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11dpo and still BFN - anyone else waiting for that line

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acupofteamakeseverythingbetter · 04/01/2021 07:49

Come and keep me company whilst we anxiously test together Smile I’m currently 11dpo, ttc my first. How’s everyone doing? How many dpo are you and when is AF due?

Lots of baby dust to us all x

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sadz · 04/01/2021 11:01

@ohsheglows literally that was me for the last few months i was convinced im pregnant ...but it was my body playing mind tricks on me and watching 100s of TTC videos on youtube doesnt help haha...ive just come to accept that each body is different some people get soo many symptoms and some dont at all so i dont even really track the symptoms anymore.

ohsheglows · 04/01/2021 10:53

@acupofteamakeseverythingbetter @sadz

no symptoms at all this month. The last few months were I've been convinced I'm pregnant I had symptoms like sore nipples, aches, cramps etc but this month nothing which gives me hope that I'm actually pregnant this time? 😂 wishful thinking I know!

sadz · 04/01/2021 09:58

@farfaraway1 yes definitely i feel like i was going mad overthinking everything...its nice to have a group which gives a bit of reassurance sometimes you just need to hear it from someone else xx

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acupofteamakeseverythingbetter · 04/01/2021 09:39

@Farfaraway1 I hope this is your month 🤞🏻 Keep us updated if you get any symptoms or just need a chat. The TWW can drag so much! Xx

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Farfaraway1 · 04/01/2021 09:13

Thanks @sadz! Have been through bit of a journey since Feb last year so definitely ready for a BFP! Until then I’m living life and eating and drinking all the naughty things until a BFP puts a stop to it 🙊😁

Aww thanks @acupofteamakeseverythingbetter 🥰 Although I haven’t posted much i feel lucky to be around such a supportive group. Baby dust to everyone here and looking forward to updates! xx

sadz · 04/01/2021 09:07

@cupofteamakeseverythingbetter yes i hope so too im so glad we have similar symptoms ...fingers crossed its a BFP for all of us xx

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acupofteamakeseverythingbetter · 04/01/2021 09:00

Welcome @Farfaraway1 lovely to have you here Smile

@sadz I’ve had very similar symptoms to you! Lower back ache just after ovulation for quite a few days and on day 6dpo and 7dpo I had cramping and twinges in the evening. I went to bed yesterday with a headache which I never normally suffer with so I’m hoping all of these are positives that will lead to BFP! Grin

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sadz · 04/01/2021 08:51

@farfaraway1 haha i think we all have gone through that phase... ive heard many stories where people dont have any symptoms so dont overthink that too much... sprinkling baby dust to you xx

sadz · 04/01/2021 08:49

@cupofteamakeseverythingbetter trust me im holding myself back from taking another test... it definitely isnt easy xx

i did note down a few symptoms a few days after my ovulation i was getting lots of cramps and i dont get cramps before my period... and really bad headaches for a week.. this week i feel like my appetite has increased and im getting lower back pain... but im just not sure if its my body playing up ...what about you? Xx

Farfaraway1 · 04/01/2021 08:39

Hi 👋 currently approx. 7dpo as of today. Not feeling very hopeful as no symptoms.. trying hard not to POAS like a crazy lady. I already did one at approx. 5dpo (yes I’m THAT crazy!!) and of course was negative.. 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

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acupofteamakeseverythingbetter · 04/01/2021 08:25

I wish I had the willpower to wait and not test early because like you say @sadz it does make you feel a bit gutted. I might try and not test for a day or two but Let’s be honest I’ll probably be back here in the morning with my BFN Grin

Either of you have any symptoms? x

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sadz · 04/01/2021 08:20

@ohsheglows oooohh I hope we all concieve ... baby dust to you xx

Just try and test again...i hate when evap lines come up ...hopefully youll get a BFP x

sadz · 04/01/2021 08:19

I tested on 11 DPO two days ago but because of the BFN i was just a bit gutted. I know if i keep testing ill lose hope.. so im just going to wait it out till this friday xx

ohsheglows · 04/01/2021 08:16

Meeee! I tested yesterday and got the faintest of lines, tested today and it's a BFN. I think it was an evap sadly. I'm keeping our fingers crossed for us!

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acupofteamakeseverythingbetter · 04/01/2021 08:16

Thanks @sadz when are you planning to test if you haven’t already?

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sadz · 04/01/2021 08:13

Heyy im on 13 dpo and waiting too anxiouslyyy ...hope its good news for the both of us!