🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

I dont often have down days about ttc and our situation but todays one of those days. IMy family had a group call and they "hahaha there will be a lockdown baby boom"

Those comments piss me off because A) people have contraception so only why would it be a baby boom and b) do people really have nothing better to do than have sex all day? 🤣 Anyway I just hate comments about babies or baby booms I just retreat into myself when people talk about it

@fizzl yep I imagine it is a reminder of the difficult times! Yep I will try and not worry and let nature take its course! Itw so difficult though to not be obsessive haha

@babyghirl did AF arrive? I am cd5 now so period over tomorrow 🤪🥰

@27donfin do you have anymore tests now or have they basically said just try naturally some more?

Hi everyone, sorry I keep going awol! Things just feel a little hectic here at the minute - not enough hours in the day suddenly for some reason it's really strange!

Hope you're all doing as well as can be expected! 💐

Congratulations @Nuggetlover27 that's amazing news! Hope you're still doing ok. Those first few weeks are scary but hopefully a scan will put your mind at ease for a short while. I also didn't really have many symptoms in the early stages - it gradually progressed and then I felt quite ropey between weeks 7-14 but nothing too horrendous. I did used to get a bit of mild cramping too - it was strange because I'd worry when I got the cramps but then worry when I didn't because I also knew it was quite a normal symptom early on! Either way I think you just worry (I certainly do/did 😄). Fingers crossed for a nice smooth pregnancy for you - hopefully we will see you on the other thread when you're ready.

@Annny27 yes can definitely relate to the constant worry! There always has to be something and it's exhausting. I'm sure your ovaries are in tip top condition if the doctor has said there's nothing to worry about though! It's hard because I know I felt like I just wanted an explanation or some answers to help me figure out what my body was (or wasn't) doing. It sounds positive though that you have a plan of action in place and something to focus on/work towards so you know you're being as proactive as you can be. I really hope you get your BFP soon, I find it quite hard/emotional checking back in on this thread because I remember these feelings so well and I really just want you all to get your BFP and baby at the end. Lots of positive thoughts and good luck vibes coming your way 💐

@27DONFIN
Me either until they delivered it to me to day was amazing have it around my wrist already lol xx I can let yous know where they got it if u like x

@Babyghirl omg what a thoughtful gift. Iv never seen anything like this before.

@Annny27 isn’t it just amazing being a women lol

@Annny27
It deffo can't hurt my folate also ordered to so hoping they here by Monday, what cycle day r you on nw 💚

@Babyghirl thats super cute!!! At this point I would try anything so it can't hurt can it :D

Glad you got your jab!

@27DONFIN I also get hotter when my period is due to arrive!

When you hear a knock at the door and your sis in law and wife drops this off, omg had me roaring her wife a civil marriage really believes in these hoping it helps xx

@Annny27 ahhh I'm so curious now as to where you live 🤣 but yes... I'm sure we could arrange something one day... would love that. We've been through a hell of a lot together! ❤️

19 not 18 😂😂😂😂

Well just got my covid 18 injection woohoo lol, but also done a test and it's nagitive woohoo but sad at the same time so I really think it's my period on the way early after loss, then I knw where I am with my body again 🍀💚

@27DONFIN
Funny last 2 nites I have been sweating aswell lol waking up my tshirst soaking in it lol. Hopefully this is the last time u c her for 9 months x

@Babyghirl that was me last night I woke up with my hands putting pressure on my stomach. Iv known all week she was coming as my night sweats were in full swing thankfully my other half was away with work the last few nights when they were at their worse

@27DONFIN
Nt started yet but I can feel cramps on and off you know just the heavy period feeling you just know its going to rare its ugly head any day nw lol x

That’s good bleeding has started @Babyghirl I remember that being the longest wait ever after my miscarriage felt I was going crazy waiting on it x

@27DONFIN
Sorry the witch got you to, I'm 21 days from miscarriage bleeding started and have a feeling I will get mine early to my cycle has been as short as 24 days to 27 so could be any day nw if you say day 1 off bleeding was cycle day one lol.

Not this cycle for me either @Annny27 woke up this during the night with awful cramps and sure thing this morning Af is here a few days early x

@Annny27
I'm taking it getting it sorted today seeing I'm bck lol, was meant to get it 4 weeks ago but had to cancel it as just found out I was pregnant 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈. Yes yous will have to zoom me in 😂😂😂😂😂. Sorry the witch arrived for u on to nxt month hopefully it's a successful one. 🍀💚

Period here now! Onto cycle......15 since miscarriage 🙈 but atleast she has arrived and hopefully won't be too painful!

@Babyghirl we will have to virtual dial you in haha!! Are you going to have the covid vaccine BTW I know you work in health care- I think they said it was probably fine for ttc now

@Nuggetlover27 yeah I think 7-8 weeks is a good idea :D can out your mind at ease a little

@Annny27 I am hoping to go for a private scan around 7-8 weeks so then hopefully we can hear the heartbeat and I will be more reassured, but waiting for my nhs scan dates to come though so I don't book anything too close to them.
How are you doing? I really hope this is your last AF for a while ! 🤞🏻

Hope all you other girls are doing well too 😘

@Annny27
I was looking on ebay bot 100 second hand have a wee look.
Can yous all travel to Belfast for the meet up girls 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Ovia*

Omg ironically I looked into the oval brackets things but thought it was a bit expensive.....well 18 months later and we have spent goodness knows how much on opks and pregnancy tests so probably should have bought it at the start! @babyghirl

@milscookie we border Oxfordshire so really not that far atall 🥰🥰 we should deifinitley have a "catching up after miscarriage thread" meet up after lockdown as I am sure there's a few of us in the south plus hopefully I will be atleast pregnant by then haha!

@27donfin yeah I am pretty confident I know when I ovulate (within a day or two) anyway!

*out not put!

@Annny27 ohhhh really?! Totally understand you not wanting to put yourself but I feel like we're practically friends now I've known you/been chatting for over a year! If you genuinely weren't too far away I'd love to meet up if we could (although I know we've had that discussion before about internet strangers 🙈🤣). I am in Oxfordshire... you can decide how close you are haha! X

@Annny27 yeah I get a lot of ewcm too I just go with my body now instead of confirming it with any tests.