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🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

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ELM7 · 16/01/2021 18:53

On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

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Babyghirl · 12/03/2021 17:42

@Annny27
Nope just that bit off cramping the other day but not a thing to show for it 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 I want it to hurry up she said the other day at the scan my lining was thick so I don't know where it is lol 💚 hope auntie flow does not get u.

Annny27 · 12/03/2021 16:58

Afternoon! Been so busy these past few days with work....looking forward to weekend!! I am around 10dpo and experiencing all the normal pre AF signs 🙄🙄

@babyghirl bless her ❤❤

Any sign of AF?

@27donfin symptom spotting happens to the best of us

@lozza2206 I get "fuller boobs" before my period and if they shrink I know she is on the way! So it wasnt necessarily painful for me - just fuller

Babyghirl · 10/03/2021 20:37

@lozza2206
Yep lol I think bck to my school days and remember being told u look at a wee boy you will get pregnant but they never ever told us about the struggles some will go through so they lied to us 😂😂😂😂😂😂, I'm nt ttc nw thou to I have my app on the 31st of this month to c what nxt steps r 4 losses is enough for anybody xx

Babyghirl · 10/03/2021 20:33

@lozza2206
Norm before my period they just tender nt to bad around the bottom and around the sides by the arm pit but nt sore to the touch x

Babyghirl · 10/03/2021 20:31

@27DONFIN
Thank you she my soul mate although 20 years older than me been with me through the worst days and the best days 1st one to know every time I got a positive test even before the oh 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 will be lost without her xx

lozza2206 · 10/03/2021 20:25

@Babyghirl thank you! I know it's different every time and every period too! Do you ever look back to yourself before TTC and think wow I just skipped about not even thinking about this stuff. Now it's all I live and breath for!! 😂💕

Babyghirl · 10/03/2021 20:23

@lozza2206
All mine have been different one of them I had nt got my usual boob pain another one was just pain all over shouting under arm to 2 was like a burning tingling sensation lol so all different for me if it's unusual for you it could be a sign good luck 🙏🤞💚🍀

lozza2206 · 10/03/2021 20:12

Sorry I have been so rubbish on here these last 2 weeks.

@Babyghirl wishing you loads of luck for your appointment🌈

@Annny27 that's amazing news 💕

Quick question cause I think I am going mad symptom spotting. This is my first official month TTC since my surgery in jan. I had my peak and think I felt ovulation. I am now 10dpo. Just want to see your opinions on tender to touch boobs. I usually get it a few days before my period - I always have lower back ache a week before. But I have had tender boobs and back ache since 4dpo... I basically wanna know what sort of boob pain you experience before your period or before a BFP? Xxx

27DONFIN · 10/03/2021 13:46

@Annny27 that’s great news are you feeling better after that result?

Yeah I think so lol I know next week il be y usual symptom spotting reading into things too much

@Babyghirl I’m so sorry to hear that about your friend 💕

Babyghirl · 10/03/2021 13:37

@Annny27
It's to far gone to be cured 😪😪😪😪😪 just getting chemo to reduce the size to take the pressure off the heart she's amazing been with me through everything 💚

Annny27 · 10/03/2021 13:18

Morning ladies! I had my AMH test results back which is 41 pmol/l so "optimal fertility" levels which I am super pleased about as I was worried about it.

@babyghirl your best friend sounds so sweet! Does she need any treatment or is it too far for that? :(

@27donfin managing to take it easy?

@elm7 yeah I would have though theh would be way more interested in the double uterus! If you have a hycosy they will be able to see how the fluid flows through the uterus and therefore see the extent of the split

Babyghirl · 09/03/2021 21:23

@chali7
@27DONFIN
Thank you girls the support from this group is out off this world, not long to wait 3 weeks tomara thank god xx

27DONFIN · 09/03/2021 21:19

@Babyghirl sorry to hear this but glad you have your appointment snd it’s not too long a wait x

chali7 · 09/03/2021 17:08

Just popped on to see how today went @Babyghirl - so sorry to read this. But also pleased you have an appointment now! That is progress and really hoping they can help! ❤

Babyghirl · 09/03/2021 13:26

@sunnysideup2020
I would point more towards a cp tbh as my boobs felt the way they did last time burning and tingling but I'm OK with it hopefully get answers and help for nxt time around xx

SunnySideUp2020 · 09/03/2021 12:33

@Babyghirl sorry to hear.
Might have been your hcg perhaps from the previous month...
Good news about fertility appt. Hopefully they can help x

Babyghirl · 09/03/2021 12:18

@Annny27
They said my lining was thick but said nothing bot bleeding but with the cramping I knw its not to far away, looking forward to my app and hopefully get answers my best friend video called when I told he abot the app, she said she wants me sorted and hopefully pregnant and over 3 months before anything happens to her god love her lol xx

Annny27 · 09/03/2021 10:58

@babyghirl I am so sorry :( that rubbish:(

But promising news about the fertility appointment! So do they expect you to bleed again soon?

Babyghirl · 09/03/2021 10:51

@Annny27
@ELM7
@sunnysideup2020
Nothing seen on scan and there test was nagitive but I'm OK with that cause I could nt go through another miscarriage tbh I'm cramping nw unless it's a cp we will c as last one I had I passed a gray looking clot. But on the upside got a call today from the fertility clinic got an app for the 31of march so I'm looking forward to that xx

SunnySideUp2020 · 09/03/2021 08:39

Good luck today @Babyghirl

ELM7 · 09/03/2021 08:35

@Babyghirl hope all goes ok at EPU today. Will be thinking of you. x

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Annny27 · 08/03/2021 22:45

Been not keeping up but just wanted to wish you luck for your appointment tomorrow @babyghirl ❤❤❤

Will catch up and reply properly tomorrow

Babyghirl · 08/03/2021 22:41

@j785948
So sorry you find urself here but glad you found us for support I have had 4 miscarriages last one being 5 weeks ago and have an app tomorrow with the epu as I'm pregnant again tryed to prevent it obviously not to well lol as I'm due testing at a fertility clinic. I have heard they have to be took 6 to 8 weeks apart for a clear answer as if first comes bck positive and second comes back nagitive I think they say it was nagitive not sure thou but hopefully if you r pregnant again it's a sticky bean and you won't need the tests completed, 💚

J785948 · 08/03/2021 20:14

Hey,

I hope people don't mind me joining. It's such a horrible situation to be in - am sorry for your losses.

I wonder if anyone could give me any advice -
I have started some private miscarriage tests after 2 miscarriages in 6 months - testing thyroid, autoantibody, genetic thrombophillia, thromboelastogram and antiphospholipid.

I have to have one final comparison test for antiphospholipid shortly but due to a minor accident there is a good chance I could be pregnant this month (the second tests cannot be taken if pregnant).

Has this happened to anyone else? Can they savour any of the results from the first round? I would have thought some of the tests are complete given it's only the antiphospholipid which is taken a second time.

Any advice would be appreciated!

Babyghirl · 08/03/2021 14:06

@justwant2beamum
Please go easy on your self, it can take a couple of weeks for it to leave your body they say take a test 2 weeks after the bleeding stops but can take up to ur nxt period to get rid of it fully depends how far along you where. But take time to urself and please try not to put pressure on yourself I have been there 4 times now pregnant I think straight after a miscarriage for the 5th time it's hard not to think the worst will happen but I have learn stressing definitely does not help took me a year to fall pregnant the first second and third time then ten weeks the 4th then I think if I'm pregnant now again only 2 or 3 weeks after my 4th miscarriage I was trying nt to this time around to I got in depth test done thou 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 x

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