🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

@sweetbabydust1989
I have had that on every bfp I have had tops of my legs like dead like I had run a marathon jelly like lol xx

@kiwi17
I would say the b6 for that one as it helps with the hormones, but you can produce the cm up to 3/4 days before you ovulate so they could be beneficial for your body and helping it 💚

@Babyghirl yes that's what I was thinking the weird thing is the pain is at the tops of my thighs not really where my ovaries are I think I am just a little paranoid due to my ectopic hoping epu will call me tomorrow so I can have my bloods done would love a scan to make sure my tubes are clear xx

Ladies who are or have taken the vitamin b6 and the folate do we know which ones gives you more cm? And whether it's still only more during ovulation or whether it's more cm throughout the cycle?! I'm having loads only on cd11 and that's unusual for me I would normally ovulate around 14/15!

@sweetbabydust1989
That could just be the side the egg came from so you could have the cyst on that side producing the progesterone so try to stay calm and hopefully they get u in soon to scan you xx

@Babyghirl if I go off my normal 30 day cycle it's saying 31st dec but doctors said 29th dec... back ache has gone now cramps have gone just got that annoying ache on right side the dr doesn't seem too bothered by it she just said to look out for the sharp pains and bleeding xx

@sweetbabydust1989
Just write in date your last period started and it should give you a rough date xx

@Babyghirl Iol I am usually like that but this time feels different I think it's because of the ectopic I usually call my mum too but I have kept so quiet about it. I need to work out my rough date as all the websites say something different xx

@sweetbabydust1989
I always say nxt time I get pregnant I'm nt going to tell oh for a while but I always break 😂😂😂😂😂 cause I know he would be annoyed at me for nt telling him so he can be there for me lol xx

@Babyghirl no 🤣 I am ok today cramps have pretty much gone and I feel so sick this morning I am calling doctors back today to see what's happening with the referral xx

@sweetbabydust1989
How r you holding up have u told oh yet to get some support 💚 x

@ELM7
That's nt right at all my doc took my losses as part of it all so cause of ur age it could take u longer to get pregnant then if ivf is needed there's a cut of point for age in that aswell where here in Belfast it's 40 I knw its different ages in different places but keep fighting don't give up to they listen to you 💚

@chali7 it's awful isn't it... I am going to call my gp tomorrow to make sure the referral went through I just keep getting an achey feeling where my previous ectopic was I really feel on my own atm I just want some reassurance that nothing is in my tubes xx

@Sweetbabydust1989 - I know the feeling, I had alot of cramping and pains, I'm assured its all normal, but still worrying. I had spotting last week, the whole thing has been a worrying experience since day one 🙈 I hope you are able to relax soon, and hopefully your GP or EPU can do some bloods to see what your HCG levels are up to! Mine didn't and those 2 werks were torture! Xx

@ELM7 I really hope so I am only 15dpo so it's a pretty strong one I really hope my tot sticks I can't handle another ectopic I am knicker watching like crazy xx

@chali7 Thankyou so much I am that petrified I have not told no one not even my other half... I am cramping a little and can feel some pinching pains but nothing like before if I have to wist until 6 weeks that means I still have 2 weeks left this is worse than the 2WW 🙈 did you notice any pains when you got pregnant after having an ectopic xx

@ELM7
If you have been trying for longer than a year after 35 I think it is you should be referred to a fertility specialist fight for it cause I have learned you get no where doing nothing, 💚

I hope you can all join me soon too @Babyghirl 🥰 can't wait to see lots more bfp's on this thread ❤ I'll always be checking in - this thread is such a wonderful support group xx

@chali7
Omg I can't believe ur that far gone already it has flew in great to hear from u and hopefully we will all be joining behind you soon and you can check in to c all the bfp to come 💚💚

Congratulations @Sweetbabydust1989 - I understand your anxiety, I had an ectopic pregnancy in September 2020 afyer an MMC in May 2020, and when I fell pregnant in January of this year, I was extremely nervous. My main concern was another tubal pregnancy. My EPU booked me in for a scan at 6 weeks and they saw me again at 7, and 9 weeks as I had a subchronic haematoma. I'm very lucky to be 16 weeks pregnant now and all was fine. There is hope ❤ happy and healthy 9 months to you.
Love to everyone here - just checking in again girls xxx

Congratulations @Sweetbabydust1989 those symptoms were too real to not be bfp!! Hope everything goes smoothly this time for you 🤞 @Miscarriage39 that sounds really odd but hopefully like you say it was ovulation bleed and now will settle. I'm on CD10 here and have noticed way more cm since starting the b6 and folate so I think there is something in that! Ovulation tests are darkening so guess I'll ovulate in next few days... fingers crossed! Sorry for the ladies who are on cd1 and sad about no 2021 baby:( I felt the same way... but we Can do this! 2022 is our year!

@ELM7
I'm in the same boat with age as u but I do know a woman who was 47 thought she was going through the menapose and she was pregnant so we r deffo nt to old, we can do this and we will do this 💚💚

Sorry that AF arrived @ELM7 :( always sucks!

And you definitely arent too old ❤ but if you can afford private consultation or Ivf it might be worth looking into as NHS dont seem too concerned!!! I think you need a hycosy to see the shape of your uterine cavity in more detail xxx