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TWW - let’s keep each other sane!

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Dex1521 · 12/01/2021 08:00

Officially in the tww after a temp spike yesterday morning and this morning. I’m around 2dpo today, we are onto cycle 4 of ttc baby no 1 which isn’t a long time really but feels like a lifetime. Really hoping this is my month 🤞✨

Usually I go mad googling symptoms and driving myself crazy during the whole wait only for AF to show each month so thought I’d change it up and make a wee thread for people also in the tww. We can all keep each other sane!! Feel free to join everyone is welcome!

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Ifonly86 · 14/01/2021 12:08

Thanks for replies ladies, we only dtd on 6th as dp went away for work for a week. I put the temps into ff and it’s showing I’m 4dpo. If that’s right then we dtd 4 days before ovulation so I’m still in with a slight chance right? This is the second month of properly ttc but unprotected for 3 months before that. I have pcos so I don’t ovulate every month.

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ree348 · 14/01/2021 11:49

@Nellieee I know what you mean, it seems like everyday is Groundhog Day esp when coupling it with home schooling!

I never really had nausea with my children, but am watching out for all symptoms. I am 3 DPO I don't expect to 'spot' any till at least another 7 days.

How many days DPO are you? Any symptoms ?

Nellieee · 14/01/2021 11:30

Also wfh. I'm so over it now. Used to enjoy it pre-lockdown.

@Ifonly86 I'd say you probably ovulated on Tuesday. Usually you ovulate within 12-36 hours of positive OPK. Did you dtd the Wednesday after trust O? Any times before? I know it can be hard seeing a negative, when you hear yourself up that this is it.

@Dex1521 jealous of your snow!! We've not had any since the first week of Jan.

@stillfeelingmad 7/8 dpo is prime implantation time. Fingers crossed. Have you decided when you'll test?

@ree348 spikes in progesterone can make you feel a little queasy for sure! I do often think I'm imagining feeling sick though (not saying you are!!)

ree348 · 14/01/2021 10:58

It's so easy to over read our 'symptoms' isn't it...this morning I woke up feeling a little sick and then told myself there's no way I would have pregnancy symptoms 2 DPO Smile

This is going to be a long wait....

stillfeelingmad · 14/01/2021 10:50

It's snowing here too in West Yorkshire! I'm feeling super tired and queasy today but only 7/8dpo so probably too early for symptoms. Waiting until the weekend to test

Dex1521 · 14/01/2021 10:49

@Ifonly86 I'm no expert lol but it's looks promising! You're temps are still high. I presume you take your temp at the same time each day before getting up? It does look like you ovulated around CD11 too so you look be around 10dpo

Also when is your AF due? Usually BBT drops when it's on its way but if it stays high could mean pregnancy. How long have you been trying? I'm only cycle 4 and know what you mean about the BFNs being so disheartening

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Dex1521 · 14/01/2021 10:45

@Grace185 it's so annoying I've so much to do and just cba it's all just spreadsheets and huge figures 🙄 Oo I'm way up in the north east in Darlington. It's between Newcastle and Middlesbrough if you haven't heard of it lol. I'm originally from Northern Ireland though and living on the coast I never had snow but since moving here we've had loads each winter, especially this winter 😂

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coffee1988 · 14/01/2021 10:44

@Dex1521 yes me! No drive whatsoever today. Just staring at the rain and procrastinating!

Ifonly86 · 14/01/2021 10:43

Hello everyone are there any bbt experts here? It’s the first month I have charted so I’m not sure if mine looks promising. I’m assuming I ovulated between sun-mon? But we only dtd on the wed so chances are unlikely. Getting so disheartened with bfn every month.

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Grace185 · 14/01/2021 10:41

@Dex1521 me! My January motivation is at an all time low! Snow, wow! Where are you in the uk? I’m in Bristol and it’s just raining!

Dex1521 · 14/01/2021 10:39

Anyone else working from home and just can't be bothered today 😂 there's about 3inches of snow here and still falling it it's making me tired for some reason 😂

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Dex1521 · 14/01/2021 10:19

@Nellieee I'm going to test on the 20th which is next Wednesday that's 10dpo for me, AF due the 24th. Also after some googling I've settled that I am 4dpo and I think my rogue temp on CD11 threw FF off track as my temp dipped and spiked like it should've which would put me at 4dpo

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Nellieee · 14/01/2021 10:15

@Dex1521 good idea! Think that's the Saturday? I think I have two frer tests, and possibly two cheapie own brands from boots. I've heard the boots ones aren't great though.

@coffee1988 I think any symptoms you have early on (ie before implantation around 7dpo five or take) would be due to higher levels of progesterone in the body. The reality is, many mimic early pregnancy symptoms. Some people say they had zero symptoms when they got pregnant though. Everyone is different!! I've had sore boobs/nips since O.

Eaststreet · 14/01/2021 09:37

@coffee1988 I had back pain which I thought meant something, but I actually think it was from DTD so often Blush as now that has fizzled out it’s gone away. I’ve had a few really mild cramps but nothing out of the ordinary. I’m only 5DPO.

Dex1521 · 14/01/2021 09:32

@Nellieee yeah at least it's only a day out. I'm gonna hold off until 10dpo to test so that'll now be 11dpo seeing as I'm repeating 3dpo 😂

@coffee1988 my boobs are a bit sore like my nipples to touch but again don't know if I'm imagining it as I'm only 3/4dpo

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coffee1988 · 14/01/2021 09:24

question for you all, does anyone have any symptoms!? I have literally nothing, never felt so damn normal. But only 6/7 dpo so maybe I wouldn't!? First time ttc so no previous experience on this!

Nellieee · 14/01/2021 09:12

@Dex1521 that below message was for you 🙈

@Grace185 ah I totally get what you mean. I thought I was onto a winner with another temp rise the day before af. Was only on the day when it dropped. Grr. Fingers crossed!!

Nellieee · 14/01/2021 09:11

Ooh that is weird, but looking at your chart, I'd say it looks correct now. There's usually a slight dip the day before your peak/O.

Not quite the same, but I got crosshairs on CD12, then they disappeared after other signs were entered on FF (inc peak OPK). Disappeared altogether and then reappeared this morning thank god after another temp rise. I'd stick with the readjusted dpo for tracking.

Grace185 · 14/01/2021 08:41

@Nellieee yeah I’ll be either 1 1/2 weeks or 1/2 a week late. I’m hoping that it will give a definite answer. I think I’d rather af come than see a negative but I might give in the weekend before! We’ll see :)

Dex1521 · 14/01/2021 06:51

@Nellieee honestly it's so strange. So took my temp this morning and it's still going up but FF has changed my ovulation from CD14 to Cd15 putting everything back a day. Kind of annoying as this is my second day at 3dpo. Weird that the app would push it back a day must of been that stronger OPK was right in the end but having the temp rise on CD15 lead me to believe I ovulated at CD14. Had this ever happened to anyone else?

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Nellieee · 13/01/2021 23:27

@Dex1521 sorry Dex! I totally missed your message 🙈 great looking chart to be fair. Nice temp shift. It's great when the crosshairs show isn't it. We'll all be testing around similar times 🍀🤞

I keep doing manual overrides today to second guess testing dates etc. Fingers crossed, should get them tomorrow. I was thrown off earlier in the month at CD 12 when I got crosshairs due to three very small (and random) temp increases. Sulked all of Sunday and google self diagnosed early onset menopause. Luckily I had done a line OPK the night before that was high but not peak. Did a CB dual hormone OPK Sunday night and it was peak! Thank god. So crosshairs vamooshed. It's such a big learning curve isn't it?!

Nellieee · 13/01/2021 23:22

@33Carr I did think that about the weekend too! We'll be testing around the same time then!! This is only my second cycle off the pill, but last month my temp shot up day before AF so I got my hopes up, then spotting started the following day. Grr.

@Grace185 would you be almost a week and a half late by the end of the month?! Well if AF hasn't shown by then, you'll be looking great!

Grace185 · 13/01/2021 21:33

@Nellieee I haven’t had the willpower yet haha. I think I’ll cave before or af arrives. Just want to give it a chance as I think the poas and the three minute wait to be met with a bfn will be hard so I’d rather wait for af tbh! But might give in!

Only had one cycle off the pill which was 30d but used to have longer ones.

stillfeelingmad · 13/01/2021 20:57

Probably only about 6dpo according to clue but symptom spotting like crazy Smile mild cramps and bloated to high heaven tonight

AnyTimeSoon · 13/01/2021 20:29

Thank you Dex . I just don't want to get my hopes up too soon. My ds (4yo) was conceived using IUI, we were lucky on the first try after 2 years of trying on our own. My next 2 losses, I fell pregnant first try but the problems arose after.