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🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

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ELM7 · 16/01/2021 18:53

On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

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ELM7 · 14/03/2021 10:48

Sending you all Lots of love today Ladies.

🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕
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Babyghirl · 14/03/2021 09:51

@Annny27
So the witch is raring her ugly head today of all days big 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 to you 💚💚

Babyghirl · 14/03/2021 09:45

@chali7
Thank you happy mothers day to you to 💚💚💚

Annny27 · 14/03/2021 09:31

Thank you @chali7

@babyghirl yeah its aim lovely how hr thought of you!

P.s mother natures mothers day present for me - spotting and cramping ahead of AF arrival 🥺🥴🥴🥴🥴

And if anyone from the pregnancy thread is reading - happy mothers day for the mums and mums to be ❤🥰

Babyghirl · 14/03/2021 08:59

@Annny27
It makes my day even if its only a card he's amazing, so can't wait to my app at the end of the month to I c if I can get help xx

chali7 · 14/03/2021 08:44

Happy Mother's Day to all of you wonderful ladies on here. You're the bravest bunch I've ever come across and I can't thank you enough for all of the support this thread has given me since I joined you here. ❤

Annny27 · 14/03/2021 08:17

@babyghirl that made me cry that's so sweet of your OH ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ how lovely!

Babyghirl · 14/03/2021 08:09

Well happy mothers day girls we deserve this day to has we have very special angel's watching over us 😇😇😇😇, I woke up for work my oh just away to bed but left me this in the livingroom 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 xx

🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕
Babyghirl · 13/03/2021 22:53

@kiwi17
Have you done a pregnancy test if it's nagitive norm means all is clear and your uterus is clear hope you get you bfp and it's ur rainbow baby but please go easy on urself and don't obese over ttc as it can take the fun out of dtd and enjoying time with ur partner have been there 4 times and I took the relax approach the last two times and the 4th time fell pregnant quicker for it xx

Babyghirl · 13/03/2021 22:34

@kiwi17
Well come to r safe house as I say sorry your find yourself here thou but I was told of there's something left behind not to try to after ur nxt period as it needs to clear to support a new pregnancy xx

Babyghirl · 13/03/2021 22:26

@Annny27
It's an awful feeling like there's 3 mothers days that have went past me and 4 well 5 including a cp I thought I would of well had a baby by nw but I will if nt next year the year after xx

Annny27 · 13/03/2021 22:00

@babyghirl yep I am dreading it too ❤ I lost my mum as a teenager so no reason to celebrate atall haha! Which just hide from social media tomorrow I think.
My husband bought me a bunch of flowers which I am so happy about ❤

@kiwi17 I had a "small bleed" in my uterus after the miscarriage picked up on the scan but I ovulated the day before so its possible to still ovulate with some "stuff" in uterus

@27donfin I haven't taken my folic acid this week! Whoops 🤪

@MrsF111 welcome to the club noone wants to be in ❤

Babyghirl · 13/03/2021 21:56

Just sitting on my own while better half is working 😪😪😪😪😪 anybody else dreading tomorrow but I knw my amazing man with have bought me something for mothers day just cause he amazing and I love the fact he does cause it brightness up my day knowing I'm a mum to four amazing angels, 💚💚

Babyghirl · 13/03/2021 20:55

@fizzl
Just sitting thinking abot you and how you r keeping xx

kiwi17 · 13/03/2021 19:32

Hello! Popping over from the mc support thread now that my bleeding is slowing.. just wondering if anyone has ttc before their first period after mc? We want to try as soon as possible- and I'm hoping that I will ovulate in the next couple of weeks. Mc was diagnosed at 10 weeks and baby only measured 7w. Have done expectant management and have a scan on the 25th to check all is clear but potentially could ovulate just before... not sure whether to go for it or not! Stupid question but can you ovulate if there is anything left in the womb that's not come out yet or will the body not let you ovulate until everything's completely clear? Thank you :)

27DONFIN · 13/03/2021 19:31

@MrsF111 so sorry you find yourself in this feed 💕

@Babyghirl yeah only missed one night infact I need to take it just now lol

Babyghirl · 13/03/2021 19:26

@mrsF111
I'm no doc but I would say a mmc isn't that wat they class as a mmc baby not developing but no bleeding or pain to say anything is wrong it's hard when you have been through so much but we all will get there just a tougher Rd to get where we want but will be extra special when it does happen for you, vent and scream on here at anytime you won't be judged for anything as it's the only place we can say wats on r minds cause we all understand what we r going through 💚

MrsF111 · 13/03/2021 19:04

@Babyghirl. I’m not really sure if they are classing it as second mmc, they said chemical pregnancy and also called it an early loss (same thing?) but it doesn’t really explain when I’ve not bled, but as with everything pregnancy related the consultant said it can happen/not hard and fast rule Sad I really wish I had gone in for an early scan so I had found out sooner, although I guess there is nothing that could have been done to speed it up, I just need to wait for my period but I at least wouldn’t have spent the last 2 months thinking everything was ok!

Babyghirl · 13/03/2021 18:50

@mrsF111
Sorry you find yourself with us but glad you found us for support. Having 1 miscarriage is awful never mind 2, so r they treating the second one as a mmc as well so sorry for your losses, I myself have had 4 and 1 cp I'm nw in limbo waiting on my period to come after my last loss early Feb also waiting on a 2nd fertility app which is at the end of this month go easy on yourself 💚

Babyghirl · 13/03/2021 18:46

@27DONFIN
I noticed the months I was taking the pregncare with vitamin d in them my period was late norm 29 days on the spot before hand and this time I was taking vitamin d and I'm 2 weeks late and even after my miscarriages I always had my cycle back to norm so have stopped the vitamin d and hoping it kick starts soon. Have you remembered to take your folate every day lol 💚

27DONFIN · 13/03/2021 18:37

@Babyghirl I was taking folic acid with vitamin and mines were always 28 days. This month Iv stopped and started taking the folate so will see if there’s a difference

MrsF111 · 13/03/2021 18:27

Hi everyone, I have just had my second miscarriage so back to TTC for me. First one was a MMC, this one was an early loss but not picked up until 12 week scan as I haven’t bled (spotted around time of BFP but no period or bleeding since) so I’m waiting for my period to come back so we can get back to trying. Thinking about trying baby aspirin this time around. Currently resting up and reading the baby loss guide

Babyghirl · 13/03/2021 15:36

@Annny27
They said there test was nagitive and super sensitive 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 will leave it a week stopped taking the vitamin d 3 or 4 days ago and feel periodie if u get me lol just wish it would hurry up so I knw where I am and hold of to my app.

Annny27 · 13/03/2021 15:23

@babyghirl not experienced it sorry but I have heard about pregnacarre delaying it!

Have you taken a test atall since? If your lining was thick and no period then it could just have been too early for them to see??

Babyghirl · 13/03/2021 15:10

Girls quick question has anybody ever took vitamin d and noticed it delayed your periods, I remember taking my pregncare after my first miscarriage as doc told me to still take them and it messed up my cycle I have been taking vitamin d for a few weeks now and my period still not here 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 my period norm comes back in the sync after my miscarriages. 💚