🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

@happygolucky20
C the ones you where taking did it delay ur period, when I took the pregncare after my first miscarriage doc told me to still take them they made my cycle longer and I was taking vitamin d the last couple of weeks and my cycle was longer to lol in norm a 27 to 29 day kind of girl and don't want to take anything to make it longer xx

Thank you @Babyghirl

@SLCxxx thank you too! I started taking it on the first day of my last period. I was fed up of being told by doctors that my pre AF spotting was just “old blood” so googled the pants off it and that’s what I found on repeat. I think I will take it forever now.
Just praying this one sticks as not sure we can go through the last year again. Trying to remain positive

@happygolucky20 congratulations 👏🏻 so happy for you! How long have you been taking the B100 complex for? Thinking if my test tomo is Neg then I will invest in some x

@happygolucky20

Congratulations h&h nine months girl 💚🍀

@Annny27 yes! I took B100 Complex and vitamin c but I also saw an acupuncturist - she asked me not to go on the vitamins during the first month of trying her as we would never know which one helped but, me being me, started them all together 😂 but all the reading I had done online said Vit B complex was the thing.
Goes to show though that ovulation tests don’t work for everyone, as CB digital said I hadn’t ovulated 🤷🏻‍♀️ I am in shock and walking around in a bit of a daze.

Omg congratulations @happygolucky20 so the vitamin b complex helped!!!!

So this is with a FRER at 5am, couldn’t sleep!

@happygolucky20 eeeek I'd say congrats in order! I agree digital won't be as sensitive so wont have picked it up with mid day wee. I'd do a frer in the morning with FMU keep the wee and then do a digital if the frer is positive!! Keep us updated!! Xx

@happygolucky20
Try a more cheaper one like a frar them clear blue ones r less sensitive as @slcxxx has said prop because it was a weaker wee so to speak, but the one you have up looks positive to me to fingers crossed for you 💚

@Annny27 I was just talking to a mum on school run this morning who was trying to conceive for 3 years following an ectopic and mmc and she said after the flush she caught straight away and now has her miracle baby. Wishing you the best of luck with what ever you decide 😊

@happygolucky20 maybe because the 2nd one wasn’t your first wee so the hormone was weaker then the first one you did? Think you may have to repeat tomo morning.. unless you can hold your wee and not drink anything for the next 6 hours 🙈 waiting is so horrid! Fingers crossed for you

@happygolucky20 - the digital ones are less sensitive I think - try another in a day or 2. Looks very positive to me though so congratulations. X

@Annny27
Hate when that happens poas and the witch comes 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈. App it helps ovulation but also with progesterone worth a try I'm nw coming to the end of my period the brown staining drags on lol, to answer your question I would go for the tube flush on the 8th of April take a month of ttc you might even enjoy the break from everything that's what I would do cause u been trying for so long and if you where unlucky again nxt month you would be kicking urself for nt going for it well I knw I would lol 💚

Ladies, help me! So I did this this morning (pictures) and got a line but just did a digital one at midday and it said not pregnant, is that possible? Can I be given a false positive?!

@Annny27 I can totally relate, just before my AF arrives I am super dramatic and emotional and then I settle. Our consultant told me not to call him about any treatment when I was due, or on my AF as it would be irrational - he is totally right!

Its a tough one having to wait but I think I would be tempted to get it booked in for the month after...Just in case.

Vitamin B6 and B12 is to help with a short LP and so far (fingers crossed) this month it has really worked for me. Although, I have been taking the whole B Complex from Holland and Barrett which included folic acid and all the B vitamins. My AF always arrives like clockwork on a Sunday and I usually spot from the Tuesday, well its Thursday today and I have yet to spot and I could not be happier! I have also been seeing an acupuncturist who said I have a spleen deficiency and was told to come off cows milk so could be a combo but every forum I have read with ladies who spot and have been fobbed off by doctors, they all recommend Vitamin B6 or B Complex.

Ahh @Annny27 😔 hopefully you don't have endo and the tests you have coming up shortly will start to give you some answers you deserve/need. Ah that's tough - In your situation I personally would take the first appointment they have available as if you don't and you wait and your period arrives again you'll kick yourself feeling like you've wasted another month without potentially getting some answers. I know it's really difficult, I remember when we made the decision to pause ttc when my cycles went a bit haywire last year and it felt so counterproductive! But you've got to do what you feel most comfortable with 💐

@Annny27 did you have blood tests done? I’m wonder about getting some done. They found cysts when they were doing my last scan, and my cycles are 38 days! Been on my health kick since Monday and I’m feeling better about it today. Looking back I realise some days I live mainly off carbs, toast for breakfast, sandwich at lunch and pasta for dinner with either a cheese or tomato sauce!! Which is ridiculous as I love to cook, I’ve just got into bad habits.

Period arrived literally an hour after POAS 😂😂😂

I am always so hormonal and dramatic about ttc when she arrives and then I slowly get over myself!

So I rang the clinic they said I can only get the test this month on the 8th april...Way after ovulation OR I can try again next month and hope they can offer me a pre ovulation hycosy? So that atleast we dont have to miss a month of trying. What would you ladies do?

@happygolucky20 I also now only get 5 days of spotting since my miscarriage! Crazy isnt it. What is the vitamin b stuff?

@babyghirl that's interesting about the heart shape uterus! Yeah I am a bit cheerier than this morning now haha!

@27donfin thanks lovely - looks like we are cycle buddies!

@mrsF111 I have slight pcos but because I ovulate regularly they said it's not concern but it's a good idea to clean up diet :D I will be doing the same

@mrsF111
Sorry to read your struggling today big virtual hugs to you 💚
@happygolucky20
I was just reading up on vitamin b6 and some where saying it stopped the spotting also helps with progesterone if it's low that's why u could be spotting because of low progesterone have a read on it 💚

@Annny27 sorry to hear about the bfn :( Don't give up just yet though. I had my tube checked in January and just a little warning as I was completely unaware (!!!) it is quite painful so have some painkillers to take and defo take a pad for after. I had no idea and almost went in skipping as I was so excited to have the test, I was adamant my tubes were the issue, that I went into a bit of shock after. Drove home from London on my own thinking "how/why did I not read up on this" haha

@MrsF111 sorry to hear you are struggling today.

Does anyone else take B Complex? Since our mc I have spotted super lightly for five days before my AF (never happened before) and read that it helped with that too...So far I am 48 hrs late on the spotting, AF should arrive at the weekend. The consultant we saw said it was nothing to worry about but seems a bit strange that we got pregnant first time and now we cant and I have this bizarre nothingness spotting - who knows!

@terribleimagination
Thank you very much will have a look and get myself some anything to try and help the progesterone levels. Hoping the fertility consultant will give me progesterone at my nxt app to take following a bfp also think he will give me clomid to help with egg quality 🤞🙏 💚.

Also the B6 I took all the time, before and after the BFP ❤️

@Babyghirl I took one of these a day
www.hollandandbarrett.com/shop/product/holland-barrett-vitamin-b6-tablets-100mg-60000650

Then also took the Seven Seas trying for a baby tablets. I put my DP on the Wellman conception tablets and told him not to have any more than the recommended 14 units a week of alcohol! Again I have no idea of any of these are what did it!

@Annny27 so sorry it’s a bfn 💕 at least when it starts it means you’re a step closer to some more tests which hopefully will have some answers for you c

@ELM7 sorry to hear how rubbish they were!! Is there anyone else you can see instead? I changed hospitals after my first miscarriage and the care at the second hospital was miles apart from the first ones who were rude and dismissive of me.

Really struggling with my second miscarriage I’m coming up to a year from when we decided to start TTC and it just feels so unbearably sad. I hate the fact they just say “bad luck try again” I need something to work on/feel like I can improve even though I know misscarraige isn’t caused by anything we do. It’s just such a confusing time, so many emotions and so overwhelming. I’ve ordered some different fertility supplements, the wild nutrition ones. The nurse mentioned I had PCO although another said she didn’t think it was PCOS, so I’m just going to treat myself as if I do have PCOS and really clean up my diet, less white carbs, more vegetables. It’s making me feel a little more in control.

I’ve got some roses arriving today to plant in rememberance of the two babies

@Annny27
😂😂😂😂 I just think my urters is hopeless llf but going to mention at my app bot midwife telling me I had a heart shape uterus to c if that could be the cause cause if the baby in plants in the dip no blood flows there as its dead tissue.