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🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

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ELM7 · 16/01/2021 18:53

On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

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justwant2beamum · 02/03/2021 16:08

Hey girls I'm a bit early to join but I need to think forward to get through this. Went for a private scan last night at 9+4 after seeing baby and healthy HB at 7 weeks. No HB and not progressed since 7 weeks. So am having a mmc. Getting scanned at my maternity unit tomorrow and I guess they'll take from there. But I need to think forward to have a reason to keep going and we plan to ttc straight away. I've been taking the seven seas pregnancy vitamins for the last 9 weeks or so - does anyone just keep going with these while TTC? Last time TTC I just took a folic acid and then a gummy vitamin that had C and D.

27DONFIN · 02/03/2021 14:45

@Nuggetlover27 awww so glad your scan went well 🌈

@Babyghirl sending positive thoughts your way 🤞🏻🍀💚

ELM7 · 02/03/2021 14:32

Yay! @Nuggetlover27 an amazing picture to treasure.

@Annny27 I’ve got our first phone consultation on 15th March but that was arranged before we got pregnant so don’t know if they will reset the clock or not. Hoping not or if they do that it will just be 6mths (because of our ages) and we are already 3mths in. I really want (that sounds wrong) them to do some investigation on me as I can’t help but think the double uterus is playing a part in why I don’t stay pregnant. And no one seems to really know what’s going on in there cos at the point they scan me is just been about what’s happening with the MCs

@Babyghirl hope you’ve been able to get hold of epu.

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Annny27 · 02/03/2021 13:22

Its amazing @nuggetlover27 I can see baby taking shape ❤❤❤

@ELM7 have you got any more tests now or has the fertility clock restarted given that you got pregnant recently?

Nuggetlover27 · 02/03/2021 13:10

Thanks @ELM7 @Annny27 @lozza2206

This is the photo we have I know it doesn't look like much at the moment 🙈🥰

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lozza2206 · 02/03/2021 11:24

@Nuggetlover27 congratulations on your healthy rainbow 🌈 💕

@Babyghirl let us know what they say on the phone! Fingers n toes crossed for you xxx

ELM7 · 02/03/2021 11:12

Ahh @Nuggetlover27 I’m so pleased everything went well at the scan. We need the good news updates on here so really hope the next few months are smooth sailing for you and your rainbow 🌈 x

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Babyghirl · 02/03/2021 10:54

@Annny27
Just done a test first response 2 lines so now going to phone the epu and c what they say phone docs aswell xx

Annny27 · 02/03/2021 10:37

It's always a bad time on here so any good news is much appreciated @nuggetlover27 haha

Glad baby is all okay ❤❤ got a pic to share? :D

Nuggetlover27 · 02/03/2021 10:36

Aw @Annny27 I'm so sorry that you have to go through this. We all desperately want you (and the other ladies here) to get your rainbow(s)!! 💕

Sorry to come on here with some good news at what seems to be a bad time , but I hope you'll all be okay for me to tell you that my scan went well! We saw a heartbeat and all the measurements add up and it's in the correct place. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that it stays all okay. This could actually be my rainbow ladies! I can't believe it

Annny27 · 02/03/2021 10:36

Morning ladies:) feeling a bit better today :)

@ELM7 thank you lovely! Yes its rubbish isnt it when we have all these plans and infertility is like No❤

@nuggetlover27 hope all went well lovely ❤

@babyghirl what was today's test like? And yes this journey is full of bumps and trenches!

ELM7 · 02/03/2021 10:32

@Nuggetlover27 really hope all was ok with your scan yesterday? x

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ELM7 · 01/03/2021 21:09

Ahh @Annny27 I’m so sorry it’s so rubbish cos of course you are happy for your friend but it’s still always hard to hear when you want it so bad for yourself.

We’ve all been there. One of my close friends fell pregnant just after me so we had great plans for mat leave together but sadly both miscarried. And she is pregnant again now so of course I had great plans again about us being on mat leave together but wasn’t meant to be again for me. She’s due in April and I can’t wait to meet her little one but will also be thinking about the little rainbow that wasn’t meant to be for us. Sending big hugs to you. xx

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Babyghirl · 01/03/2021 20:40

@27DONFIN @Annny27
Ever hear that song stop the world and let me off if only it was that easy to get off this journey, it's a long hard journey to be on and I so wish none off us where on it. But the light at the end of the tunnel has to shine through for us all very soon, keep your chin up ladies we will get there soon and have r rainbow babies in r arms 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 x

Annny27 · 01/03/2021 20:11

Yeah that's true @27donfin ❤ hopefully I can get pregnant soon and me and my best friend can be pregnant together 🥰

This journey is lonely and painful isnt it!

27DONFIN · 01/03/2021 19:29

Awww @Annny27 don’t be so harsh on yourself. We have all been there it’s natural to feel upset by it. How could you not. Being a member of this club is so unfair and difficult it’s an emotional rollercoaster

Annny27 · 01/03/2021 17:08

Infertility is bursting into tears when your best friend tells you she is pregnant 😪😪😪😪😪

Feel like the biggest bitch I love her so much but it's just like heart wrenching. Only been trying for a few months so I am so pleased for her as she was really worried about infertility!

Sat here trying not to cry too loudly as dont want to burden my husband either but it really just hits you in the chest!

SunnySideUp2020 · 01/03/2021 16:20

@Annny27 😘😘 just want you to get your bfp lovely. Really really want that for you!

Annny27 · 01/03/2021 13:53

Good idea @SunnySideUp2020 @babyghirl we dtd around lunchtime yesterday so if we dtd tonight it would have been more than 24 hours! I wasnt expecting to see the two lines as haven't had that much ewcm yet!

Thanks for popping back here to chat to us sunny we appreciate it ❤❤❤

@babyghirl yes true test tomorrow with fmu and see what it says!

SunnySideUp2020 · 01/03/2021 13:03

@Annny27 i would do it tonight.

Babyghirl · 01/03/2021 12:22

@Annny27
Do the sperm meets egg 3 days in a row skip a day then do again for good luck nt yet going to test tomara again and c what it says don't want to waste there time if I don't need to lol.

Annny27 · 01/03/2021 11:25

Cd13 and got a peak LH strip which is early but I wont complain.

Wondered if I could get dtd tining advise haha. I usually peak for 2 days so I will actually ovulate tomorrow evening I reckon. We dtd last night - should I dtd again tonight or skip a day and dtd tomorrow morning and then the morning after that so it's just before I ovulate and then just after?

@babyghirl have you managed to speak to the epu? 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

@27Donfin yeah I know what you mean it would have been nice to get the all clear with a scan just to make sure everything looked allright! Surprised they haven't done an ultrasound on you now that it's been a year since miscarriage.

I am feeling okay this month! Only dtd twice so far so took it pretty casually but now stressed that it wasn't enough haha

@ELM7 sorry AF arrived :( it never gets easier even if we are a bit numb to it after so long! Xxx

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Babyghirl · 28/02/2021 21:58

@27DONFIN
Lol put an alarm on your phone for like a time of the day to remember to take it or keep it by ur bed and you will remember when u go up the stairs and c it lol. 💚

27DONFIN · 28/02/2021 21:44

@Babyghirl ordered now t remember take it lol I’m awful for forgetting my folic acid like now I’m in bed and it’s down stairs 🙄

Babyghirl · 28/02/2021 21:14

@27DONFIN
If I turn out to be pregnant again that will be 3 times from I started taking them from August and its the only thing I have done differently after taking a year each time for 3 of my pregnancy's xx