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🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

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ELM7 · 16/01/2021 18:53

On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

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Annny27 · 22/01/2021 14:39

Afternoon ladies :)

@babyghirl I think trying to stay as calm as possible is a good plan :) are you going to do a 6 or 7 week scan or something?

@27DONFIN yep I didnt even take a pregnancy result this month which was much better for my mental health than squinting over lines which aren't there!

@Nuggetlover27 have you ovulated or just about to?

P.s just had our 2nd sperm analysis through after 3 months from the last one And they have improved since the last time :D

Previous: morphology 2%
Now: morphology 6%

Previous: motility 50%
Now: motility 58%

Previous count per ml 13million
Now: count per ml 43.5million

Things we have done differently:

  1. loose boxers
  2. taking wellman every day
  3. eating more fruit and veg
  4. exercising

I am super please but now also panicked that we have unexplained fertility as they haven't found anything to explain it so far!

Babyghirl · 21/01/2021 12:56

@27DONFIN
I was on CD 28 but my cycle have been up and down in nov it was at 28 day cycle in Dec it was a 24 day cycle messed up from my loss on holloween there so don't know how. Far I am or where I am lol x

27DONFIN · 21/01/2021 12:40

@Babyghirl how early did you test? Xx

27DONFIN · 21/01/2021 12:40

@Babyghirl keeping everything crossed for you 💚🤞🏻🍀

Babyghirl · 21/01/2021 12:05

@27DONFIN
Lol I have stopped testing think I'm ascared to take a weeks test off what will come up on it 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 blanking this pregnancy out tbh like it's nt there awful after 3 losses what why ur mind works. All I can do is hope it works out 🙏🤞🍀💚

27DONFIN · 21/01/2021 11:50

Hi Ladies hope all are well. Iv been MIA trying to let go a bit more deleted my tracker so not symptom spotting as much. AF is due this weekend and I know she’s coming. Think I’m ok with it.

@Babyghirl I don’t know how you torture yourself with those tests 😂 Iv not tested in forever but I need definite answers I need digital lol hope you are doing well

@Annny27 @ELM7 @ @SunnySideUp2020 how are you all? Xx

Babyghirl · 21/01/2021 08:54

@nuggetlover27
OK but have myself down for a 4th loss as I have zero symptoms so I will be OK either outcome really thinking its something to do with my heart shape uterus tbh but if imm going to loss would rather it happen sooner rather than l8r. 💚💚

Nuggetlover27 · 21/01/2021 08:05

@Annny27 I hope that you're feeling better now than you was on Sunday? I completely understand and I feel exactly the same 💕 I want to be a mum so bad and I'm ready but it's just not happening ☹️

@Babyghirl congrats! Looks like a BFP. How are you doing?

Babyghirl · 19/01/2021 13:14

@Annny27
Told him this morning was going to try hide it for as long as I could incase it goes wrong then he would be none the wiser so I would nt disappoint him again but I knw he would be mad at me 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈

Annny27 · 19/01/2021 13:08

@babyghirl have you told your husband? 💗💗

16dpo and my period arrived in full force today after spotting for a few days! Onwards and upwards 🙄

Babyghirl · 19/01/2021 11:48

@Annny27
Boobs burning off me like they on fire lol peeing loads tired hoping this bean sticks.
@sunnysideup2020
No more testing nw none left 😂😂😂😂😂😂 just hoping this little bean sticks 🤞🙏🍀💚

SunnySideUp2020 · 19/01/2021 11:45

@Babyghirl
Congratulations!! That is a nice definite bfp!

I would stop testing now. For your own sanity :)

Annny27 · 19/01/2021 11:38

Deffo darker!! Hope they do prescribe it 🤞 if not its worth googling natural ways to increase progesterone!

Any symptoms yet? @babyghirl

Babyghirl · 19/01/2021 11:01

@Annny27
All clinics r closed in Belfast I'm going to argue with the doc on this one, that the sis out off the fertility clinic told me it's them who have to issue me it.

Babyghirl · 19/01/2021 10:59

Today's tests nt testing anymore lol you think it darker x

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Annny27 · 19/01/2021 10:48

Ahhh can you speak to a private gynaecologist? Thats who prescribed mine to me
Cost about 100 pounds but worth it!! @babyghirl

@sunnysideup2020 thank you lovely! I will be rattling but hopefully get a baby out of it haha

Babyghirl · 19/01/2021 10:45

Well phoned fertility clinic for progesterone and they said they won't issue it as they did not help me get pregnant but when doc phoned me yesterday she told me to phone them, but they told me today that it would be my doc to give me it so nw waiting on a doc phoning me to tell them wat the fertility clinic said omg why is it so hard to get my hands on them 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈

Babyghirl · 18/01/2021 12:39

@Annny27
They closed for 4 weeks so I could wing it with the doc and say that and hopefully they give me it until at least the fertility clinic opens again 🍀💚

SunnySideUp2020 · 18/01/2021 12:10

@Annny27

Was actually taking a loooot of pills that month as i had stopped the seven seas conception and was taking individual pills.
So:

Iron 56mg

Vit D 4000 IU (250 micrograms)

Folic acid 1400 micrograms (1.4mg)

Selenium 50 micrograms

Zinc 10mg

Vit C 80mg

Vit B6 2.8mg

Vit B12 5 micrograms

Annny27 · 18/01/2021 11:45

Could you call the fertility clinic and ask for cylogest progesterone given that you have had 3 miscarriages??

Babyghirl · 18/01/2021 10:49

@Annny27
I have aspirin but won't give me progesterone but will phone and ask again if nt phone the hospital and try my luck xx

Annny27 · 18/01/2021 10:46

Another friend said that to me the other day @sunnysideup2020 about vitamins! What dosage did you take? I Will look into it this month. I am also trying dairy free this month to see if that helps? Who knows haha!

@Babyghirl its getting darker since yesterday for sure!!! Call your gp to get progesterone and aspirin please please please 🤞🤞🤞

Babyghirl · 18/01/2021 10:40

@sunnysideup2020
Hoping its a lucky one this time around xx

Babyghirl · 18/01/2021 10:32

@Annny27
Don't knw if they getting darker tbh 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈

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SunnySideUp2020 · 18/01/2021 10:20

Ah also i was thinking for ttc... well i remembered.
Before i got my bfp i was on a high dose of vit D supplement (in drops), high dose of folic acid and also on special iron tablets to get my levels up.
Don't know if it helped but couldn't have harmed.