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Ttc light bleeding since 4dpo and now 6dpo

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Munni2021 · 14/01/2021 16:52

Cycle #5 trying for baby #2. Has anyone experienced same of having spotting/light bleed at 4dpo and went onto have bfp

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Aims1991 · 21/01/2021 22:40

@Munni2021 we are only on third month so trying not to think to much into it. This will be my first month tracking ovulation as I had just been gauging it with my app with my cycles so let's see how it goes🤞🏼

Munni2021 · 21/01/2021 22:37

@Aims1991 same to you! Doing BD pretty much every other day too. Tried SMEP one month too. It just becomes mentally and physically exhausting. Feeling sorry for myself today, think its the hormones due to AF.

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Aims1991 · 21/01/2021 22:20

@Munni2021 yeah trying to stay positive but it's all I think about all day🙈 I'm just DTD every second day to every day in the hope something happens!
FX for you🤞🏼

Munni2021 · 21/01/2021 22:18

@Daffodil21 you deserve this happiness after your MCs. Keep smiling hun!

@Aims1991 just like you I feel what on earth is wrong with me. All we can do is close the chapter on this cycle and move onto next cycle. Easier said than done I guess but got to remain positive.

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Aims1991 · 21/01/2021 21:58

@Munni2021 I was the same this month, had so many symptoms, sore boobs, cramp, sore legs, headaches, bleeding gums and AF was 4 days late! Kept getting a BFN then AF arrived and it wasn't the same as normal, was lighter and didn't last as long. Tried another test as I know I'm some chances you can have AF is pregnant. But still on CD9 and I've still got all the symptoms from last month! God knows what's wrong with me but move on

Daffodil21 · 21/01/2021 21:40

@Munni2021 oh no I'm so sorry AF arrived. It really is disheartening month after month, especially when you've done everything 'right'. Hopefully next month will be your month!

I really really hope so, I can't even believe I'm entertaining the idea of getting to the second trimester to be honest!

Munni2021 · 21/01/2021 21:23

@Daffodil21 sadly the witch (AF) got to me today. I am upset, really thought this was my month with the symptoms I had.
I didn’t want to take test early to avoid being disappointed & upset if it was ever a chemical pregnancy.
Just gets disheartening when you do everything with opk sticks, bbt, supplements, timing of BD yet month after month its not a pregnancy.
I guess I have to focus on next cycle.
You’ll soon be into your second trimester and before you know it you will have your bundle of joy in your arms Smile

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Daffodil21 · 21/01/2021 10:36

@Munni2021 oh wow, Saturday?? You have wayyyy more patience than me! Sometimes I would test early because d let myself get carried away so I almost needed to take a test and see the stark white to reign myself in a bit!! Has AF arrived yet...? Hoping it doesn't!

Yes that's true, I've got my next scan booked in 2 week's time, which will hopefully be just over 12 weeks and into the second trimester. Can't actually believe I'm entertaining the idea of second trimester! Going to be a looong couple of weeks!

Munni2021 · 20/01/2021 22:12

@Daffodil21 just take each day as it comes and enjoy your pregnancy, try not to stress! You have gone alot further than previous pregnancies so that must account for something.
You are going to think I’m mad but if I’m going to be testing I will do on Saturday now. Last months AF I had light bleeding for 2/3 days then it became much heavier. I feel like its similar this month with the exception of spotting since ovulation.
So if no heavy flow by Saturday morning then I’ll be doing the test for sure (so another 3 days to wait aaaarrgghh)

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Daffodil21 · 20/01/2021 21:27

@Munni2021 thank you! I honestly can't believe it! Still a long way to go but everything is good for now at least.

So sorry to hear that, I still have everything crossed for that nothing but a second line appears for you tomorrow!

Munni2021 · 20/01/2021 09:37

@Daffodil21 so happy for you, that is wonderful news! PMA!!!
I’ve started to have light bleed since last night but I guess have to wait for full flow which Im sure will arrive either tomorrow or Friday the latest. I check my temp too and seems to be dipping now. Oh well onto next month.

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Daffodil21 · 20/01/2021 09:31

@Munni2021 all ok! Measuring as should, heart still going at a good speed and it's even wriggling around in there!

Fingers crossed for you tomorrow!

Daffodil21 · 19/01/2021 14:09

@Munni2021 I hope you're right! I'll let you know how it goes

Munni2021 · 19/01/2021 13:37

@Daffodil21 oops sorry forgot to add yr name on thread

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Munni2021 · 19/01/2021 13:36

Aww you will be fine, as for me being a strong woman with my patience, can’t get much stronger than you lady! You have been through heart wrenching MCs. I can’t even begin to imagine the emotional and physical pain you have endured. You are an inspiration you keep going.... they say things come in 3s, well look at it this way 3 MCs and now its actually happening, this is your time.
GL with tomorrow - keep yourself busy today. Im excited for you!!!!

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Daffodil21 · 19/01/2021 13:14

@Munni2021 Yeah, absolutely dreading it tbh. I cannot stand the thought of being in that room again and hearing bad news. I just can't do it for a fourth time.

I had up until 2 days before I tested positive at 10/11dpo so you're not out until you're out! You are a stronger woman than me not to have done an early test by now! Everything crossed for you still

Munni2021 · 19/01/2021 11:41

@Daffodil21 are you anxious about tomorrow? I think I may be out this month, due on Thursday and spotting a little since yesterday and have cramps.
Going to hang on till Thursday to test if AF not shown up. Feel so disappointed.

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Daffodil21 · 18/01/2021 15:09

@Munni2021 thank you. Fingers and toes crossed for you too - please do update!

Munni2021 · 18/01/2021 13:14

@Daffodil21 well I have my fingers & toes crossed for you and pray come Wednesday afternoon/evening you will be giving me a positive update about your scan and I can let you know if I got BFN or BFP, really hope its the latter but just get this niggling feeling I’m not pregnant :(

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Daffodil21 · 18/01/2021 12:23

@Munni2021 I hope so. I say they were 'good' scans but actually the reason I was having the scans was because I was bleeding, so even though they looked ok there was obviously something else going on.
Yeah, this will hopefully be baby #1. Started TTC over 2 years ago and here we are - didn't quite expect it to work out like this but hopefully this is the one

Munni2021 · 18/01/2021 12:12

@Daffodil21 oh that must be so heartbreaking when you have seen heartbeat and then suffer miscarriage (big hug). Lets hope this medication puts a positive spin on things.
Is this baby #1 for you?

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Daffodil21 · 18/01/2021 12:08

@Munni2021 I hope so. I've had 'good' scans before and seen heartbeats and things, so I just feel anything can change in a short space of time! Time will tell I suppose, I'm on various medication this time which I hope is doing its job!

Munni2021 · 18/01/2021 11:47

@Daffodil21 10 weeks thats great.... I’m sure this bean will stick around for sure.
(Sorry to hear about your losses)
Why are you dreading the next scan, your first scan was fine. Think positive Smile
Let me know how it goes.

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Daffodil21 · 18/01/2021 10:52

@Munni2021 sounds promising - I had that stabbing pain with all of my pregnancies. You have way more patience than me!

I'm (hopefully) 10 weeks today. Bit of an odd situation though - this is my 4th pregnancy following 3 MCs. I've never made it this far before though so hoping we can go all the way this time. I had a scan a week ago which showed everything was fine, and have another on Wednesday morning which I am absolutely dreading

Munni2021 · 18/01/2021 10:17

Hi Daffodil21...... not tested yet I’m holding out till this Wed/Thur when I’m actually due on.
However yesterday at 11dpo I had sharp stabbing pain near my right ovary, only seem to last a few minutes not sure what that can be????
I don’t have early pregnancy test at home, only one that you use on day of missed period.
Will keep you posted though, fx
How far are you with your pregnancy?

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