🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

When are you due on @Babyghirl? Xx

I don't think your HCG would have risen that much, after falling to negative levels! That is a very strong line. Was it the same brand of test? Definately ask the EPU or your Dr for 48 hour blood tests to clarify though! xx

@Annny27
3 weeks ago tomorrow I passed the sac done a test bit a week ago and it was nagitive nt a line but you knw hormones can fluctuat lol xx

@chali7
Done a test abot a week ago and it was nagitive 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 but nt counting my chickens just yet lol xx

Omg! @babyghirl how long has it been since miscarriage ended?

I dont know what to think whether it's a new pregnancy or old hcg!!

Oh wow! That is quite a line @Babyghirl!! Have you tested between the bleeding stopping and now at all? Fingers crossed for you that this is a new and healthy pregnancy but I can imagine you are very nervous! Hope EPU will be able to offer you blood tests to see what the levels are doing and a scan maybe xx

@chali7
But I done a test today and this came up so hoping it's nt a new one but also don't want it to be from last one aswell I'm confused may phone epu on Monday morning c wat they say 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 xx

Totally understandable @Babyghirl I hope you have answers very soon! Thank you, I really hope so! Xx

@chali7
Aswell as expected just my anxiety is getting worse tbh but hoping that settles with in time, just waiting on my fertility app coming through and hoping for answers as I can't go through another loss 1 is enough for anybody let along 5 including my cp xx glad everything looking great 🙏🙏🙏🙏 hopefully baby cooking away for the nxt 7 months xx

Hey @Babyghirl I am well thanks! I've had a few scans and so far so good! 8 weeks today!

That is positive that your period is on track but I know how tough the first period after is so be kind to yourself! How are you keeping? Xx

@chali7
How r you keep, my period on its way 4 weeks to the day from my miscarriage started so bck on track. 💚

Hey ladies, just checking in to say I hope you're all well xx

@nuggetlover27
Goodluck for Sunday and I hope little bean is doing well in there and will do for the nxt 7 months 🍀💚

Well period is on its way I can feel her lurking in there lol would be abot right 4 weeks tomara 29 days from I started bleeding every time I have lost my period seems to go bck to sync the first one after. How's everyone doing xx

@Nuggetlover27 that's great to hear you are doing well. It's so hard not to worry but hopefully in a few days it'll be great news..will be thinking of you!!

Hey ladies
Hope everyone is well!

Thanks @Fizzl 🥰 it's so scary. I am 100% a worrier and have now taken to googling about ectopic pregnancy and worrying about that. I'm so stressed that this isn't a viable pregnancy and I hate my miscarriage for taking the excitement of pregnancy away from me! It's reassuring that you had very little symptoms too and you're having a healthy pregnancy so far!

@Leok83 I'm doing okay other than worrying 24/7! That's just who I am haha. I have a scan booked for Sunday when I should be 7 weeks. I'm so so scared that they will give me bad news but hoping so much for good news.

@Nuggetlover27 how are you doing? Did you get a scan booked yet? Hope everything's going ok for you!

@Annny27 oh those comments are just the most insensitive thing. Thankfully my close friends and family and colleagues knew about the MC and I don't socialise much other than them so I didn't have to endure it before I got pregnant which would have hurt a lot. But since I've been pregnant it's amazing how people you barely know put it down as another lockdown baby and they are lucky I don't rip their head off..although I just cut them off with 'hardly when my husband is a paramedic and I'm a vet and we actually saw each other less than before lockdown with all his overtime..believe me this baby was very much wanted and not an accident' and I like to say it with a nice thick flat tone that makes them know I'm pissed at their comments. So hopefully they don't ever say it to anyone else and unnecessarily upset them.
Hope ur feeling better today..you've always been so positive here but you are bound to get down days. When is your next appt at fertility clinic? Big hugs. xx

@Annny27
Sorry just getting this nw did nt get no notification for some funny reason no nt yet 😠😠😠😠 but it may hurry up lol don't know what them cramps where unless it was my uterus going bck to norm.

And I knw how yous all feel about the comments I be like piss off. I knw a girl who has had 7 kids has them for abot 2 weeks and then they get taken off her like come on why give her them when she can't even look after them annoys me so much. When we on this thread fighting for a baby 😠😠😠😠😠😠.

@Annny27 ohh the my husband just needs to look at me comments 🤬👊🏻 Fuck off

@Annny27
Biggest eye roll 🙄
😂

@SunnySideUp2020 Hahahahha the "oops we bought the wrong kind of protection" and a photo of masks and a scan 🤣🤣🤣

Yeah it's not funny, it's similar to those comments like oh my husband winks at me and I am pregnant. Well good for you 🤣

@27donfin feeling better today thanks 🙌 we have one more of nothing and then if my next period comes I have to book in for a hycosy to check there is no blockages!

@fizzl totally - people don't think! And I do understand it I also want to know if people are going to have babies but I will just wait untill they voluntarily share the info to me!!

Omg i also hate those lockdown baby boom comments/conversations.
Or the announcement saying "we didn't practice social distancing" and all that...
Sorry if anyone has or is thinking of using them!
But they really irritate me. It did before getting pregnant and still does now.
I always think not really funny this ttc journey. And it's no we didnt conceive because we had nothing better to do. It was ups and downs for 9 months with the mc. The crushed hopes. The relentless trying new things, dtd more then less, reading, googling and then the doctors, tests and probbing etc... defo not a joke. Not to me at least. And i am sure not to anyone who's on this thread and who has been putting in the work for even longer.
That's it. Rant over.

And ofc baby dust to everyone 💖💖

@Annny27 how are you feeling today? What’s the next steps for you? Xx

@Annny27 it does and it makes me feel really sad for everyone still going through those feelings and emotions 😔. Sorry I think my first post made it seem about me and it being hard for me but that's not how I intended it - I'm not sure I'm explaining myself very well 🥴. I think what I'm trying to say is I find it hard to know others are still going through this and I wish you all weren't because I know a little of how you're feeling and how hard it is 😞 and that's what I find quite emotional knowing there's still so many of you going through this crappy situation.

I'm sorry you're having a tough day today. People do make insensitive comments and I hate that you have to bite your tongue. I remember my husbands cousin directly asking us if there'd be any babies soon the week after our miscarriage. I know what I really wanted to say to her but I just smiled and said some general polite response about in the future to avoid any awkwardness and her feeling bad about how much she'd just put her foot in it 😠

@Annny27I hate all that chat too. I’m enjoying lockdown for the point of not having to listen to peoples baby chat or questions.

No more tests my OH has been on at me for the last 6 months to relax stop all my tracking and testing. So when the doctor said that it was music to his ears. He asked me can we just try it his way for a bit. I was so consumed with it all I was actually fed up trying to force it so I agreed. If I hadn’t felt like that I would of pushed for more tests just now.