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HerringGull · 18/12/2020 12:43

Thread 2!
Will try to tag everyone who was active recently in the old thread, but sorry if I missed anyone. And if you're one of the many who got BFPs in the old thread and you're currently wading through the dark depths of morning sickness, feel free to ignore us 😊

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unCliche · 21/12/2020 13:01

Thanks @HerringGull. I just want AF to start and be done with it.
@Pudding01 yes, it is my longest LP so far, so that's good news. If AF starts properly tomorrow maybe my LP will be 12 days but I'm not sure if spotting doesn't count??
There's no more blood now but my CM is sort of a light brown, so I'll just wait to see how it develops.

AlisonWhite · 21/12/2020 12:17

Oh no @Cc7750 hope all is well x

Pudding01 · 21/12/2020 11:49

Oh no @unCliche, sorry it isn't the month this month. Such a hard process when it begins to look positive. But did I see you say it was you longest LP?

@Cc7750 I hope it hasn't spread to your family. Last thing you need, especially at Xmas x

HerringGull · 21/12/2020 11:46

Aww really sorry@unCliche ❤️ At least you've reached a decent LP though, that's such good news! I might be wrong but think I've read that 11dpo is considered long enough?

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unCliche · 21/12/2020 11:38

@Cc7750 oh great... Let's hope you haven't caught anything. That would be the last thing you want for Christmas! Good luck!

Cc7750 · 21/12/2020 11:35

@unCliche sorry hun, just think at least you can drink copious amounts of wine without the guilt at Xmas..

The brother has just called, sent home from work after being in close contact with someone that is positive last Friday. I was with him Friday night.
(It was at a builders merchant and a screen was up between him and guy serving so 🤞🏻but he touched his debit card)..
He’s now off for a test but this could be fun for the whole family!

unCliche · 21/12/2020 11:31

@Cc7750 yeah I think AF is starting. Nothing when I wipe yet but my cervix is bloody. I think I'm definitely out anyway.

Cc7750 · 21/12/2020 11:20

@unCliche but then my temps weren’t as high as yours either so that could be a good thing... I’m sorry I can’t say much more, I’m still a learner!

Cc7750 · 21/12/2020 11:19

@unCliche I also had a dip at 12dpo but I will admit it wasn’t as low as that. But one day dip is not a strong enough indicator of period or pregnancy... did you saw AF has lightly started?

unCliche · 21/12/2020 10:48

My chart btw

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unCliche · 21/12/2020 10:19

My temps pretty much plummeted this morning and it looks like AF is starting so definitely out this cycle. 11 day LP though

Pudding01 · 21/12/2020 09:53

@RR21 don't rule it out yet if you still have 4 days before AF due. It could just be too early to test 🙏

@Cc7750 thanks, feel so much better for letting all that pressure out. My temps went up again this morning, but I don't that means anything until it's close to AF, which isn't until Boxing Day (yay). Glad you're aren't having too many of the horrible early pregnancy symptoms just yet z

Cc7750 · 21/12/2020 07:35

@Pudding01 I haven’t cried or anything yet! But saying this, this time of year I am more sentimental defo and I don’t blame you for getting emotional about the new Xmas plans. A few too many wines sounds quite fun! 7dpo a few days countdown. I can’t help you with symptoms, yesterday my boobs really hurt, this morning I’m up without a bra, half the time I don’t feel any different!

@RR21 shame but your not due on until Friday, everyone is different but I don’t think I got my positive this far before my AF date. Your temps still high? :)

RR21 · 21/12/2020 07:04

Done a FR test this morning 11DPO AF due Friday Christmas Day and its a BFN 😟 🤞 next month x

@unCliche I hope you have a better result ? 🤞🤞💜

Pudding01 · 20/12/2020 23:58

Hey everyone. Just caught up on the thread... Looks like we have 2 testers tomorrow! Good luck ❤

My Nessie is still sitting strong lol Waking up to 7dpo in the morning. Went a bit hard on the wine this weekend after the Christmas news. First emotional response I've had since March. I even cried at strictly! Does progesterone make you emotional?
I'm in tier 3 still but it has changed the plans for the 5 days. OK now though 👌just want my BFP Xmas eve x

EllyNC · 20/12/2020 21:01

Ooooh let us know girls!! 🤞🏻 For you!!

Cc7750 · 20/12/2020 20:45

@RR21 @unCliche so we have two potential testers tomorrow.. exciting 🤞🏻

RR21 · 20/12/2020 20:05

Sorry I've been quiet just catching up on this thread now, its been a crazy weekend of work and being put in Tier 4 in Peterborough has made me feel a bit 😟 but hey ho. Hope everyone is OK 💜 hoping to do a test tomorrow as will be 11DPO.

EllyNC · 20/12/2020 19:11

@unCliche can’t believe how well you are managing not to test again haha!!!

EllyNC · 20/12/2020 19:10

@Cc7750 yay glad you are starting to share your news- so exciting!! And glad the extortionate prune juice worked hahaha! With DS I had ALOT of pulling and twinges in the couple of weeks after my bfp.
I’m defo having a drink or two over Xmas but I’m in healthcare and working part of Xmas sadly! Still gonna make it to see family briefly tho so will make the most of it ☺️
Hope everyone else’s plans aren’t too ruined?

HerringGull · 20/12/2020 19:08

@Cc7750 think you're totally right to tell them if you're close ☺️ So good to be able to talk about it eh!

So having said I have so far O'd on the last day of ewcm, I'm now on day three of ewcm post-O! I def O'd as temps shot up and stayed high for three days. I've had ewcm post-O before, but always later in the LP in line with second oestrogen surge. Does anyone know what it means to have ewcm on 1dpo to 3dpo?

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Cc7750 · 20/12/2020 17:33

@AlisonWhite brilliant news!! Hopefully you feel a little calmer about the situation. My Xmas at the moment looks normal on Xmas day and I will go to my mums but this could change at any point.

@EllyNC look at mine above, I’m no expert but I’d say mine was a gradual rise and some dips along the way! 1dpo talk about run up to Xmas nerves but look in oldern times we would have had no idea if pregnant or not so relax, I’m a believer of everything in moderation (just my opinion) so have a small glass of wine, enjoy the run up to Xmas and testing! I won’t lie I will

@unCliche exactly everyone is different, google is full of what things should look like but in reality dips, rises, it all happened for me. I actually still temp, I must stop and I will as of tomorrow (she says).

My cramps have stopped, although I have these mild twinges but I’m trying to not over analyse and the prune juice worked so I feel lighter and not sick now (sickness not linked to BFP). And apart from sore chest I’m all good! told my mums and sister, we are all so close I couldn’t not. Just dad to tell but I’ll wait a week as oddly I think he’ll be the one who is overly excited (but I can’t leave him out and what will be will be)

unCliche · 20/12/2020 15:11

@EllyNC Oh no, does that mean you won't be spending Christmas with the in-laws then? This whole thing is so frustrating. @HerringGullI haven't tested today. I'm waiting to see if AF shows up as last cycle's LP was 10 days so based on that, I'm due today.

Thanks for sharing your chart @Cc7750. It helps to see what others have experienced. My temp went down slightly today but looking at your chart, it probably doesn't matter!

@AlisonWhite That's so good to hear! You must feel so relieved now?

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EllyNC · 20/12/2020 14:01

@AlisonWhite great to hear that you’ve been discharged! How long until the 12 week scan? Sure you’ll feel more reassured after that ☺️
How is everyone else who got their bfp- feeling okay?
@unCliche did you test?
I remembered to temp this morning lol- was on the higher side but my temps have been up and down when I look at my chart. So who knows! Do people’s tend to go way up in one day or gradually?? I’m going to just roll with that I’m 1 dpo, lol!

AlisonWhite · 20/12/2020 13:51

@Cc7750 discharged from early p unit. Have phone call with midwife tomorrow then wait for 12 week scan. Had a little spotting this morn so trying not to panic. I had implantation bleeding at start so hoping just a blood vessel.
Hopefully the 4 doesn't hit Brighton, although it sounds like whole UK lockdown imminent in Jan.

Is everyone ready for Xmas? (However that may look) xx