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Feb Bus 2021 - no more TRYING to conceive, let's blimin do this!

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BubsNumber2inTheMaking · 30/01/2021 15:40

Here we go again girls! 💕 Wishing you all so much baby dust for this cycle! 👶🏼
CD4 for me today, cycle #60000000 at least. 🤦🏼‍♀️ TTC bubs #2 since Jan 2020.
2 miscarriages, umpteen national lockdowns, at least a stone heavier 🙄 Let's do this 💪❤️

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Fifi1086 · 03/02/2021 21:09

@bubblegeek22 that's so heartbreaking 💔 I so hope it's good news for you this month!

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BubsNumber2inTheMaking · 03/02/2021 20:48

@RHODXB I'm really sorry you're going through that. Those symptoms sound pretty extreme for a chemical too. I had no cramps prior to bleeding with mine. And nothing much worse than period cramping throughout and I was over 5 weeks at that point. Definitely go and get checked out if the pain is bad. My colleague had an ectopic and it needs to be taken really seriously. Call 111 if you're not sure what to do and out of hours. Sending hugs. Hope you're feeling better soon xx

@bubblegeek22 I am so incredibly sorry. Your story makes my heart ache. I have a 4yr old and I just can't even begin to imagine the pain of losing a child. Sending you all the luck in the world that you get a BFP super quickly. Xx

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bubblegeek22 · 03/02/2021 20:48

So sorry about your chemical @Fifi1086

bubblegeek22 · 03/02/2021 20:47

Thank you @Litttlebird ❤️ only CD3 today so patiently waiting for AF to pass and then jumping straight onto DH 😂

Fifi1086 · 03/02/2021 20:28

@RHODXB I just had a chemical and bleeding finally stopped today after 8 days. It was really bad and awful cramps but wasnt sore before bleeding started so if it does get bad maybe just get checked out!

Litttlebird · 03/02/2021 19:38

@bubblegeek22 just read your post 😢 so sorry for your loss. fingers crossed this is your month. How many dpo are you? Any symptom spotting yet? Xx

PrettyPinkPansies · 03/02/2021 18:58

Sending love @RHODXB if you think that's what's going on :( xx

bubblegeek22 · 03/02/2021 18:48

Thank you @MgW1 ❤️🤞

bubblegeek22 · 03/02/2021 18:47

@PrettyPinkPansies @RHODXB thank you ladies for your kind words ❤️

RHODXB I'm so sorry about your chemical, I've seen your posts re the pos/neg tests, so stressful for you 😞 hoping you are blessed with a sticky bean soon

MgW1 · 03/02/2021 18:44

@RHODXB
Defo more painful cramps and heavier period with clots. It looks like a chemical if you have had a faint positive and then negative so you might be a day or 2 late xxxx
@bubblegeek22
Hi and welcome, sounds like your have been through such a hearbreaking time , i hope you get a bfp quickly xxxx

RHODXB · 03/02/2021 17:52

@bubblegeek22 I can't even imagine how heartbreaking that must be. 😢 wishing you lots of luck and hoping you get the happy news this month xxx

PrettyPinkPansies · 03/02/2021 17:47

@bubblegeek22 sorry you had to go through that :( sending my love and I really hope you get your BFP really quickly xx

Litttlebird · 03/02/2021 17:26

@RHODXB I had a CP last month - during the bleed the pain was really bad and I was super uncomfortable to the point I had a few days off work. (I think it affects people in different ways!) But I can’t recall pains before the bleed. Maybe others can advise/ help more xx

RHODXB · 03/02/2021 17:12

Anyone who has had a chemical- is it normal to be in a lot of pain with cramps and feeling hot! No bleeding yet but quite severe cramps on one side and down my leg! Wondering if I should be concerned about anything like ectopic or if it's normal to be in this much pain while waiting for bleed to start

bubblegeek22 · 03/02/2021 16:41

Marking my spot on the Feb bus as we are officially TTC number 3 from now 🤞 I've got two beautiful girls, one would be coming up to 5 now but she died just before her first birthday, so my 16 month old has lived her life so far as an only. If I'm lucky enough to get another this will deffo be our last so I'm going to try and be as chill as possible through the process (she says haha)

PrettyPinkPansies · 03/02/2021 13:35

@organised5 due in 7 days haha x

organised5 · 03/02/2021 13:13

@PrettyPinkPansies I can see a very very faint line! How many days are you before AF due?

PrettyPinkPansies · 03/02/2021 12:48

@RHODXB I really hope so. I'm 8DPO. I've got some FRER for tomorrow x

MgW1 · 03/02/2021 11:48

@RHODXB
Its awful waiting 😔 i have decided now I prefer my AF to arrive than see a negative test! Least your cycles are shorter so you can try again soon , mine are 31 days 🙄 you will get there soon, we might end up with xmas babies at this rate , I have been trying a few months now xx

RHODXB · 03/02/2021 11:33

@PrettyPinkPansies I think there might be a faint line there!

Welcome @Litttlebird fingers crossed for you xxx

RHODXB · 03/02/2021 11:32

Yeah @MgW1 my cycle is usually 26 days so due today so def should have showed on an early test! Lesson learned for me for sure as I could have saved myself so much heartache by just waiting

Litttlebird · 03/02/2021 10:59

Hi ladies 7dpo here trying again for baby #2 after a very upsetting chemical last month. I’ve been watching the thread from a distance but thought I’d jump onboard the tww bus with you all xx

@RHODXB aww don’t rule yourself out just yet could it be your just so very early testing your urine may have been just more dilute compared to when you tested yesterday or that the test is slightly less sensitive? Maybe hold off an try again in a day or two with FMU ? Xx

MgW1 · 03/02/2021 09:28

@RHODXB
Im sorry if you definately think that 😔 iv been there too , I know its hard but best to test on the day Af due or a day late , i think its common that they dont always stick and when you test with these sensitive test its messes your head up. I was so stressed out with it last month xxxx

PrettyPinkPansies · 03/02/2021 08:31

@RHODXB what brand did you use?

This is mine this morning. What do you think girls? Supposed to be 8DPO.

Feb Bus 2021 - no more TRYING to conceive, let's blimin do this!
RHODXB · 03/02/2021 02:35

Stark negative on CB this morning. 😥 think it's time to accept I've had a chemical