when he got home from work. Its alot harder now as we have a 7 and a 5 year old.

sunflowersaremyfav93 · 15/02/2021 20:54

@princesscallie gosh I need to be like you! 😂 just go for it though, you'll wish you did in a few days. Maybe get some a perm friendly lube as well to help?
Tips on keeping it fun and not all about baby making though, you seem to have it down to a T!

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Kayeyeem · 15/02/2021 20:38

@velam Welcome and congratulations 🎉 I cramped a lot through both my previous pregnancies so I'd say the cramps were normal.
@CookieMonster3001 symptoms sound good 🙂

Well I got my Chinese last night...but the Chinese made a mistake and gave me a slightly different meal 😩 I was too hungry to take it back. Good job it still tasted good and DH has promised me another for my birthday in a couple of weeks lol.
On a positive note I lost 5lbs this week! 10lbs since January 🙌
6DPO (or potentially 8DPO if my cramps were actually ovulation) and not really feeling much of anything 😒

princesscallie · 15/02/2021 20:06

@velam congratulations!! Definitely a line. Wishing you a healthy and happy nine months.

@CookieMonster3001 your signs and symptoms all sounds very positive. Best of luck to you over the coming days...x

@sunflowersaremyfav93 I have 2 tracking apps on my phone and both had a different ovulation day. I had my tracker and flo. As I mentioned above I was using clearblue digital ovulation sticks and had nothing up to yesterday which was cycle day 17. I didnt test today as was out during the middle of the day and this evening I have lots of EWCM so I'm wondering now would i finally be ovulating! We DTD last night in the middle of the night and I wont lie I don't feel like doing it tonight. I'm wrecked and a bit sore as we have been DTD every second day for the last 10 days...and I don't feel like it tonight but might have to suck it up!!! And advice?

sunflowersaremyfav93 · 15/02/2021 19:29

Hey ladies - I have a question

So this cycle was an odd one for me, it came on time and was normal length but I was really light. One of the things with didelphic uterus is I always lose loads of lining, I often have large clots come out (I feel we're past having to say TMI now lol) anyway this cycle was so light I have no clots come out?

Today I've had some cramps felt like ovulation type cramps but it can't be because I literally just finished my period. Did an OPK and added the photo to PreMom which gave me a rating of 0.24 which is low but I was looking at December where I tracked OPK and I was 0.27 day before peak (image attached) do you think my peak is just going to come early this month? I'll keep tracking I'll try do another one before bed.

I have three diff apps that I use, no idea why, and they're all telling me my FW starts on diff days. Flo says Sunday, Ovia says Saturday and PreMom says Friday. I guess the best thing to do is DTD regularly and just make sure there's plenty of sperm up there.

Just wondered if you guys had anything similar before and what you think best thing to do is?

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velam · 15/02/2021 18:49

@Arrierttyclock thank you so much! 11dpo xx

@NewbieB I hope not, I have light cramping in my lower ab, gp said it's normal. I hope this one sticks, so excited. xx

@sunflowersaremyfav93 thanks, it's good you all see it too xx

sunflowersaremyfav93 · 15/02/2021 18:19

Def looks like a positive @velam, congratulations!

@CookieMonster3001 excited for you!!

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NewbieB · 15/02/2021 17:48

@velam oh I see. Horrible.

But guessing no reason to think this will be the same? How exciting 🥳🥳.

Arrierttyclock · 15/02/2021 17:26

@velam can deff see a line!! Congratulations!!! How many dpo are you?xx

velam · 15/02/2021 17:16

@NewbieB Thank you. When you loose the pregnancy close after implementation 5 weeks pregnant. Yeah me too, been waiting for this for so long.

Keep us posted when you test xxx

NewbieB · 15/02/2021 16:30

@velam omg 100% a line!! So pleased for you!! What is a chemical and i hope it’s not!! X

velam · 15/02/2021 15:53

Can't believe I see this and I was not imagining my symptom.

But slightly worried as I have light cramping in my lower abdominal, I had this last time ended up in chemical pregnancy. Hope this is normal and no reason to panic.

velam · 15/02/2021 15:47

Tell me you can also see the line.

Impatient TTC - Thread 3..or 4?
NewbieB · 15/02/2021 13:48

@velam thank you! Good luck to you, let us know what happens when you test x

velam · 15/02/2021 13:46

Thank you @NewbieB, hope at the end of TWW you get your BFP Smile

NewbieB · 15/02/2021 13:34

@CookieMonster3001 oh well done- must be so hard to wait, I know I will be a nightmare soon!
I’m used to 3-4 cups of tea a day so going to cut down to one a day for now as will struggle. Have just bought a load of de-caf tea for rest of day. I never thought of having to cut stuff out whilst trying but it makes total sense in case it does happen

@velam welcome! - I’ve just joined too. Started the TWW yesterday/today.

velam · 15/02/2021 13:27

Thank you so much @CookieMonster3001, that's all I need at the moment, loosing my mind and trying to hide it from mu husband.

I really hope this month is your month and you get that BFP. Honestly, hoping that for everyone here.

CookieMonster3001 · 15/02/2021 13:23

@NewbieB @sunflowersaremyfav93 thanks!! Hoping to hold out till the end of the week before I test..

I only really have one caffeine (coffee) drink a week, usually on Saturday, but I have switched to decaf since TTC started. I still drink alcohol until I get a positive, but I don't drink much anyway, a drink or two on the weekend and that's about it.

@velam welcome! We know the feeling! Fingers crossed for this month!

velam · 15/02/2021 13:20

Hi ladies, can I join you too?

It's been more than a year of trying with one chemical pregnancy in May. So I become very impatient now. AF is due this Thursday-Friday and as always I am imagining symptom (sore boob, nausea, spotting, light cramping and so on). trying to not test till Saturday at least (if AF doesn't come). Need your supports to stay sane.

NewbieB · 15/02/2021 12:51

P.S do you ladies limit caffeine and avoid alcohol during TWW?? X