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TTC after MC

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ForGoodnessCake · 04/02/2021 08:49

Hi 👋

Just hoping to find someone in the same boat as me, MC in December and currently on the dreaded TWW.

4dpo and just feeling deflated actually!

Anyway tell me some positive BFP stories after MC ❤️

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ForGoodnessCake · 12/02/2021 19:09

😞 we don't have a epu and we are currently under 4 foot of snow. I've been reading franticly and the only thing that comes up is chem preg, I'm gathering that's possibly what it is!!

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Emmav2020 · 12/02/2021 18:52

@ForGoodnessCake aww your joking 😩 have you rang the epu? Or docs? Xx

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ForGoodnessCake · 12/02/2021 16:55

So upset took another test this morning not any darker, and now I'm bleeding this afternoon! Wtf

What does that even mean, well obviously I know it's not a good thing but why would that happen 😔

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dippyegg32 · 12/02/2021 04:34

Yep Sunday it is!!

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ForGoodnessCake · 11/02/2021 21:46

@dippyegg32 oh my god yes when do you think Sunday??? Xxx

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dippyegg32 · 11/02/2021 20:25

@ForGoodnessCake eeeek!! Shall we be brave and wait to digi together in a few days??!

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ForGoodnessCake · 11/02/2021 19:49

@dippyegg32 STOP THIS!!! OH MY GOD!!! Congratulations 🎉🎊

I took another one 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Fingers crossed 🤞🤞🤞🤞

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dippyegg32 · 11/02/2021 18:21

I got this today! 7 dpo

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ForGoodnessCake · 11/02/2021 15:50

Awww wow congratulations!!! That's amazing and such a good line too!! I'm not holding out much hope and I'm just making myself angry and upset by constantly testing, then with that CB this morning it's drove me wild! I know in my heart it's not this month. I just know when I know and other that crampy, nausea and sore back I have no other symptoms and I would be turning a test by now. Pissing in £10 over here 😪

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Emmav2020 · 11/02/2021 14:58

@ForGoodnessCake I got this yday morning after feeling nauseous and tired.

Maybe test again in a few days. xx

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ForGoodnessCake · 11/02/2021 13:32

Hi @Emmav2020 I was 6 weeks before my period came and now I'm 3 days away from my second.
I'm driving myself crazy I took a CB this morning and I was sure it was a line then I done a FR and negative!!! Frustrating

I got my BFP super early last time and I'm sure about 9-10dpo last pregnancies.

I think I'm 11dpo now.

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Emmav2020 · 08/02/2021 17:36

Ive not been on here that much. Ive still had no period since mc bleeding on the 9th jan. Would you test some point this week?? Last week i had twinges for 2 days.

Also ive had sharp pains today in my vagina area, anyone know what this could be? Xx

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ForGoodnessCake · 05/02/2021 17:29

Oh girl believe me I will - I've just poured a big wine after a madness week at work, we bought a house to renovate, so up painting 2moro! Hope you all have a lovely wkend xxxx

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dippyegg32 · 05/02/2021 14:46

Ooo keep me posted! @ForGoodnessCake I'm banning myself from buying any for now. I have a follow up at epu following my ERCP on 18th so I'm hoping to hold out until then.

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ForGoodnessCake · 05/02/2021 13:03

@dippyegg32 I know right and the BFP just rolled out one after another, hope we get that again, I've already started my POAS obsession - let the line eyes commence hahaha.

I actually POA FRER today - abso-fucking-lutely bonkers hahaha 🤣

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dippyegg32 · 05/02/2021 10:26

@ForGoodnessCake yes same I left the group the second I found out about the mmc but what an absolutely brilliant bunch of girls on there! It was my first mc and it threw me so much. Fingers crossed we'll be in a new group together soon! Yes my girls are 10 and 6, I'd love to give them a little brother or sister.

I've literally had so much sex this week I'm sore 😂

Emmav2020 · 05/02/2021 10:21

@HT1507 You could literally drive yourself mad with all the research couldn't you.

So friends cousin had 3 MC last year and got pregnant for the 4th time and now 14 weeks pregnant and everything perfect so far. Ive been messaging her as i known her for years and she did a lot of research into aspirin and she started taking it between her 3rd MC and her pregnancy now. when she went her first docs appt with this pregnancy and told the doctors they were happy she has been taking it even before she got a BFP. x

HT1507 · 05/02/2021 09:51

@Emmav2020 I think when to take the Aspirin is a personal decision for you based on the information you’ve got .. I wouldn’t want to say when to take it as I’ve seen differing opinions. Maybe speak to your GP and see what they say?

I’ve been taking it since December I think, based on the good things I’d read about increasing blood flow to the uterus and helping women to fall pregnant, but in the last week or so I’ve found information saying it could have an impact on implantation, which then made me start to worry .. although I’m past the implantation stage anyway.

I’ve found myself getting rather obsessive about researching things, what I could or should be taking, what I should or shouldn’t be doing, like most women I imagine .. we all just want to do what’s best for the pregnancy.

Emmav2020 · 05/02/2021 09:15

@HT1507 sounds like you taking what i am as well but ive bought some aspirin but not taken yet because of everything ive been reading. this is my 2nd MC in 2 years. I have a DS whos 11. im leaning more to take it but should i take now or when i get a BFP??

At the min ive not had AF, no idea when ovulation was, i could have had implantation for all i know, stopped MC bleeding on 12th jan. Anyone any idea when i should do a test?
xx

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ForGoodnessCake · 05/02/2021 09:06

Aww @dippyegg32

It's so shit to see you haha (here)!! Yes it's me!!
We were indeed - I didn't stay around long after MC it made it all a little more real. I hope you are well ❤️

Do you know how naive I felt about MC - actually a bit embarrassed that I genuinely didn't know what it was like, but I suppose it's something that you'll never truly know until it happens to you!

My eldest turned 14 this week and my Daughter is 11, and my wee boy is 9 - they went through it all with us so are waiting on tender hooks for baby news - I hope it happens quick for us all!!

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HT1507 · 05/02/2021 07:44

@surfingwolf I think maybe a lot of women get their ovulation date wrong which might be why they were dismissive when you mentioned it 🤷‍♀️ Not nice for you to feel like you’re not being listened to though!!

I’m 99% sure I ovulated on CD17 in January .. I’ve been tracking my BBT which put it on that day, and also I was very aware of cramping leading up to CD17, with it being more intense on that day. I had a positive OPK on CD17 too, so I think I ovulated pretty quickly after that result, rather than up to 36 hours which I thought was the norm.

I’m 33 in April, and this will be the first baby for us. We had hoped to have 2 by the time we were 30 .. clearly hasn’t worked out that way, but I finally got Clomid and am lucky it’s making me ovulate. Just need this pregnancy to be successful now!!

dippyegg32 · 05/02/2021 05:30

@ForGoodnessCake I recognise your name, think we may have been in the July group together. If so I'm sorry about your mc, crap isn't it? Hope this is our month.

surfingwolf · 05/02/2021 01:39

Actually my first was at 33. I forgot how old I was Blush

surfingwolf · 05/02/2021 01:38

Oooh is wide awakeness a symptom? I guess anything is a symptom in the TWW if you want it to be Grin

I had my first at 32 so 33 is a youngster in my eyes. Now waiting to see if we are lucky enough with a second. Tbh I think we will be happy either way but I wish there was someone to say "don't waste your time it will never happen" or "yes crack on"

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ForGoodnessCake · 05/02/2021 01:10

Aww wow

Hey 👋

I had a MC at 10 weeks the beginning of December, since had a period and now on the road to my second one, or BFP.

I came to bed at 830 - I was super tired - but here I am wide awake 🤣

MC was my 4th pregnancy - 9 years gap from my littlest now, maybe more aware that I'm 33 now and it's all a worry 😩

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