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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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HerringGull · 18/12/2020 12:43

Thread 2!
Will try to tag everyone who was active recently in the old thread, but sorry if I missed anyone. And if you're one of the many who got BFPs in the old thread and you're currently wading through the dark depths of morning sickness, feel free to ignore us 😊

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Pudding01 · 17/02/2021 19:31

How are you all? ❤ x

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HerringGull · 12/02/2021 11:42

That sounds sensible. Hope you are okay xxx

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unCliche · 11/02/2021 21:49

Well.. I think I'm kidding but now I need to double check which one actually is the vagina.

My progesterone test results came back a bit low yesterday and with DH's brilliant but scarce swimmers I just want to make sure it can still happen naturally before wasting anymore months. We'll still take this cycle off though.

unCliche · 11/02/2021 21:46

Thanks guys. I'm ok. I've paid for an appointment to see my fertility consultant. I think I just need to double check we're putting it in the right hole 🙃

Pudding01 · 11/02/2021 17:52

@unCliche I'm so sorry I have only just seen this and wasn't here to support you yesterday. Has AF officially turned up? It is a horrible roller coaster, this trying to conceive malarkey 😑

I hope you're ok and being kind to yourself. Always here for support xx

EllyNC · 11/02/2021 15:00

Oh @unCliche it’s not your fault please don’t beat yourself up!! Take a break if you need to to reset your head. Hopefully you’ll feel better once AF is gone too, such a horrible reminder and all the extra hormones. We’re all here when you’re ready to come back xxx

unCliche · 10/02/2021 21:56

We'll take a break. Good luck @Pudding01 💕

Cc7750 · 10/02/2021 19:48

@unCliche it will happen one way or another x stay positive.. I know I can’t comment now but the whole process is stressful and I can only imagine it gets worse! Stay strong, I don’t know how much truth there is in it but some say the harder you try sometimes the harder it is as you become so stressed x

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HerringGull · 10/02/2021 19:04

@unCliche that's not true and you know it. You've done everything you can and you've been really proactive with the tests and everything. It's a horrible unfair fact that it takes longer for some folks than others. But nothing is your fault.
You are healthy and you will conceive xxx

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unCliche · 10/02/2021 13:32

I don't feel deserving of anything right now.

EllyNC · 10/02/2021 13:10

Oh @unCliche I’m so sorry. AF is a bitch. Be kind to yourself - lots of wine and chocolate ❤️

unCliche · 10/02/2021 10:30

Not really. After the move we'll start fertility treatment. I don't expect to get lucky naturally.

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HerringGull · 10/02/2021 10:24

Oh no @unCliche I'm so sorry :( That sucks so much. Take care and make sure you have some super tasty wine in.
I think you're chart this month looks really healthy though; a really nice difference between FP and LP, so you must have plenty of progesterone. I know that doesn't make up for not getting a BFP this month, but hope it helps comfort you that it will be soon! xx

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unCliche · 10/02/2021 09:27

Cervix is wide open and I'm spotting loads so AF might even show up today

unCliche · 10/02/2021 09:07

Well I think it's safe to say that it's all over 😔

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EllyNC · 09/02/2021 19:14

Oooh @unCliche hope as it’s so different it’s good news!! Keep us updated!! 🤞🏻🤞🏻

unCliche · 09/02/2021 16:35

Thanks lovely @HerringGull 💕 let's hope it means something 🤞

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HerringGull · 09/02/2021 16:21

@unCliche oooh it's definitely a bit different to previous! That sharp rise and then reasonably level is just like mine was this month. Fingers crossed for you that this is the one! xx

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unCliche · 09/02/2021 16:13

@HerringGull It's definitely my strangest chart yet. It's the only chart I've had where my post-ovulation temp rise didn't take 10 days!

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HerringGull · 09/02/2021 15:45

@unCliche I think that chart looks nice and stable! Don't your temps normally keep rising during your LP, rather than being steady? Not that there's anything wrong with that, but anything different to usual might be a good thing! Do you have that feature on FF that lets you overlay previous charts?

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unCliche · 09/02/2021 13:39

Haha nope @EllyNC! Not when I'm expecting a BFN. I don't know what my temps are doing but my CM is currently watery, which means estrogen surge and my impending AF. Tomorrow's fall in temp should confirm it. So no point wasting tests 😆

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EllyNC · 09/02/2021 13:03

@unCliche you are SO restrained!! 🤣🤣

unCliche · 08/02/2021 13:24

Thanks @EllyNC! I think I'll test over the weekend if AF doesn't show up.

EllyNC · 08/02/2021 12:54

@Pudding01 that’s amazing!! Did you make it? Bet she had such a lush time!!
@unCliche when are you gonna test? 🤞🏻 For you both!!!

unCliche · 08/02/2021 09:39

@Pudding01 Welcome to the TWW!! May the next two weeks fly by!
I am jealous of that cake!! You should have seen what I got for my 28th (well I made it myself and it was pretty rubbish.) She must have had a wonderful time, especially with her mum transforming into a princess! Lucky kid! Do you think she'll be taller than you??

This has been the worst and the longest TWW ever. I just want it to be over but AF is due in about 3 days and my temps aren't giving anything away!

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