🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

@miscarriage39
Yea could be, well I'm going to be 38 in June and really hoping I get a positive before then and it's a successful one 💚
@sweetbabydust1989
Yea do try to relax well as much as u can I knw its nt easy lol but things will work out this time xx

I think it’s natural to be really scared after what you’ve been through Sweetbabydust1989. Hopefully, the EPU will scan you as soon as possible, and you will have the reassurance that this one is in the right place. Until then, maybe try to think of some nice things to distract and relax (I know that’s far easier said than done). Have you told your partner yet?

Babyghirl thanks, that’s what I’m thinking. I actually wonder if the spotting had become a small ovulation bleed as I’d noticed the consistency change over the past couple of days (sorry for TMI!). Interesting, apart from a very small bit of spotting first thing, I now just have clear CM, so hoping everything is okay.

@Babyghirl no love nothing yet I will call them back to make sure the referral went through they did say they will do it as an urgent one I am really worried every twinge etc is making me think my tot is in my tube again xx

@miscarriage39
Go for it then prop just taking longer for the blood to come out I'm cd8 today so nt to far behind you 💚
@sweetbabydust1989
Has the epu or doc got in touch with u yet for the nxt steps to keep an eye on you 💚 x

@Miscarriage39 Thankyou hun I am petrified iam exactly 1 week less when they found out I was having an ectopic... i also found out 3 months today that I was pregnant with my ectopic it's crazy... I hope you're feeling ok?? Xx

Thanks Babyghirl. I don’t think the cervix should still be open, as there was a short break after the post-miscarriage bleeding before I started spotting then got what I assume to be my period (& what the EPU agreed was probably my first period). It’s just that this first period has morphed into extended spotting. I got a negative test both two and three weeks after I had surgical management.

@miscarriage39
Have you done a test to c if it's nagitive could just be the clean out your urters needs and nothing sinister, but if u want to dtd go for it but I would try to hold of as still bleeding means ur cervix is still open and could cause an infection but totally up to you 💚

Sweetbabydust1989 congratulations. I have everything crossed for you, and really hope this is the one that sticks.

I haven my posted much on here, so sorry to now come asking g for advice. I got my first period just over two weeks ago. The bleeding calmed down but I continued spotting. There was like a SATs break and the spotting started again. EPU said probably normal, and there is still a little red blood when I wipe (but less than there was). Today, though, OPKs suggest I am around ovulating. Not sure whether to DTD or not. Part of me thinks my body is still all over the place, so it may not be safe, but then again, I really don’t want to miss this opportunity. This is all so stressful!

@sweetbabydust1989
Deffo done its job they say when they snap your miracle will be just around the corner 💚💚 as hard as it will be try to stay calm cause u can't change the outcome calm or stressed, but I believe its ur time 💚💚 xx

@Babyghirl thanks lovely you were right then cannot believe a positive at 15DPO I haven't even told the other half yet I am still in shock.. I honestly thought it would be a negative result just waiting for EPU to contact me with when I can go in for bloods... my fertility bracelet snapped last night guessing it's done it's job lol xx

@justwant2beamum
Can't keep them crossed even if I wanted to 😂😂😂😂😂
@sweetbabydust1989
You will be fine girl xx

@Babyghirl I am freaking out I new something was off yesterday the cramps were bad and my back felt awful... yes I think I will contact the epu xx

@sweetbabydust1989
Told ya so 😍😍😍😍😍😍 nice bfp omg I so excited for you phone ur doc she might want bloods to make sure ur numbers r going up, xx
@slcxxx
Still larking here gs it may do 1, I'm cd8 today but as I don't track I will just be doing dtd as often as possible lol 💚

@Annny27 I think it's 6 weeks so like 2 weeks away I think.. not sure if to call them x

@sweetbabydust1989 the EPU will hopefully scan you early due to your history xxx

@Babyghirl dying at your crossed legs comment 😂😂

@Sweetbabydust1989 yay aww congrats! ✨ so pleased for you and 🤞🏻 for a healthy and happy 9 months ✨

8dpo here, feel like I'm out as no rise in rhr like last bfp. Tested yesterday, obviously bfn at 7dpo so going to try and just leave it this week now as I'm not hopeful anyway.

@Annny27 Thankyou I am just scared I had an ectopic so really worrying it's another xx

Congratulations @sweetbabydust1989 ❤❤❤❤

@SLCxxx I feel really scared now!!! I had an ectopic in January xx

@Babyghirl thanks, how you feeling today? Is the cold subsiding?

@ELM7 I know the feeling, no Christmas baby. Looks like we will be cycling together this month.

@Sweetbabydust1989 congratulations, so nice to see such lovely news 💕

@Babyghirl 😳😳 xx

@Babyghirl so I have brought a test x

@slcxxx
Sorry u got a nagitive it's awful when you want it so bad, but chin up on to nxt cycle we got this 💚💚

Morning ladies, AF due today for me, in the absence of cramps, and with nausea, sore boobs, metallic taste.. I caved and BFN 😔 so that’s me out this month. So horrid that it’s the same symptoms for both!
Good luck to those still in it this month xx