Post Pill Party - The Mosh Pit !!

Happy Birthday @Juno231!

Ooh and happy birthday @Juno231 Hope you're managing to have a good one despite lockdown!

@Nellieee ah, sorry to hear you're spotting and understand you must feel gutted but a new cycle and a new chance I suppose. And you're not out till AF full on shows...

@Elsie2021 oooh good luck, and at least if AF shows as you say you've had a good LP

Woke this morning with a temp rise and got all excited but took a test and BFN. 12dpo so that's me out I think. Wish my chart hadn't trolled me so much over the past few days as its gone up and down like a yo-yo and my hopes up and down with it.

Still, we are in a sea of boxes here so I can at least concentrate on something else. Can't say I'm not disappointed, but onwards to cycle 3!

Thanks for the welcomes everyone! Just finished AF (CD5) here.

Happy birthday @Juno231!!

Would love to play D&D @Kay00 how did you find your people??

GP has booked blood tests for hormone levels for me which is amazing as I am only on cycle 3 TTC. Think history of cysts and possible PCOS meant they were more flexible.

I have been using Glow but may switch to Fertility Friend after seeing your charts

Sorry to hear that @Nellieee. You’re not out till you’re out though! I have bought myself some chocolate, and a new deep hair conditioner so if I come on I’m planning a lovely hot bath! So either way it’s like win win 😂

I normally have an 11 day LP so would normally be due tomorrow. Despite it driving me a bit crazy, I still feel I would rather see AF than a BFN so I’m hoping to hold out till Tuesday if AF doesn’t come before 🤞feeling less crampy today so that’s a positive 🙂

Sorry to hear you think AF is coming @TheDaydreamBelievers but still good that you are getting BFNs now and can start again.

Brown spotting today go guess I'm heading into AF. Almost 8 weeks since MMC surgery, 7dpo and 7 days since BFN post MMC. Also did a pregnancy test this morning because I am a crazy person. Negative obv!

@Juno231 HAPPY BIRTHDAY WONDERFUL LADY!

@crabette & @MissC07 glad my OH isn’t the only one who needs to shot and tell his cleaning efforts 😂

@Juno231 that chore chart suggestion made me giggle!! Happy birthday also 🥳

Not alot to report here, temp seems to be dropping for some reason 🤔 I’ve got 4 whole days of isolation left..not that I’m counting 😂

@Elsie2021 fingers crossed for you! When are you planning on testing?

@Nellieee sorry it looks like af is on the way. Hopefully the spotting will stop.

@Juno231 Happy Birthday! 🥂🎉

Happy birthday @Juno231 xx

@Juno231 ps happy birthday!! 🥳

@crabette makes me feel a little better we're mainly all in the same boat! I agree, it is a cop out! This chat prompted me to talk to him and explain my frustrations. He started doing some research last night on male fertility 👀 baby steps (excuse the pun..!).

@LauraT94 so glad that you feel you are over the worst of it now. And I love your consistent temps. Mine are all over the place, so I get jealous of flat temps 🙊 looks like I'm onto cycle 3 as the witch is startling to show.

@Elsie2021 thanks for asking! I've started spotting. Tiny bit yesterday morning and more after dtd last night. So I think that's me onto cycle 3. No point testing. Bit gutted as this month we really went for it. How are you getting on? And @abi555 hoping for some good news for you two!!

@LauraT94 well at least your temps are very consistent 😂 your chart looks good though. Your temps are coming back down and your cycle is hopefully settling?

@Elsie2021 eek that sounds so promising!! Are you testing tomorrow?

Just seen on another thread it’s your birthday @Juno231! Happy Birthday 🥳

11dpo today. I got through day 9 and 10 having period pain cramps so I’m just pleased to make it to today without coming on yet so at least my LP is long enough I’d nothing else this cycle. Still hopeful though! 🤞

@abi555 hope the move went well yesterday! Have you tested this morning?

@Nellieee how are you doing?

@Cams50 thank you! Think I'm finally over the worst physically so that's great! Did AF arrive?

@Kay00 I'm sorry you've had an anovulatory cycle but it sounds like you've dealt with it well and fingers crossed this cycle is a bit more active for you!!

@Nellieee thank you! How are you getting on?

@Emmgrem your chart looks fab! Fingers crossed for you.

@crabette @Juno231 and everyone else from the looks of it - sorry You're struggling with the mental load and that your OH's are being idiots!! Juno your talk of the chore chart and gold stars really made me chuckle - of course it was a male therapist suggesting that!!

Not much going on on my chart at the mo as my body's still adjusting post-MC. But I'm finding it really entertaining that 4 out of my past 5 temps have been either 36.29 or 36.3 😂

@Kay00 sounds like a lovely evening in!

@Kay00 enjoy!! I’m the exact same. Wine and pizza 🍕 🍷😍

@Kay00 my chart is abit weird because of my low temp today.... I will share in a few days once I get a few more temps as I prefer to visually use FF but these are my oral temps and it’s not aesthetically pleasing at the moment 😂😂

@crabette woohoo glad you managed to DTD

Thanks! I've told my OH we need to DTD today and tomorrow, to which he replied 'well does that mean we can do it at 11.59pm and 12.01am...' I'm honestly ready to punch him! 🙈

@MissC07 Your OPK’s are strong btw, I hope you’re DTDing too!

@Juno231 Oh God, sorry, I didn’t mean for me venting about OH to strike a nerve with you and your OH. As @Nellieee says, they are all silly manchilds!! I loved the mental load cartoon, I literally talk about mental load all the bloody time. @ChinChilly mine wants to guided tour his efforts as well 😂 Honestly worse than a toddler!

I spoke with OH at lunchtime and he was like, well, to be honest, aside from DTD you kind of have to get used to taking the majority load on the baby making front for at least 9 months, because your body is doing the lion’s share at the beginning? It’s just biology. But said he’d make up for it when baby gets here. I just wish he’d be a bit more like, oh I’ve read this, why don’t you try this vitamin, is there anything I can take, etc etc. Cos it is a cop out, he could share the mental side.

But, @MancMama39 @MissC07 @Kay00 ...I took your advice and did seize the opportunity at lunch and jumped him. 😂

@TheDaydreamBelievers I totally get the crying!! I don't know how I'm going to get anymore DTD in in the next couple of days, think he's totally done!

So not much going on here!! Think I have ovulated my RHR is 67 today and up from 61 when I thought I was ovulating. Boobs are very tender. Not really sure what DPO I am as my Temps were off today my my vaginal see the highest I have ever seen. My cervix is still high but harder and my cm is like a translucent sticky texture, not quite white but not clear! Hopefully tomorrow will make more sense!