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🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

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ELM7 · 16/01/2021 18:53

On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

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Sweetbabydust1989 · 17/04/2021 15:56

@Babyghirl I think I might just wait it out and see if I miss AF my cycles are usually 30 days so won't be due on until next week.. I am shattered today still cramping a little xx

Babyghirl · 17/04/2021 13:37

@sweetbabydust1989
I would do one tomorrow if you have a test there if nt Monday with the pains and that a few days ago you should get a clear answer then if it was implementation omg I'm so excited and really hoping it's your time 💚💚 x

Sweetbabydust1989 · 17/04/2021 13:33

@Babyghirl Well on the flo app it says 3 days but I think it's more 5 days xx

Babyghirl · 17/04/2021 10:34

Well my results where nagitive so just loaded with the cold which I thought 😂😂😂😂😂😂 such a beautiful day out to and I have zero energy to even get ready 😠😠😠😠😠😠 lol xx

Babyghirl · 17/04/2021 09:50

Omg great them 7 weeks will fly in 💚💚 I'm loaded with the cold so feeling rotton hoping it passes soon thou lol 💚 x
@sweetbabydust1989
I don't test until I'm late but when u due on ur period 💚 x

Sweetbabydust1989 · 16/04/2021 23:42

@Babyghirl oh it's a nightmare isn't it we get sent home for the slightest cough... when do you think would be best to test I don't wanna do it to early I 100% think I am out... mild cramps but my belly is so bloated now xx

lozza2206 · 16/04/2021 23:26

@Babyghirl I'm ok actually I'm believing this is my time 💕 super tired but 5 weeks on Sunday so only 7 weeks to go 🤣🤣🤣 how are you? Xx

Babyghirl · 16/04/2021 23:24

@sweetbabydust1989
I'm excited for you to test lol they r awful was a ott with mine I have a bloody head cold and I was sent home gs, 😂😂😂
@lozza2206
How r u holding up and how r u feeling 💚
@kiwi17
You got this r rainbows r just around the corner girl 💚

lozza2206 · 16/04/2021 22:45

@kiwi17 I personally always used to give myself little time goals like say: I will TTC 3 months just doing it every couple of days and then if that doesn't work I will do 3 months OPKs. That way you feel you have some sort of plan 💕 so I have 2 angel babies. Started trying March 2020, fell pregnant June and lost that baby around 5 weeks. Then fell pregnant again in November and had a MMC confirmed in January, had the surgery January. So 2 or 3 cycles this time. The folate @Babyghirl recommended I started taking the beginning of this cycle I fell pregnant. I remember posting on here the amount of EWCM was so much compared to my normal. Then the b6 is meant to help produce progesterone xxxx

kiwi17 · 16/04/2021 22:37

@lozza2206 hahah bet that helps 🤣 I know what you mean about the guilt although I think it only worked the first time we ttc with my dd after 10 months of trying because we managed to work out when I was actually ovulating .. I guess I ovulate later than I think! Hmm will see how we get on with the ewcm etc and maybe just do one when that appears to see 🤞🤞 thank you fingers crossed everything goes smoothly for you. I am gutted I won't get my 2021 baby now but such is life. Can I ask how many cycles after your mc did you take to get pregnant?

lozza2206 · 16/04/2021 22:32

@kiwi17 hahah well see now I'm pregnant I can't be arsed with it... it's handy I have an irish man who wants it 24/7. I truly believed I would fall pregnant this year and I think that's the key. You will get your rainbow baby. We all will 💕🌈 but that's why I hated the strips because suddenly you're doing it cause you feel you have to, then if you don't that one day you feel guilty xoxo

kiwi17 · 16/04/2021 22:28

Hahaha ok thanks @lozza2206 and @Babyghirl I will try and relax just not sure I can face dtd that much in a month 😂😂😂😂 fingers crossed for the magic pills though eh?! 🤣

Sweetbabydust1989 · 16/04/2021 21:00

@Babyghirl oh I hate those covid tests we do the those quick ones now to rule it out.. I feel like rubbish to so thirsty I just too scared to test yet I don't want to jinx myself 🙈 xx

lozza2206 · 16/04/2021 20:30

@kiwi17 I'm backing @Babyghirl !!

The best advice is to do it every other night from day 7 to 20 and then you're covered. I do believe the folate and b6 are magic pills. I know when people say relax you think to yourself "how can I relax it's all I live and think about"... but unfortunately it works. Living your life, laughing and then just making sure you get jiggy three times a week is the key xxxx

Babyghirl · 16/04/2021 20:16

@kiwi17
I think day 9 would be grand but I don't use them I think the relax approach is the best way forward just dtd every 2 days relax is best ask @lozza2206 lol using them strips stress you out and times sex and takes the fun out off it 💚💚

kiwi17 · 16/04/2021 20:07

Sorry you're feeling rubbish @Babyghirl!! Fingers crossed your test is negative and you just get a couple of days off to relax! Not much to report here.. back from our week away to see my parents (outdoors and in their garden brrr! 🤣) and af almost gone just the odd spotting here and there. CD 6 here, started my vitamins D, B6 and folate this morning so here we go 🤞🤞🤞😆 probably will start doing the opks in about a week, do people reckon? Or should I just start now in case it's early?!

Babyghirl · 16/04/2021 19:10

@sweetbabydust1989
Feel worse tbh in bed sent home from work gggrrrr had to get a test for covid, please stop ruling urself out those could be symptoms and if nt chin up on till txt month 💚💚

Sweetbabydust1989 · 16/04/2021 19:03

@Babyghirl oh how funny always the way... how you feeling today?? I have a weird dullness it's not cramps it doesn't hurt just feels dull,, feeling a little sick today and literally gone off food completely think it's a tummy bug grr xx

Babyghirl · 16/04/2021 15:56

@sweetbabydust1989
Last two times I was pregnant I went out and bought pads cause I thought I was taking my period lol, and implantation pain can be like period pains so fingers crossed girl 💚 xx

Sweetbabydust1989 · 16/04/2021 15:45

@Babyghirl I actually think I ovulated 3 days after my first smiley... I think I need to funny thing was I was buying sanitary towels 😂 I no when I had my ectopic I was in pain for roughly a month I just put it down to adeno but obviously wasn't due to that xx

Babyghirl · 16/04/2021 15:41

@sweetbabydust1989
Apps can be a day or 2 of either way unless ur tracking go bck out get a test for the morning I'm busting to knw 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 lol xx

Sweetbabydust1989 · 16/04/2021 15:28

@Babyghirl cramps have gone now it was literally just as I woke up this morning and now nothing so strange I really thought the witch might have come early 🙈 just popped into boots but forgot to pick a test up 🤦🏽‍♀️ should I go by the flo app to gage testing according to that I am due on in 4 days xx

Babyghirl · 16/04/2021 13:46

@Annny27
Hopefully be over quickly for you and you can get bck on the wagon, I'm cd4 today so hopefully be all good for then if nt I just lay there let him do all the work 😂😂😂😂😂😂 have been sent home from work and have to get a test omg like it's the cold I have it's abit ott if u ask me but I get 2 days off paid today and tomorrow lol 💚💚

Annny27 · 16/04/2021 09:40

Yayyyy glad your scan was all clear @nuggetlover27 (I was a little worried even though I would never have said!) So I am super pleased for you :D

@babyghirl awwh sorry you have been feeling a bit ill! Gotta perk up for fertile week haha. Yep I am nervous for the hospital! Hoping it goes well with not much pain

Babyghirl · 16/04/2021 08:57

@sweetbabydust1989
I had period style cramps before all my positive tests it was implementation even put something on I was convinced it was coming lol. So your not out yet 💚 x