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ICSI Treatment

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Furmummy · 06/01/2021 13:52

Hi there, starting treatment in next few months after 3 1/2 years of trying naturally. Anyone else starting IVF/ICSI in next few months? I have very low AMH so odds are very low x

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Hansoo · 07/07/2021 06:53

Hi. New to ivf system. Our consultant has said on our zoom call that we should do icsi due to husbands low sperm count. We have a nurses appointment in July. I figure we may start meds in August as when booking she asked me when my August period would be.
Just been reading this board to see all of your amazing life stories

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Furmummy · 05/05/2021 20:41

Hi there

Sorry to you both I haven’t been in touch ... had a pretty low week and half, trying to come out the other end now.

@Mrs32 I am sorry I didn’t reply I have been in a total blur, how are you feeling? I hope all went well for you xxx

@Janefx40 How are you doing? Have you made plans for another cycle? I am focusing on loosing some weight and then will look towards the end of the summer. On the plus side trying to get ready for going back to work so have a focus xxx

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Janefx40 · 03/05/2021 23:38

Hi to you both. Sorry I've not checked in for a while.

@Furmummy really hope you are ok. Always here if you want to talk

@Mrs32 hope things have gone well for you and that you are doing ok too

Xxx

Mrs32 · 25/04/2021 00:22

@furmummy im so sorry to hear that, its just so devastating to have msde it this far & now you get this sad news.
Its all just so worrying, i cant see how any of us stays sane through it all. Its s huge shock to you & your husband so you're going tl be extra emotional, don't be so tough on yourself for snapping, it happens. Im sure your husband understands why youre so upset & sometimes we take it out on our husbands bec they are here & you know its all forgiven between you both.
I honestly hope & pray everything starts to get better & youre given amazing happy moments to come in the near future hunni.

Im sorry ive been a little absent, i was full of cold & cough since transfer. I've been quite moody & hormones have been a bit everywhere.

I sincerely pray we all get the happiness we all want so desperately very soon ladies xXx

Thinking of you both @janefx40 & @furmummy x

Janefx40 · 24/04/2021 00:36

@Mrs32 hope you're doing ok. I know the last few days of the 2WW can be really tough so just to let you know I am thinking of you xxx

Janefx40 · 24/04/2021 00:35

@Furmummy ❤️❤️❤️

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Furmummy · 23/04/2021 19:31

Thank you for your support that’s really kind and good advice. So sorry you have also been through it ... I will be pleased when Monday is out the way and a plan has been made ...
We have decided to hold off till after the summer to do another round as from finding out our odds to this it’s been an intense 4 months. I feel terrible as just snapped and been awful to husband and he is so upset too .. it’s just a shock.
I will still keep an eye on this thread as would love to hear about your journeys and will be thinking of you xxx

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Janefx40 · 23/04/2021 19:10

@Furmummy I'm so sorry to hear this. I have been in a similar position and know how devastating it is. There are just no words that can make this better I know. Talk to us as much as you want. You can send me a DM if you want but no pressure if you want to just disappear for a while.

I called the miscarriage association a lot when I was going through my miscarriage. They just provide a sympathetic ear which was what I needed. There is also a FB group that is very supportive if that is your kind of thing.

Sending you so much love x x

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Furmummy · 23/04/2021 16:44

Sadly my news is not so good.. it’s stopped growing so nothing much to see on the scan. I have been referred to EPAU to look into management next week xxx

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Furmummy · 20/04/2021 13:34

@Janefx40 yes I think it’s important to have someone your comfortable with. Also I think when your paying for it your entitled to choice

@Mrs32 oh gosh thats gone so quickly - sorry I didn’t ask before now .. I have been totally self absorbed with anxiety 🤦‍♀️😂 the tww wait is horrendous ... and I also found the progesterone made me moody ...it starts to settle down but I felt horrible in that period .. I have everything crossed for you xxxx

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Mrs32 · 20/04/2021 12:35

Hey ladies

@furmummy keep us posted on how your scan goes, praying little one is growing heathy and all is well.

@janefx40 you definitely need to have a Dr who you can be open with and who understands you and is doing everything to help, i hope you can get the Dr changed to make things easier for you. Theres nothing worse than having dealings with a Dr you feel isnt doing everything or is not so helpful.

I have my collection on Monday and transfer was Wednesday 14th.
Got a call yday to say the other embryo we had in the lad wasnt making much progress unfortunately which is quite sad to hear.
I am feeling a bit mixed, hopefthen concerned it hasnt worked and my moods a little everywhere, the progesterone pessaries are making me a little moody, happy, upset so ive not been on for a while.

My test date is 28th April but AF is due 26th so lets see what happens.

Hoping youre both well and in as good spirits as can be theough the stresses of TTC and early pregnancy xXx

Janefx40 · 19/04/2021 09:38

@Furmummy it's totally natural to freak about and worry. This is a very stressful way to become pregnant and the fear of loss can be overwhelming. I'm glad you feel calmer this week. Not long to wait now until Friday

I have a follow up consultation booked for 30th but I'm a bit unsure what to do as it's with a Dr I find really unhelpful. Think I will ask for someone else but not sure how to word it. Apparently they will call tomorrow too so will find out then about whether or not to start taking DHEA etc again

@Mrs32 hope you're ok.

Xxx

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Furmummy · 19/04/2021 09:00

How’s everyone doing? Did you have your transfer Mrs32?

@Janefx40 have you started making plans for your next round?

My scan is now on Friday .. I had stupid freak out last week and spoke to the clinic and they scanned me early but couldn’t see enough to verify anything so am back Friday now. It was only 5 1/2 weeks so it’s no wonder .. much more relaxed this week tho x

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Furmummy · 14/04/2021 15:31

@Janefx40 I promise I won’t test again!!! My husband is away at the moment and didn’t dare tell him last night so been silently worrying to myself ... so definitely a huge relief! X no more tests I promise xxx

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Janefx40 · 14/04/2021 15:17

@Furmummy seriously though that's great. Hope you are feeling a bit happier? X

Janefx40 · 14/04/2021 15:16

@Furmummy great! But stop testing!!!!

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Furmummy · 14/04/2021 15:13

It’s gone to 2-3 weeks phew!!! X

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Mrs32 · 13/04/2021 20:36

@furmummy thats so confusing urgh stupid tests

Ive also made some companies richer with the amount ive been through on this journey.
Its tough to stop testing but it sometimes help keep me sane LOL

Keep us posted x

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Furmummy · 13/04/2021 20:19

Yep I am definitely going to step away .. I have spent a small fortune on pregnancy tests 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Yes your right about symptoms - I need to just switch off till Tuesday ..

Haha no probs - the super follicle I call it 😂 xxx

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Janefx40 · 13/04/2021 20:12

@Furmummy yes step away from the tests. I'm never convinced by symptoms either. I think they come and go anyway. I freaked out with DD because I didn't have swollen or sore boobs - I never got them at all even though my boobs usually swell up before a period. Pregnancy is weird - symptoms mean nothing.

Sorry I got your story a bit wrong! 2 embryos but from 1 follicle!!

Xxx

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Furmummy · 13/04/2021 20:05

@Mrs32 that is great news having 2 embryos ... I only had 1 follicle. Which had 3 eggs and 2 fertilised and transferred .. it only takes one!

@Janefx40 glad your feeling a bit more positive today - also it’s good having a plan, gives you a focus ...

I am having mini freak out today as stupidly retested using clear blue digital which showed 1-2 weeks .. this is what it showed 13 days ago ... so annoyed at myself for testing .. know there are many mixed reviews on them so hoping it’s the inaccuracy of the tests .. just feel a bit odd today .. my symptoms have gone and think I have just freaked myself out .. trying to put it to the back of my mind till Tuesday 🤦‍♀️ Xx

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Mrs32 · 13/04/2021 14:59

@janefx40 i appreciate your advice and support. I will definitely look at how much i drink bec i need to wee a lot LOL dont want to wee on the Dr

You have a great attitude and i love how you are looking tonthe future and your next cycle.

The news has settled now and i am feeling hopeful for our 2 embabies, waiting for a call from embryologist later today as i want another update to make sure they are both doing well. Im looking forward to having 1 inside me which will give the embryo the best possible chance.

Thanks for your support girls x

Janefx40 · 13/04/2021 13:13

I got my negative blood test as expected. Was really relieved as didn't want a chemical which delays everything and means more drugs, tests and general faff. Yesterday afternoon I was a bit sad but woke up today feeling more positive and glad it's over in a way. Next cycle can start in about 6 weeks or whenever I get my period so just a brief window to relax before we go again.

Xxx

Janefx40 · 13/04/2021 13:11

Hi @Mrs32 I'm so sorry you feel upset but remember who you are sharing a thread with!! As I'm sure she'll say herself @Furmummy had 1 embryo!!! And is pregnant. You only need one and you may even end up with another one frozen for future. I do understand tho as IVF always feels like a numbers game.

Fingers crossed for Wednesday. Transfer is fine and painless. Don't drink too much water - your bladder doesn't need to be as full as they say and it's awful needing the loo when you're trying to relax.

Be nice to yourself today and once you are digested the new situation, focus your energy on those two lovely embryos.

Lots of love to you xxx

Mrs32 · 13/04/2021 10:52

So an update gitls
I had 13 eggs-only 6 mature embryologist was surprised at that low number and again of the 6 only 2 fertilised dhich is lower than expected.
I had egg retrieval Monday and she said transfer is Wednesday - only putting 1 back as im 35.
Im a little heart broken if im honest as i was hoping for more embryos, a super emotional day today- glad i took the week off work

Hope youre both well x