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TTC after MC - Feb/March 2021 (Thread 18)

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bez91 · 11/02/2021 06:40

New thread ladies as the other is almost full.

Tagging everyone I can....

@Bellabubble
@Pancakes7
@TheDaydreamBelievers
@PumpkinEverything
@NatJ24
@NatNoo96
@ELMcg
@RichmondLady1981
@susiebluebell
@Garman
@bumptobean
@bubblybrit
@PrettyPinkPansies
@chloedancer897
@elsimo
@HereWeGoooo
@ttcrainbowbaby1
@Seasalt1984
@Strawberry08

Congrats to those with BFPs on the last thread there was a lot of you 🥳

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Florence15 · 06/03/2021 18:30

@Jaym78 thanks hun . I hate symptom spotting and thinking I am then I’m not then I am again. Driving me bonkers!! Been so emosh this week and had a cry on OH last night saying I just wanna give up. It’s so hard TTC when you want it so much. Good luck hun xx

Jaym78 · 06/03/2021 18:11

Hey @Florence15 thanks for replying , I will do just that . And 9dpo is still early chuck, still time. Fingers are crossed for you , your not out till your out xx

Florence15 · 06/03/2021 17:49

@Jaym78 I can see a line yes. Looks promising definitely. Test again with a different brand in the morning 🤞 keeping fingers crossed for you. I’m currently 9dpo. Had very slight brown cm the last 3 days and feel like I’m getting thrush. Had a bpn this morning so I’m not very hopeful as no other symptoms 🤷‍♀️. Still think my hormones are off too be honest. Hopeful for you. Let us know how u get on 😊

Jaym78 · 06/03/2021 17:05

Hi girls, how are you all ? Any BFPs? I defo hope so for u all . Looking fo opinions please im 6 days late nauseous sore breasts and tired . I feel so emotional too. I've done a cheapie to day and there is a faint line , I expected it to be deeper this late ive used yhat negative image app thing to try to show u all , what do u think ?

TTC after MC - Feb/March 2021 (Thread 18)
chloedancer897 · 04/03/2021 19:27

@Mysleepingangel sounds more like ovulation bleeding and cramping as it would be slightly too early for implication? That usually happens 8-10 DPO and ovulation usually happens 12-36 hours following a peak on OPKs. Either way, it's a good sign that you DTD at the right time!

minthumbugs · 04/03/2021 15:48

Aww @Florence15 hope you're ok. I'm feeling the same way, bit teary! I've had implantation bleeding that was like that before. Hope it's a good result for you. X

Florence15 · 04/03/2021 13:57

Hi everyone, I’m on 7dpo and just had some dark yellow cm. it’s possibly my AF as I can sometimes spot early on before AF. Has anyone else had dark cm around this time and had a good result? Don’t know why but I’m feeling really deflated about ttc this week! Feel really down about it 😢

gizmo167 · 04/03/2021 13:26

Thanks @marvellouslymadmum I may just go back to the folic acid with vitamin d & see if I notice any change!

Marvellouslymadmum · 04/03/2021 11:33

@gizmo167 I've not noticed any symptoms apart from bright wee in the morning 😂 prob due to the vit c in them

gizmo167 · 04/03/2021 11:20

Bizarre question but have any of you had any effects from taking pregnacare? I kept on taking them just in case we did keep trying & I've noticed stomach cramps, only thing that has been different!

Marvellouslymadmum · 03/03/2021 20:05

@minthumbugs I'm not that hopeful is it was afternoon dtd and we know he probably has issues with his swimmers due to what he was told years ago.

It shouldn't be that long for the results, last time I had a blood test on the Tuesday and the doc called on Friday so 🤞🏻 yes I'm the same def no early testing for me x

minthumbugs · 03/03/2021 19:57

@Marvellouslymadmum ahh you never know, that day 12 might have caught the egg! It only takes one time (so they say). Hoping I get a peak, first cycle and just wanting to get on with it, hating the uncertainty.

That's great, how long will your results take? All my BFPs I've tested super late so I will need to try and remind myself that. X

Marvellouslymadmum · 03/03/2021 19:49

@minthumbugs got my peak cd 13 I'm on cd16 now but due to oh being in pain we only dtd cd 4,6,9,10,12 so I don't know if we missed our window - probably! Got my day 21 blood tests booked for next week though and then results so hoping that will keep me distracted, I'm usually good at not testing unless af is late but don't know if I'll be as good this month lol

minthumbugs · 03/03/2021 19:36

Oh really @Marvellouslymadmum that's great! What CD did you get your peak? How are you getting on, what CD are you on now?

Marvellouslymadmum · 03/03/2021 19:09

@minthumbugs I started using them for the first time this cycles and actually got a peak which was a first for me!

minthumbugs · 03/03/2021 15:09

I've jumped on the CB bandwagon. Wasn't sure about it but it will be worth it if it works! I'm on CD17 and still nothing. Only started using it a few days ago and before that had the whitest of white cheapies. My cycles are long but I'm hoping I at least get a flashing smiley soon. I feel like I'm in limbo!!

bez91 · 03/03/2021 09:20

@elsimo it's really strange isn't it with different lengths and what not of periods. I had really heavy spotting 4dpo-7dpo and thought it may have be IB but my body was obviously just being a f*ckboy!

@ELMcg I'm good thank you, been having a wobble with the whole TTC thing but think I'm in a better place today, CD30 for me, AF due Friday. I know what you mean about wanting to get on with it, it's like being in purgatory waiting isn't it!

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ELMcg · 03/03/2021 09:10

@bez91 how are you feeling today? What CD are you on now?

@NatJ24 I'm thinking of starting CB on Friday so CD11 just since I ran out last time and it does look like I ovulated later than I expected!

I'm the same, I think I'm finding this worse than the TWW, just want to get cracking 😂. I'm so motivated to make this my month so going to put all my energy in to it!

NatJ24 · 03/03/2021 07:58

@ELMcg I am glad that the bleeding stopped! It will have been worrying but it does sound likely what your friend said.
CD9 now! I think I will start the CB digital tomorrow on CD10. I have liked having a break from the tracking but ready to go again 😁

elsimo · 02/03/2021 13:25

@bez91 nope never but I barely had a period last month, its much heavier this month. Thats me on my 4th period since MC at the end of November xx

bez91 · 02/03/2021 10:31

Thanks @elsimo arrrgh that's a super short cycle, have you had them of that length before?

Glad AF has stopped for you @ELMcg - on with the month 🥳

@gizmo167 it's really easy to become completely disengaged with wanting to continue to TTC. I feel that way now, may take a more relaxed approach this month and just see what happens. Need to have 'the chat' with DH

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ELMcg · 02/03/2021 10:25

@NatJ24 so bleeding stopped last night, what a relief!

Have to say it was a bit of a panic 🤣 I spoke to my friend who is a GP though and she said it is possible my cervix closed before my period was finished essentially so that was just excess waiting to come out! Freaks me out a bit but she didn't think it was anything to worry about!

CD8 now so going to start the CB OPKs on Friday I think. Hopefully I don't run out this month by starting 3 days later! 🤞Think if I'm not successful this month might give the cheapies a go. We are taking it seriously though and have a Friday off work when I would expect to ovulate so hopefully we can find the energy to DTD next Thursday and Friday 🤣

elsimo · 01/03/2021 17:46

@bez91 arghhh sorry to hear that!!
I came on hoping for a positive from u!
I got my period today after a random 18 day cycle! Xx

Florence15 · 01/03/2021 16:30

@gizmo167 hi you’re close to me, I’m CD19. I had a positive opk on CD14 so fingers crossed. And for you too 😊

Jaym78 · 01/03/2021 15:00

Hi ladies ,

How are you all , hope you don't mind ive jumped on the post, I was in yhe last one but ended up getting lost .

I've just seem some of the lovely ladies I spoke to got their BFPs , thats incredible , pumpkineverything , pancakes and anyone I missed hope your all feeling good .

Well last month wasn't the one for me , n I'm not to hopeful this mony as we only DTD once, tho it was bang in middle of month , I'm a 28 day cycle am now day 30 and today I'm feeling nauseous. Dunno if just bot stressed tho . Anyone in same boat as me ? X

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