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🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

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ELM7 · 16/01/2021 18:53

On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

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Babyghirl · 30/01/2021 14:05

@Annny27
It's closed for 4 weeks nw due to covid so hoping I have one for Feb should be opening up 2nd week off Feb so fingers crossed nt to long a wait. Good luck this month 🍀💚 I'm nt trying again to I get answers xx

Annny27 · 30/01/2021 13:13

Cd12 and had ewcm for the past three days so in fertile week. Got to dtd today! Not doing opks and it foes feel a lot calmer not knowing exactly 🥰

You are so brave and strong @Babyghirl 💚

Yep dose yourself up on the painkillers and hopefully you don't pass too many clots 😪 and yes deffo - if you are active it will probably.speed things up. When is your next appointment with fertility?

Babyghirl · 30/01/2021 11:54

@chali7
It is better to be busy got my two fur balls to look after to keep me busy aswell lol bleeding just brown nw but will turn red soon if the cramps anything to go by lol doc give me Co codamol 30 over 500 to get me through it lol xx

chali7 · 30/01/2021 09:27

Ah thats a really good outlook. My life is generally busy, and my OH works long hours, so we would be similar haha. Being busy is certainly good. Xxx

Babyghirl · 30/01/2021 09:07

@chali7
He wanted to phone in but I told him I'm OK I like me time I get more done lol if he was here he would nt let me lift a finger and tell me to stay in bed lol, but for things to move quicker I have learnt that being active moves it along quicker. So like to keep busy I have everything crossed for you girl 🍀💚 xx

chali7 · 30/01/2021 08:30

That sounds good, I love a homemade curry! I hope the cramps settle for you. So sorry to hear he is away, especially at this time. Yes I'm OK thanks, just taking it all day by day at the moment! Xx

Babyghirl · 30/01/2021 08:13

@chali7
I'm OK got cramps on and off I'm up early this morning even through I'm off work lol partner away to work thou. So going to patter abot today keep myself busy and make a nice home made curry for him coming home. How r you feeling xx

chali7 · 30/01/2021 07:50

How are you feeling @Babyghirl? Xx

Babyghirl · 29/01/2021 11:51

@ELM7
Thank you not feeling to bad glad it happened sooner rather than later. Will just do a test next week to c if it's nagitive can't be dealing with another scan with a bad outcome. Waiting on the doctor phoning me to get some good pain relief as the ones I have might aswell take smarties lol. And I'm going to push for a quicker referral to a gynoglagest as they say 2 years I have not got 2 years to wait I will be 40 then lol xx

Babyghirl · 29/01/2021 11:47

@Annny27
Thank you will have a look if it's something as simple as that I will be so angry at the doc for nt listening to me. But I'm not going to try no more to I c the fertility consultant and I knw next time I fall I will get everything I need to help keep the pregnancy xx

ELM7 · 29/01/2021 11:46

@Babyghirl I’m so sorry it’s looking like it’s happening again 😢. Really hope you can be seen at EPU to confirm. Take it easy and look after yourself

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Annny27 · 29/01/2021 11:39

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@Babyghirl check our her on Instagram. She had 5 miscarriages before being diagnosed with low progesterone and then had healthy no issue pregnancy after using suppositories!

chali7 · 29/01/2021 11:39

Yes totally agree with you, and we do know our bodies best. Take it easy and rest up won't you.
I'm ok thanks! I am not feeling very positive, but I guess I just have to wait it out and see what happens!
Thinking of you today, I'm so sorry this is happening zzx

Babyghirl · 29/01/2021 11:14

@Annny27
I think it's a reason aswell waiting on doc phoning me she going to get it but I knw its a miscarriage as cramping and that nw but just glad it happened sooner rather than l8r. X
@chali7
Deffo a miscarriage cramping and that nw so hoping it just like a bad period don't fancy going for a scan sick off scans with no outcome so will just ride it out and test nxt week to see if it's negative. How r u feeling xxx

chali7 · 29/01/2021 11:08

So sorry to see this @Babyghirl - I really am! I am hoping it all works out for you xxx
Can you self refer to your local EPU? If you can I would certainly recommend calling them and seeing if they will offer you an appointment. Xx

Annny27 · 29/01/2021 11:06

I genuinely think you have low progesterone and that those suppositories wouldnhave helped so I am so frustrated that they didn't give them to you 😡😡😡😡🤬🤬🤬🤬 @babyghirl

Annny27 · 29/01/2021 11:05

@babyghirl I am gutted for you if this is the case 😔😔😔😔😔😔😔 can you get a scan to confirm? Xxxx

Babyghirl · 29/01/2021 10:54

Tmi picture well this has just happened so can say I'm now going through my 4th miscarriage not trying no more to I get answers could not go through this a fifth time tbh I'm OK just glad it's happened sooner rather than l8r and I won't be passing to much clots and things hoping it's just like a norm period and not to bad. Thank you girls for always being here for me as I know I can tlk to yous no matter wat 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 xx

Babyghirl · 28/01/2021 13:53

@chali7
I have put it to the back of my head tbh and just going abot my day 🙈🙈🙈🙈 every other time I have been pregnant I have went of tea and coke and was ascared to move so taking the relaxed approach and having a cuppa when I want one and drinking coke cause it never helped the outcome last 3 times. Xx
@Annny27
No it was only needle size drops on tissue so I'm hoping it all OK thou but Im relaxed as I can be cause I can't change the outcome either way 🙏🤞🍀💚

chali7 · 28/01/2021 13:48

Thanks @Annny27 🤞❤ we took a really relaxed approach this month! (Well as relaxed as I could have been anyway haha) Must have worked! OH won't believe it until he's seen a digital test to spell it out for him 🙈🤣
Fx'd for you this month xx

Annny27 · 28/01/2021 13:45

Congratulations @chali7 💗🤞🤞🤞🤞

@babyghirl have you had any more spotting since your bit last week?

@fizzl no I totally get you I often think of people I speak to on here! Baby will appreciate all the work done on the house before they arrive as they won't have to deal with building noise when they are small haha!

Will you be telling us in mumsnet the babies sex or keeping it to yourself completely?

Cd10 maybe - no ovulation sign yet, dtd as and when we like which is roughly every 3 days

chali7 · 28/01/2021 13:40

Thank you so muxh @Babyghirl - and to you as well!! I hope the nerves aren't too bad for you! I'm a bit of an emotional wreck today haha. Xx

Babyghirl · 28/01/2021 13:37

@chali7
Congratulations to ur bfp I got mine last week to so hoping 4th time lucky for me h+h nine months 🙏🤞💚🍀

chali7 · 28/01/2021 11:50

I think this is it! Third time lucky 🤞❤
Hope you're all well xxx

🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕
Babyghirl · 26/01/2021 23:32

@fizzl
Good to hear things r going great and your rainbow will be here soon 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 I found out last week I was pregnant again for the 4th time nervous and scared but I am blanking it out Im around 5+3 in half an hour 😂😂😂😂 so only about ten weeks from my last loss boobs only in comfy now and again and burn tired light cramps that have me worried r they norm for around this time can u remember lol hoping 4th time lucky 🙏🤞🍀💚