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11 days late

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Aiskai · 18/12/2020 13:47

Hi All,

Just need a little advice if anyone has been through this, currently 11 days late for AF, done 3 HPT and all BFN. Have been TTC and have had a few symptoms, extreme tiredness, nausea, lower back pain, more frequent urine, also thick clear discharge (sorry for TMI) has anyone been through this and had a positive outcome?😞

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Aiskai · 10/01/2021 23:42

@IwillrunIwillfly still waiting... I know! But it's so hard not to stress about it I'm thinking the worst of everything on why it could be so lateSad

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IwillrunIwillfly · 10/01/2021 22:04

Mine has never arrived either so totally understand how you're feeling! I've never missed a period before! Im half wondering if stress could be the cause? But worrying about it is definitely only increasing my stress!

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Aiskai · 08/01/2021 11:07

Blood test has come back as negative really confused and stressed right now😫🤷🏻‍♀️

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DeeDee20 · 05/01/2021 14:14

@Aiskai I just looked and only been taking it since Dec 7th! X

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Aiskai · 05/01/2021 14:08

@DeeDee20 yes I have heard that to! It's crazy being a woman😫so much uncertainty!

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DeeDee20 · 05/01/2021 14:00

@Aiskai oh wow! And I had been reading that you should take folic acid months before pregnancy. Thank you!! Maybe this is it. Bloody hell what a mind field this all is. X

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Aiskai · 05/01/2021 13:57

It maybe the folic acid @DeeDee20

11 days late
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Aiskai · 05/01/2021 13:52

@DeeDee20 have you done any research on the folic acid stopping periods? Hope you get your BFP soon! Maybe too early testing

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DeeDee20 · 05/01/2021 13:50

@Aiskai sorry I meant last cycle.
Just the usual period cramps but weirdly some like mild pulling in my stomach area. I got a BFN on 10po but that was when my period was due. Literally so confused and never had a cycle 34 days long. I hope it isn’t the folic acid! Xxx

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Aiskai · 05/01/2021 13:49

@DeeDee20 I didn't start any supplements. Oh that is weird! Have you taken a test yet?x

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Aiskai · 05/01/2021 13:48

@Curiosity101 I initially called them as I was having bad groin and back pains, was worried it could be an ectopic pregnancy as not much HCG will show in your urine if this is the case so they referred me for bloods to rule this out x

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Aiskai · 05/01/2021 13:47

@IwillrunIwillfly it is the worst! I am due my next period tomorrow so getting a bit ridiculous😖 have you had any symptoms?

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DeeDee20 · 05/01/2021 13:42

@Aiskai hey. Just wondering if you had taken any supplements or vitamins. I started on folic acid this month and I ovulated day22 instead of usual 13. So one app tells me I’m 2 days late for my period and the other says I’m still only 12po. I wonder if this is to do with the folic acid xx

Curiosity101 · 05/01/2021 13:32

@Aiskai Fingers crossed you get some answers.

What are the doctors testing for?

IwillrunIwillfly · 05/01/2021 12:46

I'm in the same boat, 2 weeks late, negative tests and no symptoms of anything! Not sure what to do!

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Aiskai · 05/01/2021 12:26

Still no sign of AF! Been for a blood test today so will keep updated🤷🏻‍♀️

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Aiskai · 31/12/2020 16:05

@Tabbycat92

I'm in the same boat! Now 5 days late and 18dpo (confirmed with positive opk's). Very strange for me as I'm regular as clockwork. BFN on 8,10,12,17dpo
How frustrating! I've lost all hope of a BFP now though Envy
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Tabbycat92 · 31/12/2020 15:43

I'm in the same boat! Now 5 days late and 18dpo (confirmed with positive opk's). Very strange for me as I'm regular as clockwork. BFN on 8,10,12,17dpo

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Aiskai · 31/12/2020 12:58

Hey guys thought I'd update, still no sign of AF, now 24 days late! Driving me crazy did a first response test this morning but still negative so really don't think I'm pregnant now, any one else in this sit?Angry

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Aiskai · 23/12/2020 09:30

@xoriea

Morning! Whilst this can be true, that information is very dependent on what type of pill taken. I've been told by doctors that the pill I was on was one of the lowest kinds and that I can technically get pregnant at any point once stopping Smile
I have not just come off any pill or medication
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xoriea · 23/12/2020 08:35

Morning! Whilst this can be true, that information is very dependent on what type of pill taken. I've been told by doctors that the pill I was on was one of the lowest kinds and that I can technically get pregnant at any point once stopping Smile

AlexandraB2021 · 23/12/2020 07:57

Ladies it sounds like you have recently come off the pill?? If so then all online and dr advice says that it can take months for your periods to regulate. So your period is not late you just may be experiencing longer cycles whilst your body takes time to regulate itself post pill. Having read into this myself when coming off the pill a lot of articles indicate that it can take 6 months for your cycles to become regular. So that would be why you haven't had a period but are still getting negative tests.

Hopefully it regualtes soon or you get your BFP. Good Luck.

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Aiskai · 23/12/2020 00:16

@xoriea

I feel you! I am 6 days late for AF and 16 DPO and have tested every other day for 2 days before AF was due and all negative. I came off the pill end of September, had a withdrawal bleed in October and my AF was on time as normal in November so I'm not sure whats happening - very annoying!!
I feel you! Driving me crazy now😫
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xoriea · 22/12/2020 21:26

I feel you! I am 6 days late for AF and 16 DPO and have tested every other day for 2 days before AF was due and all negative. I came off the pill end of September, had a withdrawal bleed in October and my AF was on time as normal in November so I'm not sure whats happening - very annoying!!

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Aiskai · 22/12/2020 20:07

@Curiosity101

As I mentioned above, there's a chance you're not late at all if you ovulated later than usual.

It's also possible you're experiencing an annovulatory cycle where you don't ovulate at all. Unless you have any symptoms that worry you then unfortunately you'll probably just have to wait it out.

Is that very random because I've never experienced not having a period? Can it just happen at any point?
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