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🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

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ELM7 · 16/01/2021 18:53

On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

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Sweetbabydust1989 · 25/04/2021 14:13

Thanks girls for all the positive replies means so much to me well I feel much better today well apart from my skin looking like shit pains in arms has finally subsided I am thinking it's potentially stress as it's located mainly in my biceps no shoulder tip touch wood on that one ( I actually just did tap my table🙈) I am finally feeling more relaxed scan on Tuesday will give me some info I honestly pray that my little bean is borrowing its way in I have had the odd pin prick sensation not sure on that one could be corpus related... I hope you are all good xx

Sweetbabydust1989 · 25/04/2021 09:36

@Annny27 so sorry about your mc hun 😞 how you feeling about everything??? My back pain is definitely stress related and poor sleep position my pain is located on my bicep not sure if that's ectopic related xx

Sweetbabydust1989 · 25/04/2021 09:17

@Babyghirl I think it's the position I sleep in as I changed it last night now I have pain on the other arm 🙈 the pain is more located biceps I honestly think it's stress related I put everything to the back of my head and pain eases off.. 2 more days and moment of truth... no bleeding loads of cm and weird pulling sensation xx

Annny27 · 25/04/2021 08:08

@sweetbabydust1989 I had shoulder blade pain in my pregnancy and it was a normal pregnancy (ended in mc but that's nothing to do with the shoulder pain haha)

Your body is probably so anxious right now that your muscles are all tense and causing pain!

@27donfin @babyghirl we are tww buddies then. I am not sure yet if I have just ovulated or about to ovulate. Cd15 today so seems like the right couple of days. On cd12 she said I had a 17mm follicle which would release an egg in a few daya

Babyghirl · 25/04/2021 00:01

@sweetbabydust1989
I think you will be absolutely fine xx

🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕
Sweetbabydust1989 · 24/04/2021 22:44

@Babyghirl do you think I should be concerned about the pain in my shoulder blade and arm?? I hope little bean is ok I just can't relax until the scan still no pain anywhere else or bleeding that must be a good sign xx

Babyghirl · 24/04/2021 21:24

@sweetbabydust1989
Stretching pain is just ur urters growing hench why your getting the sore legs and bck cause your muscles have relaxed to accommodate the little bean xx

Babyghirl · 24/04/2021 21:10

@sweetbabydust1989
You will be fine there's more percent on it not happening again than happening again so the odds r in your favour. Xxx

Sweetbabydust1989 · 24/04/2021 20:52

@Babyghirl horrible isn't it... I am praying my little one is there I don't feel pregnant I feel weird... I remember my ectopic being very painful to the point I couldn't move and it hurting to pee... this feels different I did have an achy arm with my ectopic hence my sheer panic... but I never had upper thigh pain or what feels like stretching pain xx

Babyghirl · 24/04/2021 20:44

@sweetbabydust1989
And remember being emotional is down to ur pregnancy hormones so that's a symptom aswell the jiys lol xx

Babyghirl · 24/04/2021 20:42

@sweetbabydust1989
The bck pain and upper leg pain can just be muscle pain with your body stretching your muscles get lose and extra blood flowing around your body to I had the upper leg but it was like I done a day in the gym lol but because its so close to the urters the muscles will relax and ur bck pain is the muscles relax there to for your growing bean, but I knw how the anxiety kicks in and I can tell you to try and relax but I never did but I knw coming Tuesday everything is going to be where it should be. And you can start to enjoy being pregnant xxx

Babyghirl · 24/04/2021 20:27

@sweetbabydust1989
I had cin 1 bck to had them removed last Jan but only going for my check up nxt wed as it all got put on hold with covid was to go for my check up in Jan there but found out I was pregnant so could not get it so hoping everything is clear. 💚

Sweetbabydust1989 · 24/04/2021 20:26

@Babyghirl you keep me sane hun I love this tread there is no judgement at all and you're all a bunch of lovely ladies... I must admit I was one of those totally ignorant ladies I always said it would never happen to me and well it did and seeing how much heart break and stress you lovely ladies have been through ttc and to be so supportive even when you want to scream why me makes me realise how amazing you all are you have literally pulled me out of panic and into positivity and I do Thankyou all soz really emotional tonight... well the pain in my back has died down I think it's more when I don't use it... I really hope my bean is not in my tube... I have had some mild upper thigh pain.., would shoulder tip pain he constant?? Xx

Babyghirl · 24/04/2021 20:19

@slcxxx
I'm so ready for my rainbow nw, but us ladies will all get r happy ending soon 💚

Sweetbabydust1989 · 24/04/2021 20:16

@27DONFIN it's been a hard few months... I had cin 1 come back on my smear... was due to have surgery for something else found out I was pregnant 6 days before I was due to go in but it was ectopic that was all in the space of 3 months so now I am a little wreck I have no one to speak to about it because no one knows yet I decided not to tell the other half yet as I didn't want to worry him until we know what's happening xx

27DONFIN · 24/04/2021 19:28

@Sweetbabydust1989 it’s only natural after everything you’ve been through to be anxious. X

Babyghirl · 24/04/2021 19:26

@sweetbabydust1989
The pain by belly button I had its just baby implantationing further but try to stay calm until Tuesday tiredness is so normal I get that in my and and that aswell mine is carpel tunnel you can get it to in pregnancy read up on it xx

SLCxxx · 24/04/2021 19:25

@Babyghirl so happy for you, 🤞🏻 This is your lucky month but if not hopefully you get answers next month

Sweetbabydust1989 · 24/04/2021 19:19

@Babyghirl erm the pain in my upper back it's weird as it's my shoulder blade which travels down my arm my arm is achy and my fingers hurt and hand is cold... got some weird dull pain on my left side that comes and goes... had a weird pain just below my belly button when I stood up fast... feeling flushed with heavy eyes I have had no bleeding at all I am not sure if I am over thinking things I have serve anxiety xx

Babyghirl · 24/04/2021 19:14

@sweetbabydust1989
What makes you think that just try to relax if there is no pain and it feels different from last time all could be well in there it will be in ur head cause of the last one but remember new pregnancy new outcome xx

Sweetbabydust1989 · 24/04/2021 18:59

@Babyghirl I think I am having an ectopic xx

Babyghirl · 24/04/2021 18:48

@27DONFIN
Was a shock I phoned a while bck and they told me another 28 month waiting but from my last loss the doc has been pushing and pushing to get it sooner so must of worked 💚
@sweetbabydust1989
I get pain most months on either side also a lot of cm this month to so hoping and praying if I catch its a sticky one this time how u feeling x

27DONFIN · 24/04/2021 18:25

@Babyghirl that’s brilliant news

Sweetbabydust1989 · 24/04/2021 18:01

@Babyghirl woohoo good luck this month I am keeping fingers crossed xx

Babyghirl · 24/04/2021 17:47

Well also ovulation is happening or abot to I'm getting the pain on my right side dtd the deed yesterday and this morning then before I came to work I say I'm covered lol 💚