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My fertility journey & now starting Clomid - Any advice or experience?

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Crazydoglady123 · 08/01/2021 13:43

I have a child who is 9 and fell pregnant easily. A year or so after I was diagnosed with PCOS after a scan. I suffered with an eating disorder and my periods stopped for 6 months. I then went onto various contraceptives (pill, depo) as my circumstances changed. I then tried the Mirena coil and everything seemed great on it till it disappeared and at the same time I started being in lots of pain so had a pelvic scan (to locate coil) and discovered I had a 6cm ovarian cyst which a few days later I ended up heavily bleeding so was admitted to hospital and had cyst removed. The consultant also removed my coil and upon waking from surgery told me that it'd started to embed in my uterus and it was that which caused the bleeding and pain.

Fast forward to more recent, I'd been on the depo again since (no probs). I stopped it two years ago to TTC with my partner (not my Childs dad) and finding it really, really difficult to conceive :( He has had two sperm evaluations as the first was low but the second was much higher (although slightly low morphology) but the doctors seem to be fine with him now and back looking at me. I've tried ovulation tests (which always showed a surge), I've had a Hycosy which everything was fine and just finished 3 cycles of Letrozole which was a high dose. My 21 day blood test showed my progesterone at 23 and it apparently needs to be over 30 to have ovulated. I'm not due to start tonight Clomiphene. He's prescribed me 100mg a day (day 2-6) so from what I've read again is another decent/high dose but I didn't get to speak to him properly and feel a bit anxious as hear lots of lovely side effects with these! Is it true they're better taken at night? Also online I read that there's a 10% chance of developing an ovarian cyst with these so I'm not sure if I should try and book a private scan after the first cycle to make sure I haven't got one again? I have two rounds of this then another blood test. If I ovulate on it then I'm allowed another 4 goes, if not on the sheet he gave me it said Gondatropins may tried after or keyhole surgery to make holes in my ovaries... Any experience or advice greatly appreciated!

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Crazydoglady123 · 07/02/2021 10:11

@Suki2020 the frustrating TWW for you now then 🤗
I'm CD32 and still no sign of AF. I haven't tested since Friday. May do one tomorrow but I think I may just leave it till midweek. If it's another BFN I just end up feeling so down about it

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Suki2020 · 07/02/2021 10:04

@Crazydoglady123 CD22, also my temp has risen last couple of days so just a waiting game now. How are you feeling? Still no sign of AF or BFP?

Crazydoglady123 · 07/02/2021 09:56

@Suki2020 ah that's promising then! What CD are you now?

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Suki2020 · 07/02/2021 09:51

@Crazydoglady123 my cycles vary from 40-75+days so this one should take me to 32-33days. I’m pretty sure I ovulated day 19/20 has I had cramps on my left side and I’ve never felt ovulation cramps before.

Crazydoglady123 · 07/02/2021 09:42

How are you doing @HT1507?

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Crazydoglady123 · 07/02/2021 09:42

Morning @Suki2020 That's good! I was reading though the other day that OPK don't always work with Clomid so maybe you possibly ovulated earlier? How long are your cycles again normally?

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Suki2020 · 07/02/2021 09:35

Hi ladies how are you all doing? So ovulation has now happened for me according to my temp chart and OPK’s. So just a waiting game now although I’m not feeling very confident about this cycle.

Crazydoglady123 · 06/02/2021 23:06

@Ronnii forgot to say it's a finger prick one but the idea of it makes me queasy so not sure if I want to do it yet

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Crazydoglady123 · 06/02/2021 22:56

What did you cook @Ronnii? My OH moans about my cooking all of the time 🤣 I'm still super bloated so my dinner was bran flakes and raisins 😕 Still no sign of AF either. How are you doing?

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Ronnii · 06/02/2021 22:34

Hope weekends are going okay. My OH wouldn't eat my food tonight so I've had a healthy meal while he ordered kebab. I hate the pcos diet but I'm impressed I resisted lol

@Crazydoglady123 that test looks interesting..would you have to take blood yourself? I'm too squeamish lol.

Crazydoglady123 · 05/02/2021 18:46

@HT1507 no it doesn't 😕

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HT1507 · 05/02/2021 17:32

@Crazydoglady123 it’s pants that you’re still having to play the waiting game! Does it say how sensitive it is to HCG?

Crazydoglady123 · 05/02/2021 13:48

I feel like I went a bit next level crazy yesterday 🙄 I ordered this pregnancy blood test kit online as I've felt so confused what's going on atm but I don't know if I want to do it or not or save it. I don't actually know if it's more sensitive to a FRER or what either. I've got lots of CM again. I can't go a full nights sleep without waking needing a wee which is so unlike me and I still have the burps 🤣 I just don't know what's cycle related or cyst related anymore

My fertility journey & now starting Clomid - Any advice or experience?
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Crazydoglady123 · 05/02/2021 13:14

@Suki2020 I'd DTD tonight just in case 😂

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Crazydoglady123 · 05/02/2021 13:13

@HT1507 I honestly wouldn't worry! I once had a girl work for me who went through her whole pregnancy not knowing she's pregnant until she went into labour! She was out partying and drinking the whole time and her baby was fine. I bet your excited for your scan!

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Suki2020 · 05/02/2021 11:29

@HT1507 yeah I’d say the aspirin is ok as your past implantation and I’ve heard it’s good before ovulation too. Fingers crossed this one is a sticky bean for you. That’s good that they are giving you an early scan, 12 weeks seems like such a long wait

HT1507 · 05/02/2021 11:20

@Suki2020 maybe DTD again tonight .. there may be a chance of an egg still being there!

I’m doing ok thanks. I did a Clearblue digital test on Wednesday that shows 2-3 weeks, which is what it should be, so that’s put my mind at rest a little. Will do another next week .. will be comforting to hopefully see 3+ weeks. I spoke with my consultant on Wednesday and he’s arranged an early scan for 17th.

I’ve been worrying myself over the fact I was taking low dose Aspirin before conception. I decided to take it because I had read that it increases blood flow to the uterus, can aid in fertility and reduce risk of miscarriage, but in the last week or so I’ve seen information about it potentially having a negative impact on implantation Confused I’ve also seen information saying it’s good for implantation .. so much contradictory information around! I’ve seen forum posts from women saying they were advised to take it from when they get a BFP, and I was taking it before that stage.

I’m just trying to make the best decisions with the information I can find, like all pregnant women I imagine, but then I worry when I see anything that contradicts the information I based my decision on. When I spoke with my consultant and told him I’ve conceived, he suggested low dose Aspirin anyway, so I’d have started taking it now if I wasn’t already on it. I’m past implantation so I need to stop getting wound up by it .. easier said than done! Hopefully everything progresses the way it should Smile

Suki2020 · 05/02/2021 10:58

@Ronnii thanks, yeah will try tonight, just need to snap myself out of this mood before OH gets home from work tonight

Ronnii · 05/02/2021 10:51

@Suki2020 I think it's still worth dtd tonight. And it's possible to work from Tuesday too 👌

Suki2020 · 05/02/2021 10:24

@HT1507 we dtd Tuesday night, and yesterday but he didn’t ejaculate yesterday. We could try again tonight. I’m not cramping anymore so I think it’s already happened 😩 it’s so difficult as I don’t normally get any symptoms other than EWCM, so it’s all new this cycle. I feel really moody today too which doesn’t help. How are you doing?

Ronnii · 05/02/2021 10:20

@HT1507 it is prescribed but the consultant just wrote a letter to GP and GP prescribed it. So I've mainly dealt with GP. The consultant didn't give me a 'call me if you need me' vibe but more of a 'see you in 8 months' vibe.

HT1507 · 05/02/2021 10:11

@Suki2020 have you DTD in the days leading up to your positive OPK? You might not actually ovulate for up to 36 hours after the positive result, and the egg can be fertile for around 12 hours after that .. you may not be out yet! We DTD the day before and the day after I had a positive OPK and I’m now pregnant .. can you DTD tonight?

@Ronnii I didn’t know you could get Clomid without it being prescribed by a specialist .. another school day for me lol

Ronnii · 05/02/2021 09:28

@Suki2020 or when he couldn't cos of toothache in the past. So now I'm like his mother making sure he brushes his teeth. Frustrating

Ronnii · 05/02/2021 09:20

@Suki2020 good news about ovulation. I feel for you about OH. Mine sometimes gets stressed and sometimes have to dip into a bit of role play so he's not thinking so serious. I still have a hard time sympathising with him too much tho lol

Ronnii · 05/02/2021 09:17

I got the pills I could up it myself lol.

Gp is closed for corona jabs today so will try monday. I am fond on one gp who will discuss things with me so hopefully she's in.

I haven't spoken direct to specialist apart from consultation nothing booked with them atm

Dreamed last night of having triplets 😂
I was sure with all this back pain it was gonna be egg mania.