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🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

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ELM7 · 16/01/2021 18:53

On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

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kiwi17 · 09/04/2021 22:00

That's interesting @Annny27 but also frustrating- I was wondering if it was a progesterone thing but I've not had irregular periods or anything else symptomatic of low progesterone before so not sure. @Babyghirl yeah I tend to spot a bit at the end too... Hope this isn't going to drag on for ages 😢

27DONFIN · 09/04/2021 21:28

@Annny27 how are you? You started groping your boobs yet 😂 I’m proud iv only started it today usually it’s a good week before I’m due

27DONFIN · 09/04/2021 21:26

I didn’t realise how common spotting was till I came on here. It’s personally not something Iv ever experienced but you have all put my mind at ease if it was something that ever happened

Babyghirl · 09/04/2021 20:52

@kiwi17
I'm the other way round at start abit of blood that nite then it's there nxt morning but do spot for bot 3 days at the end x

Annny27 · 09/04/2021 20:28

@kiwi17 since my miscarriage (17 months ago.....) I spot for up to 5 days before even though before I didnt!!

kiwi17 · 09/04/2021 20:21

Still wallowing here... anyone else had 5 days of spotting before their first af after the mc? I normally spot a bit but this seems extreme.. and when I say spotting I mean literally a tiny bit in cm - nothing in my knickers or anything. Just fed up now esp after the bfn this morning and want af to hurry up.

Babyghirl · 09/04/2021 11:01

@27DONFIN
That's when it can surprise ya thou know people oh have said I only did it once but remember that's all it takes as long as it was around the right time 🙏🤞💚

27DONFIN · 09/04/2021 10:46

@Babyghirl thanks not holding out much hope we weren’t very active this month

Babyghirl · 09/04/2021 10:41

@kiwi17
Enjoy some you time and I'm so glad your doing what you have to for you don't be working to hard nw 😂😂😂😂😂
@27DONFIN
Keeping my fingers crossed she does not arrive for you 💚

27DONFIN · 09/04/2021 10:23

@Babyghirl yeah tomorrow going for the past few months x

kiwi17 · 09/04/2021 10:12

Thanks everyone :) you're all such a comfort even though it sucks to know we're all going through this :( going to have a nice hot shower whilst dh takes dd out for a walk with my pregnant friend and family - I have to stay home and do 'work' haha. Hope everyone has a better day!

Babyghirl · 09/04/2021 10:06

Just want to say thank you to you ladies this chat has helped me through this journey 💚 just know that we r all an amazing bunch of ladies for the journey we r going through is one of the toughest we will prop ever have to face in r life times, but know we will get through it in the end with r rainbow babies in r arms, also remember relax stop stressing enjoy life and time with the oh and it will happen when we least expect it ladies 🍀💚🍀💚

Babyghirl · 09/04/2021 09:57

@Annny27
She that much of a b###h she still teasing me lol but deffo on her way prop tonite she due on Sunday but deffo going to be early 😂😂😂😂 in work nw weekend of even thou I'm on a day's overtime on Sunday so a few drinks for me tonite I think lol 💚

Babyghirl · 09/04/2021 09:52

@kiwi17
Awww I'm sorry but girl we got this dust yourself of and chin up we r stronger than you think few wine tonite and get ready for this month 💚💚 xx

Babyghirl · 09/04/2021 09:50

@lozza2206
Is that the wee one with cancer if so my sister has been following her story was on the phone to me last night crying about it awful sad, 💚💚 good for you taking the relax approach this month thou now try that every month and just go with it as they say good things happen when you least expect it to xx

Annny27 · 09/04/2021 09:49

Morning all! Bfn for me this morning too, just wanted to see it so that I could mentally move on from this cycle haha!

@lozza2206 yep I saw last night on instagram ❤❤❤ bless her heart! Such a cruel world

@27donfin interesting! I have the b6 but hadn't started taking it yet - nearly out of my seven seas so will start taking on cd1

Soft boobs may be a sign!

@babyghirl did af arrive or still teasing?

@miscarriage39 I agree with babyghirl, they stress me out when I use them and I end up doing like 5 a day when I think I am ovulating haha!

@kiwi17 sorry it was BFN - sucks doesnt it 😭😭

MrsF111 · 09/04/2021 09:45

@kiwi17 really sorry to hear that. Its so difficult and unfair when it happens so easily for some and then we are finding ourselves in this situation.

I started reading it starts with the egg last night, it was really interesting and has made me feel really positive about some supplements I can try. Although I can see this costing me a fortune!!

Babyghirl · 09/04/2021 09:45

@27DONFIN
I'm sure just hope they nt storing them cause they delaying ur cycle on u hate taking things if it messes my cycle up lol so your period would be due tomorrow then x

27DONFIN · 09/04/2021 09:19

@Babyghirl il let you know if they affect mine. Last 3 months mines have been 26 days instead of 28. Iv not had my night sweats yet so if it’s storing them I’m loving it lol x

Babyghirl · 09/04/2021 09:12

@miscarriage39
First morning urine, using them I tend to think makes you time sex so takes the fun out of it and then stresses you out the whole tww lol just have sex every two to 3 days and you should be covered 💚
@27DONFIN
Nt started mine yet waiting to the witch shows her head hoping they don't maky my cycles longer thou as when I take b12 they make it longer, hoping different is a good sign for you keeping my fingers crossed 💚 @kiwi17
I got my 👀 on this thread 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 💚

kiwi17 · 09/04/2021 09:09

So it's a big fat massive negative for me :( so angry, disappointed and miserable. Fed up with this whole ttc and feel like it's ruining my marriage 😢 sorry today is just a ranty rubbish day! Plus I woke at 3am desperate for a wee but wouldn't let myself go so have been awake since 7am just lying here miserable after doing the test so now I've got a banging headache 😣 @Miscarriage39 fmu is first morning urine like you would use for a pg test.

lozza2206 · 09/04/2021 09:09

Morning girls 💕

I have been having a month of trying to live life and forget about TTC (very difficult).

I hope you're all doing well. Period due in a couple days for me.

Just wanted to check in and hear how you all were.

Has anyone read the news on little Azaylia Cain? My heartbreaks the world can be so cruel 💔🙏🏼 it did put things in perspective for me this morning reading it all and realising that we can all get through some heartbreaking stuff.

Love to you all xoxo

27DONFIN · 09/04/2021 08:58

@Annny27 @ELM7 snap ladies I’m CD 25. And I can’t be arsed with anything my eatting has been crap and I can’t be bothered exercising.

This is my first full month taking b6 and I don’t know if that’s affected my boobs as they aren’t swollen and are still squishy. Anyone else had this?

X

Miscarriage39 · 09/04/2021 08:30

Babyghirl thank-you. Maybe it’s wiser not to use them. I may see how we go and rethink it. Sorry if I’m being thick, but what does fmu stand for?

Babyghirl · 08/04/2021 21:30

@miscarriage39
And the test line has to be as dark or darker than the control line xx