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Scared to test 15dpo

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Leo090813 · 16/12/2020 07:52

Hi ladies

I know this may seem ridiculous but does anyone else get too scared to test in case they see a negative? I'm currently 15dpo on cycle day 29, cycles are normally 27/28 days but once has been 30! I have a first response sitting waiting for me in the bathroom and I just feel too scared to do it in case I see a negative. I've had no symptoms whatsoever, either for pregnancy or AF, I have had so many negatives in the past cycles and they get me so upset that I'm almost wondering if waiting for AF would be less painful! We've been trying for about 6/7 months now. Do you think I should just bite the bullet and take a test? Feel like I'm going insane Grin xx

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KSP8273 · 16/12/2020 09:22

@Whatthefudgecake You too Lovely. Here if you want to talk :)

Whatthefudgecake · 16/12/2020 09:21

Good luck to both of you! Everything crossed you both get your bfps! What a lovely Christmas present if so.

KSP8273 · 16/12/2020 09:13

@Leo090813 Yeah really regular, the last two periods I've had I've come on in the night so woke up to it in the morning. I'm due today and no signs yet.

Think I'll test tomorrow morning. Last night I drank loads of water before bed because I didn't want to test in the morning lol. When will you be testing??

@Whatthefudgecake Sorry to hear about that, wishing you all the best :)

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Leo090813 · 16/12/2020 09:02

@Whatthefudgecake

I'm going to be the same next month. Had a miscarriage earlier this year then a chemical this month. I'm not testing until the end of January when I'll be a good week overdue! If AF doesn't show which she probably will.
It's so hard isn't it! Fingers crossed AF doesn't come, it's so difficult to stay positive because at the same time we don't want to get our hopes up. My partner wants to test today, but I am too scared Confused
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Leo090813 · 16/12/2020 09:01

@KSP8273

I feel exactly the same! I'm 15DPO today also. I've got two first responses upstairs and had a faint positive yesterday but had a BFN in the evening.

Also, I haven't had any AF symptoms. I remember with my DS I didn't show a positive until 5 days after my period was due, even then it was only faint. So it has me wondering if I don't produce enough to show on a test.

Are your cycles normally regular? Is your AF late? I'm just scared my body is tricking me as I have once had a 30 day cycle which would mean I'm not technically late yet, ah it's so hard! When will you test again? X
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Whatthefudgecake · 16/12/2020 08:29

I'm going to be the same next month. Had a miscarriage earlier this year then a chemical this month. I'm not testing until the end of January when I'll be a good week overdue! If AF doesn't show which she probably will.

KSP8273 · 16/12/2020 08:16

I feel exactly the same! I'm 15DPO today also. I've got two first responses upstairs and had a faint positive yesterday but had a BFN in the evening.

Also, I haven't had any AF symptoms. I remember with my DS I didn't show a positive until 5 days after my period was due, even then it was only faint. So it has me wondering if I don't produce enough to show on a test.

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