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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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HerringGull · 18/12/2020 12:43

Thread 2!
Will try to tag everyone who was active recently in the old thread, but sorry if I missed anyone. And if you're one of the many who got BFPs in the old thread and you're currently wading through the dark depths of morning sickness, feel free to ignore us 😊

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Cc7750 · 25/01/2021 19:59

@Pudding01@unCliche@HerringGull I’ve stopped getting message alerts, sorry feel like I’ve missed loads!

@Pudding01 sorry to see what’s happened not nice at all but your period sounds odd, definitely maybe test again in a few days and if not as you said maybe linked to mini pill

unCliche · 25/01/2021 19:10

@Pudding01 so your AF should be due today? Give it a few more days to see what happens then take another HPT. Although you did get a faint line before so the only explantation would be a chemical. But since your bleeding is light, I can't be too sure about that either! I wish we had answers for you! The body rarely makes any sense 😔 sorry you're going through so much confusion!

Pudding01 · 25/01/2021 13:56

@unCliche i wish I knew. Had I of tracked, I could have had more of an idea as to what's happening.

Last 2 cycles I ovulated cd17 and cd16.
This all started cd27. So if it's AF but a spotting AF for 3 days then I'm cd3 today. If not and something is up then I'm cd29 today.

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unCliche · 25/01/2021 13:40

Without the weird bleeding, how many DPO would you be? @Pudding01

Pudding01 · 25/01/2021 13:20

So today was some more pink spotting this morning and now brown spotting with some more cm. So would suggest I'm coming to the end of whatever this is...

My DD got me up at 5am and I went to the loo, so I didn't use fmu and it was BFN.

Cervix high and tilted back.

Feel rough as today 😕 Hot, irritable, bloated, gassy, very tired and back ache.

unCliche · 25/01/2021 10:24

Hey @Pudding01. Have you considered doing another HPT? It could be weird implantation bleeding. I think you'll get your answer that way. But sometimes cycles change for no reason at all. Or you could be going through an unfortunate chemical 🙁 how are things this morning?

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HerringGull · 24/01/2021 21:26

@Pudding01 sorry, never happened to me yet. So frustrating when our bodies do these weird things eh 😔
Keep us posted how you're getting on xx

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Pudding01 · 24/01/2021 21:15

Update - just want to check as feeling 'wet' and minus a small dot of pink it's like the watery cm you get during ovulation. Any one experienced anything similar? Weirdest AF ever 😅

Pudding01 · 24/01/2021 19:45

Makes me feel a bit stupid when I post the pics with the faint line on and then AF comes 🙈 Was so shocked to see her early, especially after what I thought was a BFP 😭

Very weird period though. Yesterday was so painful in my lower back and hip. Started with the painless pink spotting. Then more flow which looked bright red, but never filled a tampon. Then today so light again with a bit of red earlier then pink spotting again. Still not enough to fill a tampon. Really can't understand why it came early but is so light 🤷🏼‍♀️ maybe I'm just still irregular after coming off the mini pill in October. Not having fun any more though lol

unCliche · 23/01/2021 17:08

You poor thing @Pudding01. I'm sorry this has happened. Take care of yourself lovely 💕 sending hugs your way.

EllyNC · 23/01/2021 14:45

Oh @Pudding01 I’m so sorry. Maybe a chemical? They are so cruel ☹️ Hope you are able to do something nice for yourself today and have a good rest.

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HerringGull · 23/01/2021 14:42

Oh no @Pudding01 😔 Do you think maybe it was a chemical? I'm really sad for you anyway, whatever it was. It's so cruel when you get your hopes up xxx

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Pudding01 · 23/01/2021 11:37

I don't believe it... AF has come early! 😟
BD this morning and had some light pink spotting after, but thought nothing of it. Now full flow. I give up. Guess it was yet another evap line! Thought FR were meant to be reliable x

Pudding01 · 23/01/2021 10:00

I hate this bit 😅 So glad you can see it and I'm not going mad! Already convinced myself it will be the same as last month & AF will come. Don't want to be disappointed again 🙈 I will test again tomorrow. Reallyyyy hoping it gets stronger 🙏 x

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HerringGull · 23/01/2021 09:43

I can see that @Pudding01! 🤩

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Pudding01 · 23/01/2021 08:59

According to last 2 cycles she may come tomorrow or Monday, as I had a 28 and 29 day cycle. No idea when I ovulated to know where in my cycle I am 🙈 sickness went by late morning and I just napped from 3-5pm lol

Tested today, Cd27 and getting deja vu with the squinter 😅 Staying as casual as I can lol x

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EllyNC · 22/01/2021 20:54

Aww @Pudding01 I’m sorry you’re feeling rubbish and about the bfn. Like @HerringGull said guess it depends when you think AF is due? Hope you feel better and that she stays away!!!

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HerringGull · 22/01/2021 16:02

Oh no @Pudding01 sorry you're feeling rubbish. When is the date range you'd expect AF to arrive? If you're super regular and always 28 days I reckon it would probably have showed on the frer by now. By if you sometimes have longer cycles you're def still in!
Don't think the sickness can be related though... if you don't have enough HCG yet to show on a frer then I can't imagine it could make you feel sick? I guess everyone's got different HCG sensitivity though!

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Pudding01 · 22/01/2021 09:03

Oh ladies. I am feeling like poop today! Cd26

BFN yesterday (attached). Which I only took because of weird shooting pains. But today I've woken up hot and actually thrown up a little bit as soon as i got to the bathroom. So weird!

Is it possible to get nausea before a BFP? Or am I just ill? 😅

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HerringGull · 20/01/2021 13:19

Of course! That's my favourite part! 🤩

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EllyNC · 20/01/2021 13:12

Woohooo @HerringGull great news! Have you been dtd lots?

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HerringGull · 20/01/2021 11:38

Yes indeed, a nice 0.37 degrees since yesterday, which is pretty conclusive (for me) 😊

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unCliche · 20/01/2021 10:47

@Pudding01 how romantic!! He seems lovely! Such a shame you couldn't get to Paris but sounds like you got the next best thing. Congrats! Let's hope for that BFP to top it all off 😁
@HerringGull finally! Haha! Did you get a temp increase?

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HerringGull · 20/01/2021 08:47

@Pudding01 this is such a lovely proposal story! So many congratulations! 🤩 Hope it's feeling more real to you today! Have you told friends and family?
I finally O'd yesterday on cd19 - so much for a short cycle! Never mind though, we got there.

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Pudding01 · 19/01/2021 23:35

I'm over the moon 😊 Doesn't quite feel real yet! I'm glad we can both act like loved up teenagers at our age and as divorcees lol.

Now just need a BFP at some point in the next week 😅

Hope you're all OK? X