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Post Pill Party - The Mosh Pit !!

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Kay00 · 16/01/2021 20:33

As the Post Pill Party fills up, the lights are dimmed and the music drops a beat. The lead singer of this rambunctious band shouts: Mosh Pit!! The ravers all storm for the small space in front of the stage allowing their bodies to dance to the beat however the f* they want!! You go ladies!!

This is the 7th post pill party thread for women whose bodies aren’t quite dancing to the expected rhythm: we have delayed ovulation, crazy long follicular phases, crazy short follicular phases, light AFs, short luteal phases, long luteal phases, confusing temp charts and blindingly white OPKs!

In the crowd I can see:

@juno231
@Kay00
@Moocher90
@MintGreenLife
@Emmgrem
@Nellieee
@TheHotelCalifornia
@ams19
@chinchilly
@MancMama39
@sperr
@crabette
@charwils
@LauraT94
@TheDaydreamBelievers
@cams50
@robyn101
@abi555
@luna57
@tillybabs
@MissC07
@mrsmacmc
@mol234
@KGH5121
@Y1986
@Flowers222
@Katelyn99
@minipilling
@ACNass
@HopeAndDriftWood
@glow92
@FlyingGiraffe
@Rd123
@Taliasometimes
@Elsie2021
@Daisychainsandsunshine
@firsttimemummy321
@Delilah221
@NibbleQueen
@Ttcin2021
@justwanttobemum
@Lovebug06
@ElizabethP141
@Endlessstars
@SalemsPot22

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Sperr · 04/02/2021 07:58

@crabette congratulations 🎉

Sorry been MIA again. This month I finally got into temping after last months long cycle and all the unknown! Attached my first ever chart and I’m in my first real TWW. I still never got a peak with my clear blue OPK so I’m probably just going to give up with them and keep temping in the future only. I had the longest period ever this cycle as well!

I had read about drinking grapefruit juice to increase CM (I didn’t really have a problem with it but I’m all for natural stuff and I actually love grapefruits 😂) and I highly recommend. I pretty much started getting loads straight away! I’m probably going to start eating pineapple now I know I’ve ovulated 🤣

We actually timed DTD very well this month. We normally only go every other day but OH really wanted it that extra day on my chart 😂. I’ve literally been forcing him to take his pills in front of me to make sure he’s actually doing it as well.

I feel so much more relaxed with temping and it was was easier than I thought it would be. I naturally wake up at roughly the same time anyways and on the weekends I have managed to either fall back to sleep.

Any cycle buddies in 3dpo?! I’m sure I had someone at the start

Post Pill Party - The Mosh Pit !!
crabette · 04/02/2021 06:56

Thanks all!!! 🥰

@Elsie2021 Pregnancy buddy! Hope it's uneventful for both of us!!!! 😂❤️

Kay00 · 03/02/2021 22:55

@crabette Wow!! Huge congratulations!! 🥳🥳🥳 so pleased for you 😁 and im really glad the B-Vits did their job xx

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AMS19 · 03/02/2021 22:37

Huge congratulations @crabette fingers crossed it's all wonderful for you from here xx

FlyingGiraffe · 03/02/2021 21:48

Congratulations @crabette! 😁 So happy for you! X

Elsie2021 · 03/02/2021 20:55

@crabette Massive Congratulations!! I’m due 5 October so we’re close together 😁

MancMama39 · 03/02/2021 20:11

Oh my goodness @crabette I am thrilled for you!! Such an amazing story too, thanks so much for sharing. Congratulations! Xx

minipilling · 03/02/2021 16:36

I'm OK, just tired! I'll probably know when ovulation actually hits as it's very painful for me, but would be nice to find a peak before then so I can have sex before the pain sets in. I did a couple of OPKs just now and they were both light-medium lines, I guess they need to be much darker.
My cycle is usually 29 days, AF this time came 28 days after the last one started, just both periods have lasted 12 days each.

Juno231 · 03/02/2021 16:33

@minipilling how long have your cycles been so far? Tbh I would have started before CD12 - I don't think you have to wait for AF to finish before you start the OPKs.

MintGreenLife · 03/02/2021 16:04

Huge congrats @crabette loved reading your story! I too had the 'twinges' on 6DPO and then on and off for a few days later xx

Gracie2021 · 03/02/2021 15:44

@Juno231 genuinely asking because I was freaked out. Feels like a tic 😂 I'm not even tracking anything in a Single app from now, promise!!!!!

@minipillingyou poor thing that some long bleed. How are you feeling? What length are your cycles usually? Can't do any harm OPKing if you're not short of them.

Juno231 · 03/02/2021 15:36

@Gracie2021 step away from the symptom spotting Grin. At 3 DPO as well, naughty girl!

minipilling · 03/02/2021 15:33

On CD12 and still bleeding brown sludge, hopefully it tails off today! I had an upset stomach last night which I also got last month on day 12, think it's hormonal. Feeling cramps in my ovaries. Should I start doing OPKs today or is it too early?

Gracie2021 · 03/02/2021 15:27

@crabette trying so hard not to get my hopes up 😂🙈 it's the strangest feeling ever. Genuinely never had this before. Ok can stop worrying about it so but also going to try forget about it so I don't get my hopes too high!!

Love the BFP story btw. The detail is brilliant. So excited for you and Oct is a lovely time for a new baba!

crabette · 03/02/2021 14:30

@Gracie2021 mine wasn't on one side!! But I did get a weird kind of pulling feeling of movement, I guess fluttering is a good way of describing it! Around 5dpo! 🤞

Gracie2021 · 03/02/2021 14:28

Weird one for ye all - has anyone ever gotten a kind of fluttering/spasm/twitch down on one side where you'd normally get ovulation pain but this is a few days post ovulation? I can see it twitching..... it's the strangest feeling and kind of freaking me out if I'm honest. It's been on and off all morning and my diet has been good so it's Not IBS plus it's not a feeling I've ever had before 🙈

crabette · 03/02/2021 14:28

Thanks for all the messages and congratulations guys, I really couldn't have coped without this thread and all of you!! Hoping for lots more BFPs this month xx

crabette · 03/02/2021 14:27

@Juno231 Ha! I was here on the first thread, but trying to figure out tracking and my cycle really first of all.

Due date according to the NHS calculator is 13th October! And I called the midwife hotline this afternoon to register, so 12 week scan is 30th March. Feels like an eternity away! Currently researching all the things I'm no longer allowed to eat lol.

Juno231 · 03/02/2021 14:16

@crabette haha I love that this bean is off the back of some strangers telling you to jump OH! Feels like you've been around ages but actually it didn't take you many cycles of proper trying to get there!

Now tell me what the expected due date is per FF, I love fantasising about that Grin

Cams50 · 03/02/2021 14:14

@crabette ahhhhh!!! Amazing news. Huge congrats 🎉 thanks for sharing your journey. I love reading them!!

crabette · 03/02/2021 13:40

@TheDaydreamBelievers Ha, yeah 100%. Bizarrely he actually did say at the time, right after DTD that he felt like that was it! 🤷🏻‍♀️

For what it's worth my OH never took any vits and I'd say is pretty unhealthy lol, but I don't think it can hurt. The coq10 is part of the pregnacare conception supplement, but I know a few folk on here have taken it independently.

Totally feel you on the TTC now with hard jobs and being knackered! Pretty sure that's what our fight was about 😂

TheDaydreamBelievers · 03/02/2021 13:31

@Gracie2021 thank you :) . Yeah TTC is blooming annoying in that its all hindsight! We only know we have DTD enough when we know when ovulation WAS in retrospect!

This is why it would have been way easier to TTC at 20, when we were all over each other constantly Blush, rather than now when we have hard jobs and are knackered.

TheDaydreamBelievers · 03/02/2021 13:29

@crabette great round up! Hoping all stays healthy and happy.

I love that you can say "well you know that time we argued? That was the ticket" haha.

I might start taking Coq10 ... I'm also wondering if I should be making DH take more vitamins (he takes Vitamin D... when I make him)

Moocher90 · 03/02/2021 13:20

@crabette cancel my last! I didn’t refresh and just saw your post 😂

Moocher90 · 03/02/2021 13:19

@crabette congratulations on the BFP! So happy for you x please share your journey when you are ready xx

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