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First Fertility Clinic Appointment Tomorrow

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dogmam · 04/01/2021 18:07

Me and my partner have our first appointment with our fertility clinic tomorrow!

We went to the GP after a year of TTC and after 21 day bloods and partners SA, we were referred straight away to the fertility clinic. GP tests were in October/November so it's moved along quite quickly so far.

Feeling slightly nervous but also excited to hopefully get some help! My partners SA showed low motility and morphology so I assume that will be discussed..
What else should i expect from this first appointment? Is there anything I should be asking?

Thanks in advance! I'll update this after the appointment tomorrow as I know there are a few others on here who are in a similar position and might find it useful.

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PurpleUnicorn01 · 21/08/2021 13:47

@nursejo19 my husband to the pregnacare mens conception vitamins and bulk testo boost, i also added in maca root extract x

nursejo19 · 21/08/2021 13:15

Thanks for everyone's help.
I rang the doctors the other day and they're sending me for some bloods that are due before my period. I've asked my Husband to also ring doctors, would they do a sperm analysis? Bloods?
What are some suggested vitamins for my husband to take? I'm taking the seven seas one.

dogmam · 29/06/2021 15:30

New thread to continue the chat!

I'm going to catch up and reply on there, I also need to update you on my appointment today!

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/4283803-Fertility-Clinic-Appointments-and-Beyond?watched=1

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Tillybabs · 29/06/2021 12:04

@Juno231 no she was adamant it's a baseline scan. I even called her back to double check.

I had some bloods taken at the start and so asked her to double check if my amh level was taken then and she said it wasn't.

I know my other results came back normal apart from my prolactin that was slightly high. So I had to have that again at a different time of day and it came back normal.

@Kay00 maybe but I know ivf on the nhs is dependant on egg reserves so I'm surprised they didn't do that first.

Kay00 · 29/06/2021 11:50

@Tillybabs

I guess that's why they're asking for it. I remember from my first meeting at the fertility clinic the consultant said that as my FSH and testosterone levels were normal that it was very unlikely I had PCOS (plus my BMI is normal etc etc), and that she wasn't going to offer me the AMH, but asked if I wanted it (I said yes because I would be forever wondering otherwise). And then my AMH was through the roof and my ovaries enlarged and poly cystic on the scan. So I must be an unusual case.

Perhaps the AMH wasn't offered to you yet as your consultant is sure that you don't have PCOS or low reserves?

Juno231 · 29/06/2021 11:49

@Tillybabs is it possible it's just an ultrasound to see what things look like in there normally - and her use of "baseline" is a bit misleading? And yeah NHS will only treat you if you have a minimum AMH level I think. Plus if it's low they'll expedite the IVF route.

Tillybabs · 29/06/2021 11:41

@Kay00

I haven't yet no. I guess I have to wait for my follow up appointment for that or if they write or call me up before then.

I'm going to get the blood test done tomorrow and then see what that result says and then book my baseline scan when I have my next period.

I'm assuming though that they would only start that process if my amh is in a good range?

I'm so confused lol

Kay00 · 29/06/2021 11:36

Did you letter give any further information about what the results of your HyCoSy were?

Kay00 · 29/06/2021 11:35

@Tillybabs that does all sound pretty confusing. I had my AMH done on a random day where I walked into the hospital to do it.

Tillybabs · 29/06/2021 10:44

@Juno231 it's all a tad disorganised tbh

I had a letter about my Hycosy and had that on Sunday. I thought I would call today to see what the next stage is.

The receptionist then informed me my next follow up appointment is on August but then asked if I have any more tests to do. I mentioned the amh and she said I can just go any time to the hospital to get that done. But she said she would check what other tests im waiting for.

When she checked, she mentioned I'm on the list for the baseline scan and that I need to book that in on my next period and to do the amh on day 2-5 of my next period.

But looking online, the amh can be done any time so I'm going to walk in this week to get that done.

Juno231 · 29/06/2021 10:36

@Tillybabs i'd say go for it - like you said it's not meant to make a difference. The only thing would be if they've actually booked you in for more than just AMH and that those bits were cycle sensitive?

Tillybabs · 29/06/2021 10:34

Ive just read that the AMH can be done at any time of the month. The receptionist told me to do it during my next cycle.

But I can walk into the hospital any time to have the blood test so I'm just going to do that this week.

What do you think?

Tillybabs · 29/06/2021 10:30

@PurpleUnicorn01 thanks I will see if I can get that done sooner privately

@Juno231 having looked up what a baseline scan is, I thought the same!

Very odd that I haven't had the amh test already.

PurpleUnicorn01 · 29/06/2021 10:27

@Tillybabs i had my amh done privately and a pelvic scan came to around £200 in total but it sped things up so was worth it.

Juno231 · 29/06/2021 10:12

@Tillybabs as in your IVF baseline scan? seems odd to be doing an amh test this late in the process in that case!

Tillybabs · 29/06/2021 10:05

Morning ladies

So I just spoke to the fertility clinic and wasn't sure what I needed to do next. It turns out I have to wait for my next period and book the amh blood test and also book in my baseline scan.

I don't know what the baseline scan is so will look that up.

It seems some of us are around the same stage of the process.

Juno231 · 29/06/2021 09:19

@JeanieJ if anything is impeding fertility though you won't have to wait 2 years!

@dogmam omg exciting!! I wanna hear all about it Grin As for me - no consent appointment has been mentioned or made? But then again my doc seems to be chaotic...

JeanieJ · 29/06/2021 08:14

@PurpleUnicorn01 I started acupuncture a few weeks ago!
It's really calming 🧘🏻 and a nice treat every week. I'd also recommend.

JeanieJ · 29/06/2021 08:08

@Juno231 glad that things are moving for you & good luck with your first cycle! 🙂

@dogmam thanks! It's been a year ttc, so we're still in the early stages. We kicked started tests a little earlier because I had a sneaking suspicion that the appendicitis I had as a kid was impacting my tubes. The right one didn't show the dye flowing through on the day 🙄, but still waiting for my appointment with the consultant.
Hoping he'll recommend a lap to investigate further 🤞🤞

Sending you lots of luck for your cycle!! ☘️

My ccg does offer one funded cycle, but you need to be 2 years ttc which I think is normal 🤔

PurpleUnicorn01 · 28/06/2021 20:57

@dogmam yay im so excited for you! Il end up being a little behind you due to the downregs. I start my first injection Thursday i have to go into the hospital for them to show me. Keeping everything crossed for you. Are you have any acupuncture? Its amazing. Id recommend it for relaxation

dogmam · 28/06/2021 17:22

Hello, I rang the clinic and it's all systems go! I go for my baseline scan in the morning and to be shown how to use the injections etc and start first injection tomorrow.

@purpleunicorn01 not long for you to start. Have you been shown how yet? Im short protocol so straight on stims which is Rekovelle then Citrotide to stop early ovulation but not sure on how much, suppose I will find out tomorrow.

@juno231 Sounds like things are moving fast for you now that you have the forms sent through. I got two copies of the 'welfare of the child' form for me and my partner to each complete and that was all about convictions, history etc then another form we each got sent was to do with our research choices. We filled them in at our consent appointment, long with various others and the consent forms.

@jeaniej welcome, yeah if all your tests come back ok, you will likley be told to keep trying although as you have already been trying for over 2 year, if they have done all the tests they might officially class you as 'unexplained' and start the IVF process. Also, no we haven't been offered any tests on the nhs for DNA frag, despite having severe male factor infertility. Personally I am happy to go along with ICSI rather than do further tests.

@kay00 hopefully the metformin does the trick for you. Have you got sorted with your prescription?

@thislittlebird if I were you, I would find out the wait first. Also, going private doesn't always equal faster treatment. There's a lady at the same clinic as me who is paying private for ICSI who had her initial consultation at the same time and she hasn't even had her consent appointment yet, so just bare that in mind.

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Juno231 · 28/06/2021 16:55

@JeanieJ ah well you're stronger than me - I don't think I've ever had AF arrive without me testing first lol Grin

I started investigations in July last year and have had the lot done - including an exploratory laparoscopy and hysteroscopy. Unexplained infertility is the verdict! Just got my funding paperwork through this weekend to start the IVF journey :)

JeanieJ · 28/06/2021 16:36

@Juno231 ok that's great advice on the frag & SA cheers 🙂
It's just so weighted in my area in terms of testing that OH is a bit helpless right now. He just takes his vits & tries not to drink (bless him).

There hasn't been a sniff of pregnancy over the past year for me- not even a chemical, albeit I refuse to test because it would drive me mad, so who really knows.

Hope things are going ok in your journey?

Xx

Juno231 · 28/06/2021 16:04

@JeanieJ oh and a DNA frag is around £500!

Juno231 · 28/06/2021 15:59

@JeanieJ ah yes definitely get the SA results! There's def been a lady on here who was told their results were fine when they weren't at all and has had to file a complaint etc.

From what I've read/seen they don't do DNA frag on the NHS, it would have to be done privately. Tbh I wouldn't do one unless you had a history of recurrent miscarriages, as it could be due to that. But if you're struggling to catch at all then I would hold off on DNA frag.