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When did you get your BFP?

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TheBeesKnee · 14/01/2021 14:22

I'm losing my mind.

Usually my cycles are 27-29 days. The longest I've had in the last 12 months (according to my app) was 34 days and that was a one-off.

Today is CD36. I had a BFN on CD32 and last night, which I know was silly of me to not use FMU. No more tests in the house, I've ordered more but they'll arrive late tonight or tomorrow.

I guess I'm trying to cling on to some hope, so I'd love to hear how long your cycles were and on which day you tested positive? Or if you got a BFP after a BFN and how many days there were in between?

I have absolutely no symptoms, not even PMS. I was too hot a couple of nights ago, but that is probably just from too many blankets.

If I'm not pregnant then I just want to get AF out of the way, but the uncertainty is driving me crazy.

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TheBeesKnee · 18/01/2021 12:24

I'm going to email my GP clinic and request a blood test and a referral. I feel bloody ridiculous. There's a pandemic and I'm fussing over a missed period.

Sod's law says that AF will turn up as soon as I click send Sad

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TheBeesKnee · 16/01/2021 12:30

Another BFN this morning. I give up.

I spent all morning in bed, reading up about what could be going on - naturally it's either twins, the menopause, or cancer Hmm

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TheBeesKnee · 15/01/2021 13:57

beggingforsleep

Never had anything like this, I'm so confused and annoyed!

Jurassiclover

Bloody hell! Congratulations though Flowers

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Jurassiclover · 15/01/2021 12:59

I got my BFP on CD70 but my cycles are so so irregular that I don't think my story is anything to go by haha. I hope you get the result you want soon though!!

beggingforsleep · 15/01/2021 12:52

Oh I'm sorry. It's all so confusing isn't it. Has this happened before?

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TheBeesKnee · 15/01/2021 12:10

So, today is CD37 and I got a load of EWCM this morning. Can't find any useful information online as to why this is happening.

I saved my pee from yesterday morning and tested when the FRER arrived in the evening Blush it was a BFN, naturally.

I feel like my body is pranking me. Last night a had cramps and brain fog and was convinced that I would get my period overnight & I even dreamed that I woke up to blood on the sheets Confused

I've kind of lost my appetite, but this might be because I started intermitted fasting and my body is adjusting to eating in a 9 hour window?

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TheBeesKnee · 14/01/2021 17:05

beggingforsleep

Thanks, appreciate your response. I've not seen the thread, what was it called?

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beggingforsleep · 14/01/2021 15:15

I just replied to a similar post... I have long cycles - 30 days. With my first I tested at CD29 and got a negative and thought that was it. Then almost a week later I realised I still hadn't had my period and retested and got my BFP. That was CD35.

Best of luck. I hope you get the result you want x